my boyfriend broke up with me. and it happened a long time ago but im still sad over it. wat do i do? nothing is working? i loved him alot and it came out of nowhere. do you have any advice? plz help me
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? missmad127 answered Monday July 28 2008, 12:25 am: I would say if you don't understand what happened try to talk to him about it to get some closure from the relationship and then meet new people and get your mind off of him. You will eventually find someone special and when you do you won't even think about that old ex. think about all the bad things about him or the things you never really liked and be like now i can go find myself a guy who doesn't do this or isn't like that.
babykiwi1 answered Sunday July 27 2008, 11:50 pm: i understand just how you feel. breakups are very difficult to get through. old feeling die hard. you should try calling him and talking to him about the way you feel. maybe he feels the same way. i think of every relationship as a lesson learned meaning theres a reason we get with and breakup. thats just apart of life.
you could try and meet new people to keep your mind off him. go out with friends and meet new boys. if you still feel the same afterward then you tell him how you feel and you would feel so much better.
Shaybo20 answered Sunday July 27 2008, 11:39 pm: Break ups can be extremely difficult to get through. The only thing that you can really do is try to find somethin that can get your mind off of him. If that is not optional than maybe you should talk to him. Tell him how you feel, he could feel the same way he just didn't realize that until after he broke things. I feel for you, break ups are by far a hard thing to go through in life especially when you love the person. But life is full of challenges and this is one of them. These challenges just make us stronger once we get through them. So hang in there you'll get through it. [ Shaybo20's advice column | Ask Shaybo20 A Question ]
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