about

I'm Heather and I can only be myself, I'm sorry if thats hell for you. I hate writing about myself. I've been through hell & back with my own life, I can come off as a bitch, but the honest truth is I'm saying what I think, being honest & truthful. 13 year olds coming on here asking about how to spice up your sex life, go play with some barbies. Girls wasting your time coming to ask if your pregnant, go get a damn EPT test instead of wasting others times. On the other hand, I am almost 100 percent positive I can help you with anything. I'm almost sure to answer the same night also.



Oh, and I also don't care what you guys rate me. I'm here to help people, not be rated. You can either listen to my adivce, or go get some different advice.

advice

i can't tell the difference between cellulite and stretch marks, like when you have stretch marks, because they are like scars, they are kind of bumpy and cellulite is bumpy fats, right?! so how do you tell the difference?
and how do you NOT get them? do you just rub oils and tat stuff? like keep it moisturised??

thanks so much!

here is a picture of strech marks :
http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://www.visualdxhealth.com/images/dx/webAdult/striae_3962_lg.jpg&imgrefurl=http://www.visualdxhealth.com/adult/striae.htm&h=240&w=320&sz=10&hl=en&start=1&um=1&tbnid=s_YhQOZ1h7HycM:&tbnh=89&tbnw=118&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dstretch%2Bmarks%26um%3D1%26hl%3Den%26sa%3DN

& here is cellulite:

http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://celluliteexperts.com/db4/00329/celluliteexperts.com/_uimages/Stage3.jpg&imgrefurl=http://celluliteexperts.com/_wsn/page2.html&h=540&w=720&sz=18&hl=en&start=3&um=1&tbnid=qixdMUYYZmzWaM:&tbnh=105&tbnw=140&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dcellulite%26um%3D1%26hl%3Den%26sa%3DX


streach marks mostly occur when you're pregnant, but you can get them by growing to fast and to get rid of them you use bio-oil, or coco butter.

and cellulite is just from being over-weight, which you work out to get rid of. or if it's severe, surgery.

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what is a good display name for myspace?

It kind of depends on what your name is.

Here is a website for cool symbol codes to add to your name, if it helps at all.

http://www.makems.com/myspace-tutorials_how-to-make-character-codes.php


http://www.bigbaer.com/reference/character_entity_reference.htm

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okay so i know you know who this is and i wanted to say sorry and i do mean it.. but you treat me like shit sometimes to and then you never say sorry.. will you text me when your up?

dude. grow up & leave me alonee.
that`s all i'm saying on here so my site doesn't get shut down.

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haaha. okay
so ive been breaking out on like,
the top of my back around my shoulders i guess?
its not like...THAT bad,
but bad enough to make me stop wearing lowcollared shirts xD
so, um, i have a pool in the backyard too
so i dont know what to do for summer.

so any advice? tips? pleasee help

It's either from sweat, which happens a lot to people. I looked to google to make sure what I was going to type was right and you can use pimple cleaner, whatever you wash with on your face, will clear up the back shortly, also. If you don't clean your face with wash, try soap & water, or buy clean & clear at a store, or even noxzema. Best of luck, have a great summer. :D

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okk so ur advice is AHHMAZINGG.
so i wanted 2 no if you know this quotee.
its like love all the mofos who hate youu.
but idn the restt! helpp :] i need it for my aimm profilee ♥ mackienzee

Love all the motherfuckers who hate you. They're your biggest fans. :] Lovee that quote; You can find an icon on photobucket by typing in "biggest fans" I searched for you.

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So I remember around 2 or 3 years ago there was this thing called AOL RED which was for teens in the category of young teens. The Welcome Page was this smallish box that you could customize with different themes, and it changed the shape of the buddy list and the wallpaper. It was really cool and you could customize it and stuff. Now, when I changed my account from General to Young Teen, it's not the same. The home page isn't the same, it's bered.com or something. You can't customize it the same way. I remember there were like 10 themes and one was Poodle and there were others. What happened? How can I get this again? I have AOL 9.1 and I thought it would be the same. It was really cool, how can I get it back? PLEASE!

