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curfew
14/male
my parents gave me a curfew of 9:30 becouse she dosint like we out when shes asleep (shes hella fuckin old) how do i convince her to to give me an apropreate curfew thz is beging to effect my Social life my freinds r starting to call me momas boy and when its 9:30 my freinds will say hay james its time to go suck ur moms tits plz help i need a convincing agument
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Sounds like what you really need is better friends.
Try offering to call your mom at 9:30 before she goes to bed and let her know where you are at and when you'll be back.
Frankly, you are fourteen years old so a nine-thirty curfew on school nights makes total sense to me. Try to make your negotiation about a special event. Bring it up in advance about a Friday or Saturday night you are planning to be out doing something with friends. Offer to call and let her know what is going on at 9:30pm and see if she will warm up the idea gradually.
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first i will say your friends are rude and there just teasing you becuase your mom cares about your safty.
now with the curfew, you have to go about this the smart way. tell your mom that you are growing up and you should have a little more freedom then you do now. she cant shield you forever from the world you know. compromise with her. your 14 at best your curfew shoulf be 10:30 only becuase younger kids do come up missing in the last hours.
tell her you would be safe carry peper spray with you at all times.
if you dont already get a cell phone that way she could contact you when she needs you on the count of her being "hella fuckin old."
or you could take a forward apprach and give your self a curfew witch is what i did at your age.
hope i helped and be safe the streets anit safe
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I agree with the columnist below, your friends are really rude if they're saying disrespectful things like that. Just ignore their stupid comments or tell them to cut it out.
That being said, have you tried talking to your mom? Ask her if she can make your curfew just a little later. But just remember, she's your mom, she makes the rules. You're the child, and you follow them. She's only looking our for you and trying to figure out what's best for you, she's not trying to destroy your social life.
I don't even think she can legally make it much later, though. I know here, the curfew for anybody under 18 is 10:00. I don't know where you live, but make sure to check up on that or you could get into some serious trouble.
-Laura. (16-f)
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No offense, but your friends are assholes.
You could tell your parents that you'll be with other people, and you won't go to weird places.
Tell her that you will tell her the whereabouts of you, and if you change the area, you will text her.
There's not much you can do, since most parents are pretty strong on curfews, and because you live in their house, you have to obey their rules.
Don't yell at her, or get pissed off, that will get you nowhere.
Just be calm, explain to her that you're not 13 anymore, and also you want to spend more time with your friends,.
But the thing is that you're 14, so she can use that as a pretty strong argument against it.
Good luck.
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