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Member Since: February 1, 2009
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Last Update: February 16, 2009
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17/f

Wow, so I don't like kissing guys because I'm scared I'll do it wrong.
I've only kissed 3 guys in my life.
The first was a peck and nothin more.
The second was tongue kissing, and I still didn't know what the heck I was doing. But the guy I was kissing thought I did because he was like, "I've never had anyone suck on my tongue like that before!" I was thinking, "What the heck? I didn't even know what I was doing, I did that on accident..lol." And then, I didn't even like that boy that I was kissing, I was just doing it so I could get more experience....
The third time I kissed a boy I hadn't expected it (we were in the moment I guess), I was laying on the couch and he was over me and he kissed me on the lips (a little tongue) but because of this wierd situation that we were in I didn't want to kiss him because I knew it was wrong and I turned my head. So he just started to kiss my neck.

If I ever kiss anyone, I know for sure that the person I'm kissing has to be very forward, and even then I'm thinking way too much when I'm kissing because I'm scared of what they think. So now, I'm pretty much saying that "I don't like to kiss" or "I'm not much into kissing" whenever the topic comes up with a guy friend. I'm sure as heck not good at making moves unless I feel like I'm the one in control. GAh, what should I do? I'm scared to kiss guys. (link)
Do not be scared thier is nothing to be scared up truth is pretty much everyone goes into kissing not knowing wut thier doing just play it up and find what you like and wut your good at some guys like things other guys dont but i sometimes when im kissing a guy kiss him fully for awhile then i put all my lips around his bottom lip only and kiss it and all the guys i have kissed have like that just go with the flow and everything should be fine


i need an idea for a screen name;
im a preppy girl just so you know
& LOVEEE r&B rap & hip hop so that'll
help alittle bit i hope (: kthankssbyee
-toriibabeyyx0 (link)
if you like hip hop then thats wierd that your a preppy girl its actually kind of an oxymoron anyways you should just use your name in some way pick a nickname or something take your first name middle name or your last name if its cool and just pimp it out




Does straightening your hair give you split ends...
If so, how do I prevent this? Can I prevent this?

Peace.
xx

P.S don't bug me if this is in the wrong category. (link)
If you straighten it to much of your hair is already really dry and you straighten it ya it will give you split ends i use dove shampoo and conditioner for extra dry hair it keeps your hair smooth and not dry so then straightening it wont give your hair that really dry effect it works for me


my doctor just told me im enemic. I know this means your blood is thin, but what are some side effects of being enemic ? (link)
Being very tired all the time being dizzy thats pretty much it o ya sometimes you get sick easier than other people


whats goodd for getting rid of blackheads? and also do you know of anything that works for shrinking pores? and any quick fixes for a bad zit? (link)
that proactive stuff that you see advertise on tv and in seventeen magazine all the time works i ordered some and its really great also that nutragina skind id stuff works ok


theres this guy who likes me a lot...i kno he does bcos he tells me like evry day but im not sure if i like him in a boyfriend kinda way?? anyone else felt like this before? and idk what to do bcos i dont wanna hurt him. (link)
If you like him you would know what it sounds like you dont like him in that way if you did like him in that way you would want to be kissing and touching him the moment he told you he liked you you would have that want for him since your not like that you probably just like him as a friend and your just ganna have to be honest tell him you just want to be friends




I have over 800 files on my iPod, and recently got a new laptop. I'm curious if there is any possible way I can get all my files from my desktop computer (where my current itunes library is) to my new computer, without starting over and downloading all 800+ songs again. Is anyone 100% sure of a way to do it? I tried something from ehow.com and it did NOT work...thanks in advance for any help you can offer me! (link)
Thier is not a way i tried the same thing and i end up loosing all my itunes downloads about 400 dollars worth of music it sucked sorry but thier is no way in doing it


Does anyone know which major celebrities have a celeb-buzz website? (or does anyone know where i can find a list of everyone with one)...i reallly love reality stars (i already know about brodys, the kardashians, whitneys and audrinas).

