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so im 18 years old, female, VIRGIN.
alright so whenever i'm around a guy, and he tries messing around with me i will get REALLY wet, and he wont even start doing anything! is this because i haven't been sexual and never really done anything past making out with a guy? does this indicate i'm inexperienced? i know guys say they like it when the girl is wet, but i've also heard that if a girl gets wet, fast and easy it's because she is not use to it. embarssing for me? YES!! can anyone help clear this up? is it true? (link)
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first of all its nothing to worry about. some girls get wet by just thinking about a guy. take this from someone whose been there done that. secondly as long as the guy is aware of the fact that you are wet he is going to feel good. you made him feel like a king.
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okay so many people or teens these days are having sex. and me and my boyfriend had been dating for almost 3 years now but I feel as if I don't show him I love him enough. he knows I love him and we've been talking about having sex but we're sure that we wanna do it and we wanna be safe and it's our first time. so will it hurt or feel good during the first time you had sex? will the condom slip off?
I'm just trying to be safe that's all. (link)
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you dont have to have sex. one of the persons who replied said it not how peoplle talk about it. wait. wait till the time is right.arriage is the right time. if i got that advice i wouldnt have done it.
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This guy and i have been on and off for a little over a year, and i dont know what to do anymore.
its one of those situations where it doesnt matter how much he ignores me, i still like him. and he knows it.
he has a lot of girls who are friends and constantly takes them before me. i love him a lot though and i don't know what to do to make him realize that i can't take this anymore. he either needs to get his act together and treat me better or get out...
everytime we break up and get back together he always promises things will be different and he'll try harder and for the first month or two, they are. but then things fall apart. the cycle repeats itself. i like him so much that i let it.
please help, i can't cry over this anymore. (link)
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girl get yourself together and leave this boy. i know your smart. let the boy go about his business. don't be too soft hearted or hes gonna walk all over you. move on with your life and find someone who appreciates you.
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ive been talking to this guy for about a month. supposedly he has these deep crazy feelings for me, but im just not feelin it. great guy but yeah you know. anyway hes being WAY clingy and im seriously thinking hes just trying to get to me so he can get him some. how should one go about explaining to this person that while hes cool, he needs to LAY OFF and if hes in hopes of getting some, might as well just go pick someone else, without using those words? =]. i need a way to just kind of ease into to it and say it... but without being.. awkward?? (link)
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i think the best thing to do is be straight. dont hide. just tell him the truth. if he loves u he'll lay off. i know the feeling so i'd assume u take the advice
NE
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ok i know its gonna be kinda confusing but i don't know exactly how to start,... i had a boydfriend, we were together for 2 years and a half, but everything started to destroy from the 1 anyversary, we started to have lots of problems with trust, becuase the 1 year i was so confortable with him, i was so sure that he would never ever do anything to hurt me and that i was the only one, but then i discover he started to like attention, cause usually not many girls will like him, but all of a sudden a lot of girls started to be interested on him, and the first time smoething like this happen i forgave him because i thought oh maybe he is not used to girls comming onto him so now he knows hes handsome and gets attention...cause there was this girl that was suppose to be his new friend and she was like saying lots of things like "hey do you like someone at school? knowing he has a girlfriend. and asking things like ..do oyyou think im pretty cause i think im sooo ugly ...so he would say something like of course your not ugly i think your really pretty and things like this, she used to make lots of comments like if she was so insecure about herself just for him to say nice things to her..when i found out about him i told him, and he was like oh sorry its just that i felt bad that shes so insecure about her looks (of course i was like "how can she be so insecure about her looks if she uploads hundreds! of pictures of herself in her blog?") and then he kinda understood that ,,,then ,..another thing like this happen, this super firendly girl started to receive comments from him like "you look soooo pretty in that picture ;)" things like this ,,and i found out and got so mad at him,..since then i haven't been able to trust in him again..now i found out he was receiving messages from a random girl on myspace like "oh your so