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whats sup im kierra. i luv to give my advice to people becuase im good at it. i will try and answer ever ones questions as they are giving or asked. now some question i cant answer becuase the answer us always in yall face but hey some people cant see. i aint mean but i will tell it like it is so dont ask a question if you know you anit goin to like the answer holla!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Is it possible to love someone in highschool, get pregnant, and stay with that person?
And i don't just mean puppy love.
I mean REAL REAL love. We're you go through bad times and hard times and fun times and sexual times and aren't ever embarassed in front of eachother and tell the 100 percent truth.

hunny you can love someone no matter what. love has no true identity. just make sure you love that person for being them and no one else. im sure you all ca stay togather aslong as yall have trust and honesty then yall have the best relationship the world could know. just dont let lies consume you all

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before my current boyfriend, i had slept with two guys.
one guy twice, and one guy once, so only 3 times.
my boyfriends good in bed, but even though its feels good,
i never orgasm from him.
i've actually never orgasmed during sex...
am i doing something wrong or what?
i don't want to say anything to him because i don't want him to think he's doing a bad job.

any help would be much appreciated.

some women cant orgasm. plenty of women cant have one due to other issues. but if you want to you should try a number of new things that will make your body feel good. i do know that if he keep hitting your spot you will have a better chance at it then you think you have. just get a little kinky and trust me it would work.

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How can i make my girlfriend feel like the most im portant girl in the world?

girls like gifts and attention. tell her that she is your one and only put her first and you cant go wrong

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okayy
so there's this guy
and me and him were good friends
and we had this thing going on
and everyone started someing up to us and asking us if we were going out
and we'd be like noo
but now he seems like he's ignoring me
and i don't know why
i see him looking over at me a few times
from the corner of his eye
but idk
he still talks to me too
i know he used to like me
but idk about now
i think he does still
but he's sending mixed signals
today he was flirting with this girl right in front of me
and he never really flirts with her
soo i was wondering if he likes me and that's why he's avoiding me

maybe he dont think that you really like him. maybe if you tell him you diggin him then you would let you know how he feels. and try and be open minded

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I am 17 years old and I have a child who is going to be 2 in January. Well I have had unprotected sex with no sign of pregnancy neg. tests and everything. Well I have been dating my boyfriend/ fiance for a while now and we have unprotected sex often and if I am pregnant I dont mind but tests are always neg. I havent taken one in a while but I was always tired and smelled onions for a while and that is starting to go away. Now I feel like i am going to throw up but i don't and i have to go to the restroom ALL the time. I dropped my boyfriend off at 8;45 ish and had to go to the bathroom but didnt get to until like 9:20 then one more time by 10. then 4 times from 10-12. and its like i have to go so bad i can hardly hold it. Is it signs of pregnancy? and my nose is bleeding now and I havent had a nose bleed in a while!! PLEASE HELP

i think that you should go to the doctor and get a test just to make sure. sometimes a at home test could be wrong and you should get help

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Am i a slut if ive been fingered and eaten out at age 11?

when people are young they get to woundering about thier sexuality and its okay to try and find out ab out yourself but that is a little young to be trying anything at that time.

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17/f
I've had these terrible headaches, sometimes migrains, since I was a little kid. I've grown accustom to them,so even if it hurts, I learned how to manage, but sometimes they're so bad they get in the way of my social life. Ibuprofen doesn't work anymore, and tylenol wont either. I get sinus headaches, too, so I grabbed excedrin sinus headache, and it hasn't helped, either.
But all that aside, I was wondering why I get these. Can headaches be linked to depression? And what other remedies do you suggest I try to make these go away?

this sounds like a problem i had. i always get these horrible headachs. i could not sit up cuase it would hurt more. like a few months after this i head a sezier and thats when i found out i had epelepsy(not sure if i spelled it right) i got put on this good med called topamax it releves me of the head problems and i function better i suggest you go to the doctor and get checked.


or you could just have migrains they are the type that runs in the family so check your family history and find out if that is what you might have.

