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so the night of january 1st, my best friend had a party because her parents were out of town.
there was a bunch of people that i knew of but didn't really know there.
as soon as i walked in the door there was this kid singing in the other room, and i saw him and my jaw just dropped, i thought he was just perfect.
he was cute and had good style and a really good singer.
so the night went on and later we played kings cup.
well me and this kid ended up sitting next to each other in the circle, and we were just goofing around and all that all night.
well we all got drunk and all that, and i headed to my friend's sister's room to sleep.
well this kid followed me in there as we were talking and climbed into bed with me.
me and my other friend had planned to sleep in there but she wasn't there yet so i figured what the hell.
so i just laid in his arms all night and talked to him until 7am when everyone else woke up.
it was really one of the nicest times i've ever had.
then his parents called and he ended up having to leave in a hurry and never got to say goodbye.
but we got in touch that next day and found out that my friend had been planning to have another party on the 3rd, so we planned to both go.
but he got in trouble and wasn't allowed out, but he snuck out just so he could go to the party and see me.
we were beer pong partners then we ended up going back to the same bedroom we were in before.
we ended up sleeping together (keep in mind i was drunk but not drunk enough to not know what i was doing, and i wasn't a virgin).
then i walked him to the end of the street and we just stood under the street light for like a half hour saying goodbye, because everytime one of us would go to walk away, the other one would pull us back and kiss us again.
but from that day on we were acting like we were dating, talking on the phone every night, kissing in school, still hooking up and sleeping together, hanging out all the time, all that.
like everyone thought we were dating.
then the other night he asked me out and i said yes..
anyway, ever since that first night, i thought i loved him, and i still do think that, but i don't know what to do.
he's 17 and i'm 15, and i know he really likes me,
he's not only my boyfriend he's like my best friend,
but i'm afraid to tell him that i love him because i don't want him to break up with me.
do you think i really love him? or should i not tell him or what?
please help. =/ (link)
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clearly you are into the guy. but its only been a month. wait it out. later on in the relationship you can tell him but right now just isnt the way to go. you dont want to scare away a guy like that. he seems really sweet...so just wait it out. you will know the right time to tell him.
Hope i helped,
Sydney
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Ok so I have this boyfriend and he is the same age as me, so he is definitely an immature guy. Most guys my age are. This is just a curious question. I don't know why but every guy I've liked were so immature but I liked it. Because they made me laugh. I know most guys are immature and will always be but some guys I know don't act like that. Its just weird because most girls complain and stuff like, "he is so immature" But I like it? I don't get whats up with that. Sorry for this stupid question but I was just curious. Thanks! (link)
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I love this question. my boyfriend is 20 years old and still acts like a total idiot...and i love him for it. if thats the way you like him...then so be it. most women/girls want to grow up so fast and i think thats wrong. thats why girls are like " he is so immature".
I hope i helped,
Sydney
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my boyfriend and i have been fighting alot in the last month. its always about him not being in high school anymore and that he thinks that i should be with someone in high school. but i dont want to be with anyone but him. i love him and i cant imagine myself with anyone else. well just the other day he was being really mean all day. he had to go to work so i thought he would be fine when he got off (11:30. i even asked my dad if i could stay out later (my curfew is midnight but he said 1).
he picked me up after work and he was still being mean and everything. so when 1 rolled around he basically ran out to his car and right when i got in he pulled out and drove to my house. well we talked and i told him that i didnt know what his deal was and that i wasnt going to put up with it and that i wasnt going over there tomorrow. so he told me that i was being childish and maybe we shouldnt be together. i told him that he had been saying that alot lately and he said that hes saying it alot cuz he doesnt feel a spark anymore. so we just fought all night and finally he was like im going to bed.
ive never had anyone like him. he really is a great guy but for some reason hes acting like this and he never has before. everytime we fight i feel like i come closer to losing him and i dont want that. ive never been good with guys to begin with and he makes me feel special and i really do love him with all my heart. i just feel like i screwed up somewhere and i cant fix it. ive never been able to please anyone or do anything right. and this time ive finally found someone that i thought i could please and i cant even do that.
i just want to know what i should do. btw we have been together for a year and 4 months. 16/f (link)
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okay i dont think he is worth all the pain you have been going through. i know that you love him and what not but you have to think about what he is actually saying to you. he is saying that he doesnt want to be with you... you are sixteen and prolly a very lovely person. i say you go out and find someone who will appreciate you. me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years and 3 months...and he broke up with me once and it was the best thing to happen to us. we realized that we really did want to be together. maybe thats what you guys need...space...its not a bad thing. and if you give him space and he doesnt come back he isnt worth it for sure.
hope i helped,
Sydney
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