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suicide
what, and when is the best way to off yourself, like the fastest and easiest (without a gun cuz i don't have one) i've tried almost everyway (but a gun obviously) but i always get caught in the act please help me. even just telling me household items to mix for instantaineous death (sorry can't spell) and don't try to talk me out of it my whole life people had tried to talk me out of it and it makes no sense i have nothing going for me everything sucks my family hates and abuses me, i have no friends, my soccer team sucks, i suck, please help
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So you have nothing going for you... Have you even tried to change that? We can't sit around in life and expect good things to just fall into our laps. You need to strive to make your life better, not be a bump on a log who gives up.
Family hates and abuses you? Get out of that situation. Contact the authorities. NOBODY deserves to put up with abuse EVER.
You have no friends? Go make some. Don't give me the cock and bull story about how you can't, or it's too hard. If you WANT friends bad enough, you CAN and it's not that hard.
Soccer team sucks? Come on. That's a petty excuse.
How many children are born in Africa with AIDS... They are born with a death sentence... They would love to have your health, your life ahead of you, that you take for granted.
So you've tried almost every way and have failed.
Don't you think that's maybe a SIGN?
Hmmm...
Seek mental help.
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It's a lot easier to seek help and begin improving upon your self esteem issues, than trying to figure out ways to get kill yourself. Everyone encounters adversity, believe it or not, it's a natural part of life. Talk to your family about seeing a therapist, or you can talk a counselor in your school. Once you sit down and start airing out your grievances, you will be surprised with how much better you will start to feel, and the mental clarity you will achieve.
Start taking care of yourself, you deserve to.
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I doubt that everyone in your family seriously hates you. But please don't kill yourself. It won't solve anything. It will just make the people that love you very depressed. I know how you feel and I bet everyone has had at least one time in their life where they felt like it was the end of the world. I really don't know what makes you feel this way, and I wish I could help you more. If you message me, I will talk to you. Everytime I see someone who feels this way I also give out my myspace [Link](Mouse over link to see full location).
Please contact me if you ever need someone to talk to.
xoxo,
dottie4
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In addition to what everyone below me has said, when you die, you don't feel anything... Wouldn't you rather be happy than not feel anything at all? Everyone feels a little down sometimes. I was very depressed when I was a teenager, but now I am so happy and positive. I'm very thankful for the life I have. You really have to just wait it out and think positive. I guarantee you that years from now you will think, "What in the world was I thinking?"
The fact that you are on a computer with internet shows me that you are a very privileged person. Think of the children around the world who live in poverty, who never knew who their family was, has no shoes and only eats when they can FIND food on the streets, or the children who are sex slaves or sweatshop slaves. Its hard to imagine because you have never seen it, but you have to think about it...
Anyways, the chances of succeeding in suicide are very very low. YOU WILL REGRET IT. You hear about people who failed suicide, but never about their life after failing. Life after a failed attempt is MUCH worse than life before it.
It's almost impossible to die from sleeping pills or cleaning products because they simply just don't kill you, but they DO fry your kidneys and give you all sorts of physical problems that you will regret. You will wake up in a hospital, strapped to a bed under full watch. You'll probably be put in therapy for a while or maybe a psych ward for a little bit. You put yourself in a situation where you've pretty much abandoned all freedom. Is that what you really want? You will make life worse for yourself.
I think you just need someone to talk to, a friend. Right now it's all hormones, but trust me, when you grow up, you don't feel like that anymore. You grow out of it. Suicide is a very selfish act. It's ironic that you do it for yourself, but it's also harmful. If you're going to do something for yourself, you should be doing something positive, like rewarding yourself and feeling good. It's okay to feel confident and cocky sometimes.
Trust me, things will get better the longer you stick around. Things never stay the same. You won't be the same person right now as you would five years from now. Nobody is!
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oh my brother or my sister. listen. there is things in this life you must make a choice on. and this is one of them. and i ask you just one question. why are you letting people make you get so depressed, and sick of this world/life, that you wanna just give it up? you are your own person. not somebody's puppet. and from the way the last part of the question sounds, your YOUNG. you have your whole life ahead of you. and as i stand before God and all who will read this, keep walking through it, dont give up, and i promise it'll get better. also, i would greatly suggest getting in touch with God. im telling brother/sister, theres nothin he CAN NOT handle. but like the person before me said, PRAY! and seek God. another thing i would also sugest is seek counseling. whether its a teacher, or an actual school counselor. get some help. PLEASE. and my friend, if you need anyone to talk to, send me an email/question thingy, get in touch with me. and ill help you the best i can.
