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pregnant from being fingered?
so this guy i sort of like wants me to give him a handjob and he wants to finger me..this is a really weird and probobly stupid question but lets say he fingered me, would it be possible that if his hands werent washed good enough and had touched himself down there recently, would it be possible that i could get pregnant from that? i mean im not going to tell him to wash his hands..and what if its still under his finger nails..ugh im just paranoid but idontknow what to do..and i dont even know how to give a handjob?! he knows i dont..but i actually have no clue..what do i do?
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I'm so sad that the rumor that "sperm dies instantly outside of the body" or "sperm dies instantly when it hits air" is still be spread, especially on Advicenators. No, sperm does not "die instantly" or even "within seconds" after being ejaculated outside of the body. The sperm swim slower outside of the body, live shorter lifespans (A LOT more than seconds, believe me), and are mostly dead by the time the ejaculate actually dries (which takes more than seconds, right? Right.). If the sperm is on the hand then the body temperature can keep the little guys alive for quite some time. Sperm are amazing little creatures.
Just for reference, men who are trying to raise their sperm count are told to wear loose clothing on their bottom half to help the temperature drop to a cooler temperature. Hmm...doesn't sound like the sperm are DYING from the temperature drop, does it?
If oxygen (or anything in our air) killed the sperm then NOBODY would get pregnant. It's ridiculously unbelievable to think that we, females, have no sort of "air" or "oxygen" in our vaginas. Our vaginas are simply fleshy HOLES--and what happens to be in holes, typically? Air. And when you shove something in a hole, what is pushed first into that hole? Air. And, speaking of this, what are queefs? Air being released from the...VAGINA! Yes, AIR/OXYGEN does NOT kill sperm!
Look, if you're going to let him touch your vagina then you need to know some facts, straight up.
HPV, herpes, and other various STDs can get under a person's nails and live for some time since it's fairly warm and slightly moist there--the perfect environment. Even if you wash your hands the virus could be deeply embedded so far back that you cannot properly reach the full extent of it. The virus, of course, will grow a little under the nails so that it will reach outward enough to be spread into/onto various parts of your body. So, putting fingers near a vagina IS a health risk.
(*Note that virgins can have STDs & STIs too.)
Be smart about the handjob and use a condom for safety's sake. It might seem silly to some but only to those who don't use their heads when it comes to this sort of risky behavior. A condom doesn't cost a lot, the handjob will feel just as good, and the risk of contracting an illness is lessened.
It's YOUR body and you should DEMAND he wash his hands with soap and water after coming in contact with his sperm just to lessen risks of pregnancy. Yes, you can get pregnant if a man were to cum onto his hands and then touch your vagina with cum on them. Yes. Yes. Yes.
If you have any more questions please feel free to ask me! :)
P.S. Washing your hands under "HOT" water after doing this is NOT a safety precaution regarding STDs/STIs. As I said, the viruses can bury themselves further in your nail-bed than you can humanly reach. Washing hands under "HOT" water and using soap is ONLY a safety precaution when it comes to sperm entering the vagina.
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Sperm dies seconds after it is released into the air. You have absolutely nothing to worry about. The only possible way for pregnancy to happen due to this, is if he ejaculated on his hands or fingers seconds before he performs fourplay with you.
Handjobs are easy and not complicated at all. Simply hold on to the penis, (like you're grabbing onto a handle bar of a bike) not too tight but tight enough for him to feel and go up and down until the deed is completed. Good Luck!
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No, you can't if he has recently, but if you give him one and it gets in contact with his hands and he goes to finger you, there is a small chance of it happening. if you dont know how to give one you could look up tips on google or something, or he could tell you exactly what he wants while its going on. hope I helped (:
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First of all... why wouldn't you tell him to wash his hands!?!? Hygiene and being clean is #1 priority when it comes to any form of sex. It isn't possible for you to get pregnant that way, because sperm lives a very short time outside of your body. There would be a lot of scandal about "virgin" pregancies if it were possible haha! There's absolutely nothing to worry about, and about the not knowing how to give a handjob, there's lots of resources on the internet. Good luck and stop stressing so much :)
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