When you change the settings on the head account, which is what either you or an older family member did the settings for the home page change. RED was for like 10-13 I believe, then which you chnage to mature teen, it does change I had AOL 9.0, and the same thing happend. If you want RED back, go to whoever controls teh settings and set it back to young; then you click settings for iming, if you have that and then you can still IM. You can get it back, just switch it back if you would want to do that, if you want to stay to a "general" you won't get RED back. Best of luck. :D

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im going to out of tonw with my best friend next week for a week. but see ever since freshmen year started we arent like we have been in 8th grade im scared were going to fight then no one will talk.. and im going with her family so then i'd just be sitting there ... wut do i do so we dont fight?

Me and my friend have the same problem. The only thing you can really do is just don't say stuff that will get her mad, and tell her what gets you mad so neither of you will do it, then you more then likely will get along better. Best of luck, and try to have fun.

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my best friend ditches me for her stupidd ass boyfriend. she goes behind my back & msgs him on facebook telling him she wants to do stuff [make out] when she tells me she doesnt do anythingg .. then she tells me shes to scared 2 make out but yet she does. ONLY WHEN I'M NOT THERE. then she is to scared 2 just have it be her and her boyfriend. what do i do i'm sick of getting blown off for this gay ass faggg...

Uhh.. your best friend, isn't what you normally call a best friend. Shes fake, and lies to you about a dumb guy, and you're both going to let this ruin a perfect friendship [before she got the guy i bet you two we're amazing friends, and now your not.. see what guys do?] Don't get mad about the messaging, unless she talks about you, or says wanna have sex or something. which still isn't really your bussiness, but that section is up to you. Making out isn't hard though I mean once you start doing it, it isn't hard to do, i'm sure she didn't really lie about making out, it just comes naturally, to most people. If she only does it when your not there, ask her why should you come or maybe she doesn't want to do it when your there so you don't feel like a third wheel. You have to think of her side of the story to, but she could be replacing you with a dumb guy if you think she is, it isn't hard to figure out. Ask her personally if you should stop being friends & let me know if you need anything else. :] Best of luck!

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ur best friend is pregnant . what do you do? just wondering. my bff is pregnant ... and only i know

I'd do nothing. What can you do? I'd probably help her with her choice, And I would for sure want her to keep it. :] I'd come over & help her whenever, but living with me I wouldn't be so sure my parents would let me. Your parents might think something different of her, but I'm sure nothing major will happen. Best of luck

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i have an essay due on this tmrw and i cant figure it outt ... so say your best friend right now is fine, pretty & everything. then she found out something was wrong w/ her heart and she was wasnt sure she was gonna live. would you be there for her 24/7? & then say .. she finds out she will live but her face like one of her eyes is shut a lot but she can still see. would u think diff of her? if one of your friends made fun of her.. what would you do ?

I wouldn't do anything. Me and my best friend have been through hell and back freshmen year.. more like drama year & we pretty much stcuk through everything. I'm acutally going to Gulf shores with her friday, I mean shit happens you got to let it happen. If she wasn't going to live, I'd probably be dumb enough to hurt myself, again. And I would be nothing like I am today, it's hard to think about, acutally. ABOSOULTY I would be there 24/7. Why would I care if she has a lazy eye, whats the big problem? NO I would not think different of her, even if this is for an ssay you need to think of your own answers and if you have to rethink missing your best friend if sh died or not accepting her because her eye is closed a little, you don't deserve a best friend because stuff like this happens.

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skool isnt out until june 13th but rite now there is a topless pic of me going around. WHAT DO I DO!?
-- PANIC

Just chill. Their isn't anything you can do but hope it stops spreading, if people come up to you, don't lie tell them it was an honest mistake. & if you're worried about your parents finding out somehow, let them know so you don't get in more trouble for knowing & not telling. best of luck, leave another inbox if you need more!

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can you help me with this song it goes likee if id write a letter to me then like You've got so much going for you its kinda slow & countryy. thanks !

Letter to me - Brad Pasily
Best song everr. :]

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what's the name/artist of the song that goes "lovee of minee, {i don't know the words}" and there's maybe a french word? it's an older song, 40s/50s i would say? it's a slow song, very soft with a deep woman's vocals i would say. it's probably in a lot of movies, i just can't figure out all the lyrics and who it's by

I was thinking Frank Sinatra until you said womens vocals. I went to youtube, and found this. Dennis Brown - This Love Of Mine

http://youtube.com/watch?v=Wf8jj8fPq7I

But that is also a guy.