hot your soo handsome" things like this ...and i was so mad i was like ok its not his fault that she wrote that ..but then he aswer! like "hey thnx whats your email?" and i got so mad and told him i couldn't trust in him and i wasnt' confortable with this ..his kinda popular in my city cause he has a band and things like this so that made easier for girls to approach to him, ...he used to be so insecure about his lokks while we were together ...but then ,,now with all this girl things he is so secure about his looks.....then another thing came.. i looked at his email account and he had this email from a girl like ohh baby how are you haven't talk to you please answer you know i love you please lets be friends again cutie please write me back....and i told him i saw that ...and he was like ...that doensn't mean anything its one simple email someone sent me and this girl is not even from our city so who cares if i answer ..i told him what was bothering me was not the mail ...was that he was answering back!...we broke up...but still when i log into his msn i saw like 50 new girls i didn't knew he had in his list...and im soo insecure now cause i wanna get back with him and hes constantly begging for me to come back with him...but i told him i just dont trust in him..for several things that happen...i know he wants me back,,and me too...but i don't like that kind of things :S like having hundreds of pretty girls on her list that they added him just to get to know him cause they are interested in him! please help!! im soooo confuse cause i wanna go back with him...but...im sick of having to be spying his email acount his msn his facebook, his myspace and worse finding things like this!! do you think i should just not go back with him??cause also i think that if he cared enough like he says he wouldn't be doing this kind of things over and over again :S ...im so confused please help hes become very flirty =S!! and i hate that !!! (link)
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girl listen to me. i have this really cute boyfriend and girls constantly text him on his cell emails him and all that. he answers a lot of them but you have to be understanding. girls are gonna like him which your not gonna be ble to stop. if he relly loves you he wont go to any of them. i got upset on my boyfriend couple weeks ago over the same things. a girl sent him a hi5 comment saying 'wow you look so sexy, you got a girlfriend, if you do email me i'l get rid of her for you' but girlz who do things like that are bitches. give the guy a chance.
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i am 16/f and i'm just going to get out in front - i have never kissed a guy. i've dated a couple but never kissed them. i'm currently dating this guy who i'm absolutely crazy about. we've been friends for several years and have been dating almost a month. we have a great and really open relationship. i was at his house a few days ago and we almost kissed, but didn't. then later on he sent me a text aplogizing because he said he thought it was awkward between us because he really wanted to kiss me but wasn't sure if it was too soon. i said it wasn't awkward and it was fine. we talked about it a lot and we haven't seen each other in about a week and when we get together, he said he really wants to kiss me if it's ok with me. i really want to. but as i said earlier, i've never been kissed. i don't even know really how to kiss. does anybody have any advice for just a little sweet kiss, which will be my first? anything would be helpful! i'm completely clueless! haha i'm sorry if this was long. please, please, please help! :-) (link)
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just dont open your month wide. if hes an expert he wont realize that its your first even if he knows. it will come to you naturally
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Every time I seem to get "physical" with a guy,
I start to lose interest in the guy. It's like,
"Oh, well. We went all the way. There's nothing more
to do, and you're starting to bore me anyways."
I feel like one of those guys that uses girls,
but the weird thing is, I'm a girl!
Shouldn't I be the exact opposite of this?
Does anyone else feel the same way?
I mean, it's so annoying that I always lose interest
in someone after we get physical and I really don't want to!
Because how will I ever get married or anything?
Suggestions? (link)
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i dont know how much this will help but i had the same problem. as long as u dont listen to people u'll be alright. i had the same problem as i said before my relationships would no past one month. then i realized that there was always a problem. its either we didnt have much in common, he didnt kiss long enough to satisfy me or he kissed too long. try and find the problem u that they have. i'm presently in a relationship and its going into the fourth month.
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so, i was just wonderig, if it is possible to be in love at age 13? i know it sounds like a stupid question. but is that possible? since 13 is such a young age. (link)
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yes. it is normal for girls ur age to be in love. i am a 15 yrs old girl. i've been in ove since i was like 10. but do not run down any guy let the guy run u down
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