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my bffs mom hates me
im 13 im gothic weve been bffs forever im always goin over 2 his house hes my bff its just friends not bf gf his mom hates everything i do im not any different around him no1 thinks i am im not i do hug him but as friends we talk about everything even who we like anything she told him he can never date me hes said to try and act different for a week till his mom likes me but just around her we do go in his room he shuts his door i could understand his mom not likin tht but its just as friends but lately i love him alot he doesnt hav a dad only a mom and 3 brothers i never had a bf ive never kissed any1 and his mom shows she hates me what do i do HELP srry if its too long
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The only help I can give you is this:
Don't change who you are. Not for a week, not for a day. Why? It would be a lie. It would be fake.
Be who you are, and be proud of that, no matter what anyone else thinks about it.
As for the whole door shutting thing, don't do it. Yah, you're just friends, but a boy and a girl behind closed doors is apt to make any parent displeased.
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i know you feel like you should change just for his mom but he likes being your bff becuase of you. just cause she "hates" you dont mean you two cant be friends. my mom dont like any of my friends but i sat her down and explained that im old enough to know who i want to hang with and maybe he should do the same.
now, stop closing the door this is putting ideas in her mind that you two are messing around in her house and thats disrespectful.
the whole gothic thing might be whats scaring her about you. now dont change yourself just tune it down and she might change.
now, the love thing. telling him you love him as more than a friend might compermise your relationship so just wait and tell him but dont wait to long ;)
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