Question Posted Saturday January 31 2009, 10:07 pm
so the night of january 1st, my best friend had a party because her parents were out of town.
there was a bunch of people that i knew of but didn't really know there.
as soon as i walked in the door there was this kid singing in the other room, and i saw him and my jaw just dropped, i thought he was just perfect.
he was cute and had good style and a really good singer.
so the night went on and later we played kings cup.
well me and this kid ended up sitting next to each other in the circle, and we were just goofing around and all that all night.
well we all got drunk and all that, and i headed to my friend's sister's room to sleep.
well this kid followed me in there as we were talking and climbed into bed with me.
me and my other friend had planned to sleep in there but she wasn't there yet so i figured what the hell.
so i just laid in his arms all night and talked to him until 7am when everyone else woke up.
it was really one of the nicest times i've ever had.
then his parents called and he ended up having to leave in a hurry and never got to say goodbye.
but we got in touch that next day and found out that my friend had been planning to have another party on the 3rd, so we planned to both go.
but he got in trouble and wasn't allowed out, but he snuck out just so he could go to the party and see me.
we were beer pong partners then we ended up going back to the same bedroom we were in before.
we ended up sleeping together (keep in mind i was drunk but not drunk enough to not know what i was doing, and i wasn't a virgin).
then i walked him to the end of the street and we just stood under the street light for like a half hour saying goodbye, because everytime one of us would go to walk away, the other one would pull us back and kiss us again.
but from that day on we were acting like we were dating, talking on the phone every night, kissing in school, still hooking up and sleeping together, hanging out all the time, all that.
like everyone thought we were dating.
then the other night he asked me out and i said yes..
anyway, ever since that first night, i thought i loved him, and i still do think that, but i don't know what to do.
he's 17 and i'm 15, and i know he really likes me,
he's not only my boyfriend he's like my best friend,
but i'm afraid to tell him that i love him because i don't want him to break up with me.
do you think i really love him? or should i not tell him or what?
sydeh answered Sunday February 1 2009, 8:10 pm: clearly you are into the guy. but its only been a month. wait it out. later on in the relationship you can tell him but right now just isnt the way to go. you dont want to scare away a guy like that. he seems really sweet...so just wait it out. you will know the right time to tell him.
ShortyBug answered Sunday February 1 2009, 9:38 am: Well i cant answer the part whether you love him or not... but i do think that you just really like him.. not just love him.. but it could be love.. but i've had a boyfriend tha was 19 and im 14 and we were dating and i fell in love with him and now that we broke up im still and its hrd to let go.. so you might love him.. i dont know.. but dont tell him that you love him because if he loved you then he would tell you somehow and then if he tells you then you can say it back if you want or if you do love him.. but if yall had "sex" then he might just like you for that and acting that he likes you.. so you might want to check on that because most boys love to have sex and if you will have sex with them they will act sweet and that they are not players and perverts just so that they can get sex.. but i wouldnt tell him that you love him yet and just wait..
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