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so i just turned 16 and i have only ever pecked a guy and been felt up. thats it! some of my friends have had sex and ALL of them have atleast made out. I always get the chance to kiss some guy and its perfect but I find a way to get out of it because im sooo nervous. I dont know how the hell to kiss like that! I once pecked a guy and he like opened my lips with him tongue i was like wtf is he doing so I pulled away, then realized he was trying to make out later on haha. It felt so awkward, and I wasn't even involved, which means it will be way way awkward when I am actually kissing back.
I feel so freakin prude and I have to turn down SOOOO many sweet guys because I am too scared to kiss, and theres NO way Im telling anyone I havent before, all my friends think i have because its annoying when they always talk about it. Once when i was drunk I was laying in bed with this guy and we kissed and he tried to make out with me, but i cant remember if we actually did or if i just pushed him away hah. so i consider him my first, but im not sure, i know its sad =/ all i can remember was that it lasted for like 5 secs and it was awkward =p
I know to just go with the flow, but any advice at all?! and also, what if you dont know when to stop since your eyes are closed or what if you miss his mouth should you wait to close them til your kissing? haha any personal experiences or stories are much appreciated! thanks!!
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well when hes using tongue, hes only trying to french kiss you (u called it making out but OK). when you french someone, u touch tongues.
dont be scared about kissing and sex. it never goes wrong in a true love relationship. if it does go wrong, then usually its because you guys are not meant to be. sry to sound negative and all but thats the truth. :|
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So, "any advice at all?" is what you asked for but was not what you wanted? If you are looking for a step by step manual on the art of physical affection, I feel sorry for you.
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Kissing is awesome and you should be kissing lots of people and enjoying it. In fact, I would say it is more important to master this skill and really know how to bring it, before attempting any other sexual act. A person can be known through their kiss. Kisses are very telling, so learn to talk and listen to them. Don't waste time on potential lovers that don't pass the kissing test. Bad kisser equals bad lover in almost every case.
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i know how u feel a lil well im 14 nd i could make out im gud at it but da first time he wasz movin hisz tounge nd i stayed dere lik a dum asz i felt soo embarrased but th 2 time it just worked soo dont b scared .... itsz eazii
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Kissing really isn't as difficult as it seems, i promise. The first thing is you have to make sure you have chemistry with the guy, if your not feeling it, it'll show.
Once your about to kiss, instead of closing your eyes(which can lead to you missing each other), look down at his lips, it'll look as if your closing your eyes. Once you start kissing, it's safe to close them.
Before really getting into the kiss, though, start with some slow kisses, no tongue involved. Ease your way into it.
The most important thing to remember is to keep it slow and sexy. There's nothing sexy about a girl slobbering a guys face off:]It's very easy to just follow his lead, until you develop your own technique. Trust me, you'll understand once it gets going.
As for the ending, it naturally happens. It isn't awkward slowly pulling away, and sometimes its even better. Leave him wanting more;]
Good Luck! Hope I helped:]
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You know what dont even worry about it. I do know how you feel, I get extremely nervous too. I have a date tommorrow, and the whole kissing thing is making my palms sweat, lol. Anyways, I think you should just be honest with the guy, I think it can be a lot more special, then pretending you know everything about it, and it being awkward. What I'm getting at, is don't worry about the whole kiss thing, and the reason you turn down so many guys is cause your scared. I do the same thing, then I think there is something wrong with me. Its okay to be scared, but you have to face it. Go out with a guy, and don't think about the kiss, have fun, and when its meant to be itll be. I guarantee you, when you go in for the kiss, you'll forget everything you learned or heard about kissing, its just magic, it just happens. I don't think youll miss his mouth, just in case lean a little bit, let him lean the rest, that way it wont be your fault if he misses. lol. Just relax take a deep breath, and let your first kiss, that you tell everyone about, be the one that meant the most to you.
Best of luck. I know how you feel though, cause I do the same thing, but I'm determined to get over my kissing/ dating fears. :)
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Hmm.. i'll try to answer each question lol.
everyone has an akward first, ill tell you tht much lol. and if you're afradi of missing his mouth because your eyes will be closed, dont pull away when you kiss. stay close to his mouth. dont open your mouth too much dont keep it tight either.. about that tongue kissing thing, if you dont feel comfortable, you should tell the guy, because then he can really tell if you can kiss or not. tongue kissing isnt my style, and i let my bf know.. so if this is a guy you plan to go out with, i suggest being honest with him.. most nice guys like it and dont mind. but, if this is just a random one day kinda thing, i guess just copy what he does, if you feel too nervous, just relax.. tell him, if a guy is evil enough to go around bragging about how good or bad you are, i suggest dont do anything with them. you can tell. good luck :)
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