God bless
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Hey , its me again [ you replyed today i think ] . God listens to EVERYONE , and he LOVES all people. You think god doesnt listen to you when really , your not listening to him. All the time god gives people who listen a sign that he's there. Your just so caught up in the negativity that you dont stop to listen . i really wish there was another way we can communicate beacuse i promise you i can help . If there is like if you have any messanger let me know :)
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gahh, i have have tears in my eyes, and i'm at school right now..
i'm certainly not giving you advice on how to kill yourself and i know that that's just what you're looking for but no one wants you to be gone, even if they act like they do..
really.. talk to me, i've been through this and still am..
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I understand that you're going through a tough time. But listen to this (again).
You got great responses from people whom you've never met in you life, and not one told you how to take it. Doesn't that tell you that people do care for you? Even it isn't your immediate family, there are people who do care for you.
I know that you don't want people to talk you out of it. But here's another thing: people have told you not to do it, which shows that people whom you DO know DO care about you. If not, you would not be alive today if it wasn't for them and you wouldn't be on this site.
Now, everybody in their own way is strong, and you've got to believe that somewhere inside of you is this strong person, who wants to live. I'm going to come back to the point of helping yourself. You've got to try and help yourself if you want to get out of this. Simple things can go a long way in life.
Since you obviously didn't listen to the song which I recommended, here are the lyrics and think about their meaning:
"There's a hero
If you look inside your heart
You don't have to be afraid
Of what you are
There's an answer
If you reach into your soul
And the sorrow that you know
Will melt away
[Chorus]
And then a hero comes along
With the strength to carry on
And you cast your fears aside
And you know you can survive
So when you feel like hope is gone
Look inside you and be strong
And you'll finally see the truth
That a hero lies in you
Oh Yes it does.
This is a long road
When you face the world alone
And no one reaches out a hand
For you to hold
You can find love , oh yes you can,
If you search within yourself
And the emptiness you felt
Will disappear
[Chorus]
And then a hero comes along
With the strength to carry on
And you cast your fears aside
Because you know you can survive
So when you feel like hope is gone
Look inside you and be strong
And you'll finally see the truth
That a hero lies in you
Lord knows
Dreams are hard to follow
But don't let anyone
Tear them away
Just hold on, and hold on
And hold on.
There will be tomorrow
In time You'll find the way
[Chorus]
And then a hero comes along
With the strength to carry on
And you cast your fears aside
Because you know you can survive
So when you feel like hope is gone
Look inside you and be strong
And you'll finally see the truth
That a hero lies in you
Oh yes it does, oh yes it does,
I know it does, A hero lies in you"
Think about it. Please, do get back if you just want to talk. E-mail me at: triquetra_advice@hotmail.com
triquetra
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I'm sorry, but noone on this site will give you directions on how to kill yourself. Not only is it illegal to help someone, but morally wrong as well.
I would like to suggest getting help. You need to talk to your parents and have them get you help as soon as possible. Everything can be worked out. If you feel as if you cannot get help from your family, then you need to talk to a counselor at school. That is if you are a teenager. If you are not, then you need to go and check yourself in somewhere. You are a threat to yourself and that needs to be dealt with immediately.
You could be just in a rut and need to figure out what you can do to improve your life quality. If your family does abuse you, you need to contact the local authorities. I am assuming you are under the age of 18 with the given information that you have provided. If you were to get taken away from your parents, then maybe that is the best thing for you.
Maybe it is time for you to become spiritual. There is always a plan for us, and sometimes we have to stick out the bad to find the good. You have not met your reason yet, or else you would be contempt or already taken from us. Go to a church or some spiritual meeting area that you can find a peace in your life. If you are already spiritual, you may be in the wrong path. Find a different religion.
Killing yourself is never the answer. There are always other alternatives. You will find your calling and when you do, you will be glad that you never fullfilled your wish to die. I hope you get better soon.
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