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sex.
before my current boyfriend, i had slept with two guys.
one guy twice, and one guy once, so only 3 times.
my boyfriends good in bed, but even though its feels good,
i never orgasm from him.
i've actually never orgasmed during sex...
am i doing something wrong or what?
i don't want to say anything to him because i don't want him to think he's doing a bad job.
any help would be much appreciated.
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No your not doing anything wrong you just are unable to truly let your self go and trust them
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For mnost girls, it's not easy to orgasm. It's not because you're 'inexperienced' or that your boyfriend doesn't know what he's doing. Find out for yourself what feels good to you and then physically show those new techniques to your boyfriend. This will turn him on and teach him the ways in a very sneaky way! ;)
Good Luck!
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hey girl!
our advice?
don't sweat it.
It takes more than a couple of times for some people to orgasm during sex. It doesn't mean that you "can't" or that there's anything wrong with you, it just takes practice before you can become intimate enough with each other's bodies to know what feels good and what gets you going. It can be more difficult for some people than others, you just gotta give it time.
And don't forget: Don't tap it till ya wrap it!
LOVES,
Gwen and Jaz
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some women cant orgasm. plenty of women cant have one due to other issues. but if you want to you should try a number of new things that will make your body feel good. i do know that if he keep hitting your spot you will have a better chance at it then you think you have. just get a little kinky and trust me it would work.
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many women don't orgasm from just vaginal stimulation. It is possible to have a g-spot orgasm from vaginal stimulation, but that is a lot harder to achieve. Clitoral stimulation is the key. Sometimes a lot of foreplay and clitoral stimulation right before intercourse will help stimulate you and make it easier to orgasm during sex. Easiest way is to just reach down there yourself and stimulate your clitoris while having sex with him. This ensures you have an orgasm and it will turn him on watching you touch yourself. You can try being on top. You have much more control and can position yourself so you are getting clitoral stimulation during sex. That is my favorite position and gives the best results if you don't want to stimulate yourself manually during sex. Good luck, have fun and experiment!
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Hi,
you're right. It's not necessarily his fault. Most guys, especially young ones don't bring a woman to orgasm. Most of them don't even know where it is.
The best thing you can do is to tell him where it is and he can either manually stimulate it for you or make sure that he is in direct contact with it during sex. Sometimes that can be difficult.
However, if you choose to do it manually, it can be quite fun and it will make the sexual experience much more fulfilling. Try it. I hope I helped.
Good luck,
Ediemarie
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