Thankss!! (link)
Perez Hilton www.perezhilton.com

tmz www.tmz.com


I am trying to learn a little Shawnee. Does anyone know a website that will transfer english into Shawnee? Or can someone transfer this sentace for me: Lets go Shawnees Lets go! Thanks in advance! (yes, I know that Shawnee is a dying language and there is "no point" in learning it but I have a good reason to learn it so please don't go lechuing me on this.) (link)
No but that is my name lol


I'm 18 years old and I've never had a boyfriend or even been kissed or anything like that. I've always been the "friend". Right now I'm really confused about my sexuality. I've noticed that attractive women make me really uncomfortable, and that I always avoid eye contact and generally just feel really awkward. I'm starting to wonder if the reason why I've never really clicked with any guy is because I'm just not capable of it. I tend to not be very feminine and my wardrobe consists of t shirts and jeans, unlike my friends who are all into designer fashion and trends. I keep telling myself that I'm not attracted to girls but I'm not sure. There is a guy that I kind of had a crush on and I still think about him a lot but I don't know if I have feelings for him or not. I'm just really confused right now and I feel like I can't talk to anyone about it. I really need some advice. (link)
hey if i was you i wouldn't worry about it you are either just really shy so thats why you are afraid or you are just to worried about it it is making you afraid. You might be strait you just havnt met the guy for you yet or a guy who really interested you or you might be bi but it doesnt matter now a days you can be who you want to be so just live your life dont be afraid of falling for girls or guys when you meet someone you want to be with and love and are extremly attracted to you it wont matter some straight people date people of the same sex for fun dont worry about it be yourself


Ok so i am on student council and our band won't participate in our pep rally so, we are putting together a cd and need some song ideas. Does anyone have any good song ideas that students could really get pumped up and have fun with?
Thanks so much!!!! (link)
Get some awsome fun crazy stupid songs that everyone will be laughing and jumping to
Solider boy tell em--- Solider boy
Sir mix A lot- Baby got back
Right said Fred-- I'm too sexy
the eye of the tiger song but idk who sings it and pretty fly for a white guy stuff like that thats just fun and funny


i skip school, a lot. this week i skipped monday, went in late tuesday, went wedensday, thursday i left after lunch, and today (friday) i didnt go at all.. this is a normal week to me. i dont think this whole semester i havent skipped ATLEAST a half a day a week. my mom gets really mad at me and she yells at me and threatens to take away my phone and car, she already took away my computer, but honestly the yelling just makes me not want to go more. i just dont have any motivation to go.. im 17 years old and i know its important, so dont tell me how its important to finish highschool. i know it is! and i just pretty much feel like all i need to do is pass and ill be okay because i already am going to a community college after highschool for 2 years and i know my grades dont matter for there. i just really want to do better though! i tell myself every week that ill do better next week. i wont skip next week. but then i just wakeup and im super tired and i just donnnnt wanta go to the stupid place. any helpppp plzz?! (link)
hey i'm 16 female and i have the same problem i don't go to school much at all my mom does the same thing to me and ya i was planning on going to a community college to but the thing that made me start going a bit more is a chance to get out of my hometown because i hate it hear and so i tried a little harder and i am trying to get better grades so i can maybe get into a better college and get further away from wear i am so that could be your modivation if you hate wear your at and want to leave the town


so i have gym class right now,
and it's winter, so my legs are realllly reallly white :[
is there any tanning lotion or anything i can put on the that doesn't look too fake to make them look tanner in shorts? (link)
I dont know if any of that lotion would work but if you wanted to you could go tan in a tanning bed thats if you felt confortable doing so


Okay so this is kind of an akward question
But are vaginas supposed to be wet?
I really want my boyfriend to finger me
But I don't know if something wrong or not. (link)
Ya they are suppose to be wet that term getting wet comes from when ur sexually aroused that will happen when your guy fingers you so ya its fine


Does anyone know any good songs with piano in them and that are soft and melodic. With lyrics of course. EX: 100 years by five for fighting, Boston by Augustana. I'd greatly appreciate it. (link)
Pretty much anything by the frey You found me In over my head How to save a life


hey so i think i wanna do the talent show this year but i need a good song to sing...does anyone have any good ones? im 16/f..if that matters. (link)
Sing Thinking of You by katy perry its a beautiful song


What are some good country music.
Music that sounds like:

Picture - Kid Rock & Cheryl Crow
Simple Love - Allison Krauss

Please no Carrie Underwood or Taylor Swift stuff. (link)
Country music sucks but if you like that stuff you might like Brad paisly i just like him cause he is hot


hi im looking for a song when ur feeling pretty down n depressed
sorry if summink like this has been asked before, ( i am currently seraching to ssee if it has)
thanks
vikki (link)
Jesus Christ by Brand New ya it sounds wierd but its not a christian song or anything it is the most depressing song ever


what are some really cute love songs?
about like being happy and all that,
none of those sad ones please.

thanks. =) (link)
The Police- Every Breathe you take

Edwin McCaine- Ill Be

The Goo Goo Dolls-Iris

Sara Evans- Real fine place to start



how common is it for guys to shave "down there" ? (link)
DONT DO IT most girls find it a turn off its natural and fine




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