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Confusing Relationship
This guy and i have been on and off for a little over a year, and i dont know what to do anymore.
its one of those situations where it doesnt matter how much he ignores me, i still like him. and he knows it.
he has a lot of girls who are friends and constantly takes them before me. i love him a lot though and i don't know what to do to make him realize that i can't take this anymore. he either needs to get his act together and treat me better or get out...
everytime we break up and get back together he always promises things will be different and he'll try harder and for the first month or two, they are. but then things fall apart. the cycle repeats itself. i like him so much that i let it.
please help, i can't cry over this anymore.
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girl get yourself together and leave this boy. i know your smart. let the boy go about his business. don't be too soft hearted or hes gonna walk all over you. move on with your life and find someone who appreciates you.
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dont get mad at me for saying this... but let him go. no guy is worth crying over. and the one that is wont make you cry. if he puts other girls first he might be cheating. i think you should either just flat out tell him that you dont know if he likes you or just break up with him.. okay. i mean, if he's hurting you that much. then.. he doesnt deserve you. and if he really cared, he wouldn't make you cry.. mmkay. hope i helped. if you need anymore help. send me a message. or send me an im. aim: randomconfusionx
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i know exactly how you feel-it's happened to me countless times.
it seems as if the only reason he wants to be with you, is because he likes being in the relationship, and being in control of the relationship since he can promise you something, then take it away just as fast. it's obvious you truely care about him because you're the one who wants to keep trying. but when he's broken so many promises of changing his ways, and doesn't. you know he doesn't care. if he's choosing his friends who are girls over you and you're obviously uncomfortable about it, try talking to him about it and how you feel about it. if that doesn't work, as hard as it may be, you have to move on to someone else. especially if he ignores you.
it took me a LONG time to see that i deserved better than him and you deserve better than him too. the right guy should NEVER be the reason you cry. he shouldn't be making you upset like this.
good luck with everything!<3
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hey,
indeed you cannot cry about this anymore...I know just the thing you should do...I have been in the situation you are in,and i just got done with it today!!! OK....next time you fight or break up,act,and i know it is going to be hard,like you DON'T CARE!I know it sounds mean,and i know it sounds impossible because you love him SO MUCH.BUT,you should always put yourself first.And apparently talking hasn't done anything.If you show him that you have had enough and you are done with crying over this childish behavior of his then he will pursue YOU.NOT the other way around.Because right now,he treats you badly and puts other people before you which results in you crying,showing him how much it affects you and you pursue him.CHANGE THAT!I JUST DID TODAY,trust me,it was hard,i started giving him his stuff back,showing him the door,telling him i am done and i do not care anymore,done with trying and trying,all of this in a calm,non-caring,whatever kind of manner..what happened???well he definitely got scared and begged me all night long.All it takes is for you to show them you are your own and you will do what is best for yourself.
=]Hope i could help!
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