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Okay, so I had sex a little over a week ago, 2 times.
I havent had my period yet, but it shouldnt come until the seventh.
Im having backaches, cramps, headaches, I'm dizzy, and I feel like Im going to throw up. I am craving foods a lot but don't eat that much of it. I've been tired a lot too, and have been taking naps. This could be a cold or the flu. I stayed home sick today.
Could this all mean I'm pregnant?
What are the chances?
I used protection too.

you should know pertection dont always help. i think you should go to like a planparent hood and get a test. it is confedential and this is a real easy way to find out. or you can go buy an inhome pragnacy test (i would take two to be sure) and this will tell you. you do seem to have the symptoms of a pragnant person.


a condom can break or slip off so they are no always 100% if you know what i mean

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how do you know if a guy likes you??? I'v like him since last year what should i do?????

i know it might seem a little on the akward side right now but you have to take direct action. try approching him and show him the signs that you are interested in him. some guys like when a girl is kinda foward you know. and if this dont work just hang in the back you know be the girl he has to get to know.

you can tell a guy likes you when he plays with you alot and they ask you question that you know they already know. if a guy trys and make a conversation with you and you know you dont talk to him for real then this could be a real hint.


i hope i helped

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alright so me and my friend hung out with these boys named charlie and noah and craig. they went home and i was tellin my friend how i though i might have a crush on charlie and i could see myself dating him and then she told me to talk to him. welll now she talks to him all the time and she likes him and i think he likes her but i have started to like him a lot to :[ but i love my friend so idk what to do. please help?

well your friend is not a good friend becuase you already told her that you liked the guy. for her to go and get her feelings tied in the problem wee that to me is just wrong. i know you like the guy but in reality yall should not just let a guy come between yall. just sit down and talk to her and yall can streght this out

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can anyone give me any good love poems about love, being together, being happy with each other.

if you can try not to put in website address to them because i dont want to visit a website for poems/quotes.

also can you try making them unique not the same old ones

thank you!

i write poems and here is a good love poem hope you like it


my heart is open to you. no one has every made me feel so happy. i feel complete and in love. our passion for eachother will never die. when i see your face a smile comes upon my face. the warm feeling that comes over me when your close makes my knees weak. i love being with you. dont change for i love you the way you are and my heart is greatful.

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hi, im kind of stuck in a situation. I liked this guy for a really long time, since the beggining of the school year. He's totally cute, and a lot of people thought we'd make a cute couple. now im starting to lose hope since he likes one of my best friends, and shes known how long & hard ive liked him. But now theres someone else. Hes really sweet, and im good friends with him. I dont know if i should keep my hopes up with the first boy, or go for the second boy. Please help meee, thanks byeee!

first, if the boy likes your friend dont try it this could mess up your friendship and you dont want it messed up over a boy.

now, this new guy i think you should go for sit this could work out great if you play your cards right. hang with him and let him get to know you more.

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im 13 im gothic weve been bffs forever im always goin over 2 his house hes my bff its just friends not bf gf his mom hates everything i do im not any different around him no1 thinks i am im not i do hug him but as friends we talk about everything even who we like anything she told him he can never date me hes said to try and act different for a week till his mom likes me but just around her we do go in his room he shuts his door i could understand his mom not likin tht but its just as friends but lately i love him alot he doesnt hav a dad only a mom and 3 brothers i never had a bf ive never kissed any1 and his mom shows she hates me what do i do HELP srry if its too long

i know you feel like you should change just for his mom but he likes being your bff becuase of you. just cause she "hates" you dont mean you two cant be friends. my mom dont like any of my friends but i sat her down and explained that im old enough to know who i want to hang with and maybe he should do the same.

now, stop closing the door this is putting ideas in her mind that you two are messing around in her house and thats disrespectful.

the whole gothic thing might be whats scaring her about you. now dont change yourself just tune it down and she might change.

now, the love thing. telling him you love him as more than a friend might compermise your relationship so just wait and tell him but dont wait to long ;)

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my boyfriend broke up with me. and it happened a long time ago but im still sad over it. wat do i do? nothing is working? i loved him alot and it came out of nowhere. do you have any advice? plz help me

i understand just how you feel. breakups are very difficult to get through. old feeling die hard. you should try calling him and talking to him about the way you feel. maybe he feels the same way. i think of every relationship as a lesson learned meaning theres a reason we get with and breakup. thats just apart of life.


you could try and meet new people to keep your mind off him. go out with friends and meet new boys. if you still feel the same afterward then you tell him how you feel and you would feel so much better.

hope i helped

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im dating a 15 year old guy im 19 i know bad choice hes really mature for his age though any way i want him to get checked for any typ of std if i go in the clinic do u think that they will call the cops? and i will get sent to jail?

woah the age is way off but they say you find love in the most crazy places. now just take him and say your like a family member and your worried about his health becuase he just started having sex. now i dont think they would go all out and call the police or anybody. i do thing that you should wait tell he is legal so yo should die down a little.