Try google, I typed in love of mine and got a ton of old singers, but not a lot of women names.


If it is an older song try asking grand-parents or senior citizens around you. Sorry for not much help!

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I'm Heather and I can only be myself, I'm sorry if thats hell for you. I hate writing about myself. I've been through hell & back with my own life, I can come off as a bitch, but the honest truth is I'm saying what I think, being honest & truthful. 13 year olds coming on here asking about how to spice up your sex life, go play with some barbies. Girls wasting your time coming to ask if your pregnant, go get a damn EPT test instead of wasting others times. On the other hand, I am almost 100 percent positive I can help you with anything. I'm almost sure to answer the same night also.


YOUR MY HEROOOOOOOOO !!!

Lmao. Thanks. :]

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where can i get small but cheap nose rings at easy to put on and take off? thx in advance!!!

If you wanted websites,

Google- type in nose rings.

http://www.qualitynosestuds.com/


http://www.bodycandy.com/cgi-bin/category/noserings


http://piercingdot.com/


your local mall would even sell them probably cheaper then on the internet with shipping costs. Best of luck.

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when does ur summer start and when do you go back?
just comparing your skool to ourss

We got out May 23rd, and go back August 13th. :/
Have a great summer!

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i am always sweating on my armpits, regardless of the waether it a lott and is very visible up to the point were i can only wear black tops.
please help...wat can i do...i usesanexdeoderant at the moment...should i change and what too?
thanx

This won't be much help, If it is really bad your doctor could probably give you something. But one of my friends has the same problem, and uses Secrete Clincal, can be found anywhere; you put it on before bed and your set the rest of the day. It really helped her! Best of luck

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U R ABSOULTii BEAUTIFULL
UR BRACKET COLORS R RELE KUTEE TOO.

Thanks. :]
Not trying to sound to rude, but please ask something if you're going to leave a comment.
Have a great summer!

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i need some type of life quotee..
simple short and to the point. ne ideas?

So I have probably about 1,000 quotes about life, but this probably has to be my favorite, ever.


Life is:
an opportunity. benift from it.
a beauty. admire it.
a dream. realize it.
a challenge. meet it.
a duty. complete it.
a game. play it.
a promise. fulfill it.
a sorrow. overcome it.
a song. sing it.
a struggle. accept it.
a tragedy. confront it.
an adventure. dare it.
luck. make it.
an occassion. rise to it.
life. fight for it.



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so im 15 almost 16. gonna be a sophmore when we go back 2 skool idn wut 2 do anymore. life is weird & sucks i think im bipolar and im sick of my family & friends treating me the way they do. i made bad choices 1st sem and can't stop. instead of cutting or diff stuff i drink & smoke i no there wrong but i cant stop like it feels better just like ppl asked me why do i cut [in 7th grade] it gives me a feeling no one understands and makes me feel btr. what do i do, who do i talk 2? my mom left when she was 17, my dad is never around i kinda live w/ my older brother who has cancer right now... the only person i have to talk to that i really trurt and care for is my aunt who has a life b/c she just had 2 twin daughters about 2 weeks ago.

Well.. At least you know you're making the wrong choice. If you think your bipolar, no one on here can do anything about t hat, you need to go to your doctor. If your friends treat you bad, ingore them. I'm glad you don't cut, but drinking & smoking is killing you inside. I use to cut in 7th & 8th grade, and I understand when you say you get this certain feeling. Your mom is a piece for leaving you guys, she doesn't know what he has missed/missing. Your dad isn't right for leaving you guys either. I'm so sorry for your brother, just pray if you believe in God. From the info you told me, I REALLY think you need to go somewhere professinal like a help place in your state [if you write back, where do you live? I can find a place on google.] I really think your aunt would help you, and even let you live with her for a while as long as you don't walk in the house drinking & smoking and coming home at four in the morning. Your best choice would be your aunt, or asking your Aunt if you can go to place for a couple months to help you. Best of luck, let me know how things go!

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