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My boyfriends mother doesnt like me
Ok, first of all I'm 16 and a girl and I'm going to try to make this as short as possible (sorry if its long) So I've been dating this guy...we'll call him "Ben"....Well "Ben" and I dated the first time for about 8 months then broke up and got back together about a month later. Now we've been dating for about two months. I'm much happier with him this time and I really love him. The first time we dated I didnt realize how much I loved him. Anyways. A few days ago "Ben" had a party at his house and we went outside by the fire. His mom came out and yelled at him telling him that no one was suppose to pair of (He didnt tell me this before we went outside) but she let us stay out there. Well I was standing in between his legs because he was sitting down but we werent doing anything just sitting there talking. Anyways...Monday we didnt have school and he was suppose to come over but his mom told him he couldnt. So he got mad at her (Im guessing) and they got into an argument and he's grounded. Well today at school he said something to one of my friends (who has lied to me about stuff like this before) and she said that he told her that he got into a fight with his mom because of me. The thing is, his mom still isnt talking to him (almost a week later) and I know they've been fighting alot recently. So I dont know if they fight most of the time because of me or if it was just that one time. But my friend told me that his mom doesnt like us dating. I really love "Ben" but I dont want to cause problems with him and his mom. So I really dont know what to do and would appreciate the help! Please and Thank you!!!
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Ok , i understand everything your going through i use to think my boyfriends mom didnt like either. She use to get attitudes with me and just be so rude . It was just " her " i guess or to say its her personality . But all you can do is just show her no matter what shit she does to you thats its N0T going to break up with you Ben. Show her how much you care about him and that you would do anything for him. Trust me it took a very long time to even think she liked me again. Mothers are tough to cope with , especualy with their son's because they think somethings wrong with this girl , or that girl. No matter what , any mother will never find a girl who is good enough for their son. But like i said just deal with it , she'll realize how childish she is acting
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well you might want to talk to "ben" about this and get the truthful answer to waht is going on, and if it is fighting between you jsut ask ben if you should break it up for a little while so he can get back to gether with his mom. But tell him taht ou like him a lot and when things are gong better we can get backtogether. But tel lhim taht you do't wnat to cause problems between him and his mom. If he says that it is ok and that you don't have to leave me..i can fix this then take his word. Just don't talk to ben and see how he feels bout it. Good Luck!!
~sealgirl~
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