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i love my boyfrined and we have been together for awhile but he is moving soon and i wont be able to see him after he moves so we talked about it and he agreed that we couldnt be together after he moved. we are both virgins and he told me he wanted me to be the one he lost it to. like im ok with it but i dont know if it would just make the break up harder or if it would be the same i just dont want to do something i might regret because i got to attached and cant let him go.....HELP


f/16

well you all are already so in love so have sex wont make things more difficult and it would be a memory that you two would share forever. you two would always be connect. so go for it. and remember no one ever forgets thier first :)

hope i helped

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I cant sleep during the night. My body wont let me sleep until 2. And i have no idea why. Im tired. My minds tired. But i just cant. i have to get up and babysit at 6am. So thats only 4 hours. Its makeing me sick. I cant think straigh or anything. I feel like im going to puke. My heads killing me. Like today i was babysitting. I kept falling asleep during the day. But once i tryed to sleep, i couldnt. My head started to hurt and everything. Please help. school starts soon. Also, im going to start taking sleep aids. But i dont want to become dependent on them. And i have no had sex no there no way this has to do with being preg. Btw, im 13/f. Please help.

i think you should take a sleep test like i did. i have narcalepsy (not sure if i spelled that right)there are certain types and plus felt that way before i had a sezier so yes look into going to get checked out. you dont want to be addicted to sleeping pills of any sort.

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my sister is older than me n she bullies me after she hits me she hits her self n gose tells mi mum i hit her
i told my mum but she just sed she dosnt no hus dun it
so my sis carries on hertin mi
wot shud i du?
plz help

i have 3 sister i know what you mean. get even with her she wants to hit and tell your mom you hit her hit her then. she suppost to be older and love you and pertect you and she beating you up. let your mom catch her hitting you. this is a great time to learn how to defend yourself.

she is your sister so notthing that will hurt her really bad you know. remember if she can dish it out so can you

but remember the bond between a sister can be strong if you let it.

hope i help

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14/male
my parents gave me a curfew of 9:30 becouse she dosint like we out when shes asleep (shes hella fuckin old) how do i convince her to to give me an apropreate curfew thz is beging to effect my Social life my freinds r starting to call me momas boy and when its 9:30 my freinds will say hay james its time to go suck ur moms tits plz help i need a convincing agument

first i will say your friends are rude and there just teasing you becuase your mom cares about your safty.


now with the curfew, you have to go about this the smart way. tell your mom that you are growing up and you should have a little more freedom then you do now. she cant shield you forever from the world you know. compromise with her. your 14 at best your curfew shoulf be 10:30 only becuase younger kids do come up missing in the last hours.
tell her you would be safe carry peper spray with you at all times.

if you dont already get a cell phone that way she could contact you when she needs you on the count of her being "hella fuckin old."

or you could take a forward apprach and give your self a curfew witch is what i did at your age.

hope i helped and be safe the streets anit safe

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16/f
i'm in love with this guy, hes the same age as me and everything about him is amazing, except one thing- he smokes pot. this is my #1 turn-off in a guy. he doesn't do it alot but i still don't like it. we've only been technically "dating" for a few weeks and i just recently found out- he didn't tell me, idk if he was going to or not, but i dont know what to do, should i stay with him?

you could still stay with him hun. tell him how you feel about him smoking. if he wants to really be in the relationship he would try and stop. now have a talk with him about how bad it is to smoke.



you should not break up with someone becuase they have a addiction. i think any addiction could be broken so try and help him through it im sure he would be willing. i know how you feel most of the people im around smokes weed and it aint cute and it aint attractive.

help him through it hun he will come around.

hope i help

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