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Confidence in Kissing
17/f
Wow, so I don't like kissing guys because I'm scared I'll do it wrong.
I've only kissed 3 guys in my life.
The first was a peck and nothin more.
The second was tongue kissing, and I still didn't know what the heck I was doing. But the guy I was kissing thought I did because he was like, "I've never had anyone suck on my tongue like that before!" I was thinking, "What the heck? I didn't even know what I was doing, I did that on accident..lol." And then, I didn't even like that boy that I was kissing, I was just doing it so I could get more experience....
The third time I kissed a boy I hadn't expected it (we were in the moment I guess), I was laying on the couch and he was over me and he kissed me on the lips (a little tongue) but because of this wierd situation that we were in I didn't want to kiss him because I knew it was wrong and I turned my head. So he just started to kiss my neck.
If I ever kiss anyone, I know for sure that the person I'm kissing has to be very forward, and even then I'm thinking way too much when I'm kissing because I'm scared of what they think. So now, I'm pretty much saying that "I don't like to kiss" or "I'm not much into kissing" whenever the topic comes up with a guy friend. I'm sure as heck not good at making moves unless I feel like I'm the one in control. GAh, what should I do? I'm scared to kiss guys.
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Kissing is nothing to be afraid of!Just let yourself go and don't think about what that guy will say.If he says something,think about it later.The very important thing when it comes to kissing is that you feel comfortable and that you have feelings for that person and then,only then will you be able to fully relax and enjoy the kiss...Don't worry,you can do it!It's nothing hard trust me.Kissing feels good and it can be fun!
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Do not be scared thier is nothing to be scared up truth is pretty much everyone goes into kissing not knowing wut thier doing just play it up and find what you like and wut your good at some guys like things other guys dont but i sometimes when im kissing a guy kiss him fully for awhile then i put all my lips around his bottom lip only and kiss it and all the guys i have kissed have like that just go with the flow and everything should be fine
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