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Member Since: February 17, 2008
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Last Update: February 21, 2008
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hi,
I was wanting to know if you get more points for a pike or herky in cheer tryouts. please help. my pike is pretty good, I can improve it before tryouts. My right herky is really good. Right now I am planning on doing a toe touch double whip into a right herky. If I can get more points for a pike i would do a double toe touch pike. Please help................. (link)
Pikes are an elite jump and are worth more. Good luck!


Hey, in 2 months is my junior prom and ive been dating this guy for a year and each year i always think of a cute way to ask him to a dance. but this year i was thinking maybe a scavenger hunt? any other ideas? i ran out of all my good onesss :( Thanks a bunch!! (link)
Actually, a scavenger hunt seems kinda cute. I'd do it if I were you.


Is "White Houses" by Vanessa Carlton a song where vanessa loses her virginity in a white house over the summer? Thanks! (link)
Yes..you're right on one part. She does lose her virginity in the song...except for it's in the back seat of a car...not a house. The title White Houses means "pure" and/or "virginity".


I'm 18. I'm not sexually active but I would like to be and I think it would make relationships a hell of a lot easier. The only problem is that i'm really afraid of the result....meaning....the pain and initial hymen-popping and whatnot. I've done everything sexual other than sex but I have NOT been fingered nor have I fingered myself or used a tampon. I'm uncomfortable with anything being inside. I'm worried that this will make sex completely unattainable.

Is there any way I can "train" my vagina to be a bit looser? Anything! (link)
Well...no..there's not anything that can train your vagina to get it looser. lol. Sex is what does it..not even a tampon..just because girls use tampons...it doesn't break the hymen..maybe once in a blue moon..but no. lol

Sex doesn't necessarily ruin relationships. Relationships are built on trust..not sex. There's nothing wrong about being a virgin at all. You're keeping yourself safe for one.

Don't ever think sex makes relationships easier..if a guy tells you that..he's full of shit and probably just wants the sex.

I wouldn't drop into sex just because you think that it would make relationships easier. Your virginity is a gift and should be waited to give it to someone that you won't regret. It's a tough decision.

Sex- your first time..yes it hurt...for some people it doesn't...but for most it does. And it will take a few times for your vagina to loosen up before it won't hurt anymore.


my boyfriend and i had really bad sex about three days ago.
he says he doesn't care and that it's okay, but i can tell that he's a little dissapointed.
any ideas on what i can do to make things better? (link)
If I were you, I would talk to him and ask him if there's anything new he wants to try...then if you're up for it, try it. You can't trust things that are written in magazines...every guy is different and likes different things. So, just talk to him..if you don't feel comfortable doing it, then don't do it.




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