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help, pleaseee!


Question Posted Sunday July 27 2008, 10:54 pm

hi, im kind of stuck in a situation. I liked this guy for a really long time, since the beggining of the school year. He's totally cute, and a lot of people thought we'd make a cute couple. now im starting to lose hope since he likes one of my best friends, and shes known how long & hard ive liked him. But now theres someone else. Hes really sweet, and im good friends with him. I dont know if i should keep my hopes up with the first boy, or go for the second boy. Please help meee, thanks byeee!

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felishax22 answered Monday July 28 2008, 12:32 am:
first guy likes your best friend? well if she was your best friend she wouldnt go for him. Just forget about the first guy hes history.
I think you should go for the second guy he is one of your best friends if your best friends with someone it means you have alot in common and if u date him you two will understand each other and be togeather longer:)
GO FOR IT!

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disordergirl answered Monday July 28 2008, 12:17 am:
Option 1: Why not go for both? Why do you have to pick one to 'go for'? Try flirting or subtle techniques with both boys and see which (or if both) flirt back. If both seem to be interested then you need to decide which one you like more otherwise go for the one that likes you back.

Option 2: If you'd rather take a more direct approach or pick just one guy then for for the second boy as the first boy seems to be occupied by your best friend. Since he is one of your good friends, drop subtle hints and if that doesn't work as guys are oblivious then tell him how you feel and go from there.

Personally, I'd go with option 2 seeing as option 1 could cause drama, but its up to you :D

Hope this helped atleast a little bit :)

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babykiwi1 answered Sunday July 27 2008, 11:59 pm:
first, if the boy likes your friend dont try it this could mess up your friendship and you dont want it messed up over a boy.

now, this new guy i think you should go for sit this could work out great if you play your cards right. hang with him and let him get to know you more.

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kaytea answered Sunday July 27 2008, 11:29 pm:
Everything happens for a reason. I say, go for the second guy. Don't miss out on something that could change your life. It could be amazing, you'll only learn from it, so why not?

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