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Losing Interest In Guys
Every time I seem to get "physical" with a guy,
I start to lose interest in the guy. It's like,
"Oh, well. We went all the way. There's nothing more
to do, and you're starting to bore me anyways."
I feel like one of those guys that uses girls,
but the weird thing is, I'm a girl!
Shouldn't I be the exact opposite of this?
Does anyone else feel the same way?
I mean, it's so annoying that I always lose interest
in someone after we get physical and I really don't want to!
Because how will I ever get married or anything?
Suggestions?
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haha, i actually understand this! ive hardly been in a real relationship, but everytime i get close to one, im just like, "oh all the fun was reeling him in. now that ive actually got him, now what? this is boring!"
im sure that you and me are not the only people like this in the world. im confident, that for both of us, we'll find somone we truly love, so we can get married!
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i dont know how much this will help but i had the same problem. as long as u dont listen to people u'll be alright. i had the same problem as i said before my relationships would no past one month. then i realized that there was always a problem. its either we didnt have much in common, he didnt kiss long enough to satisfy me or he kissed too long. try and find the problem u that they have. i'm presently in a relationship and its going into the fourth month.
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Wait until you really care about someone, when you love them. Then it just won't be ~getting physical~ it will be ~making love~. It seems like you are having sex to try to find the one for you, to find that spark, that connection... You won't find love that way.
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yes i am the same way and i agree with the previous answer that u probably didnt have any thing in common, adn all you wanted to do was get "physical" adn thats it. next time take it slow with a guy so you can find out if you like him or if your just interested in getting physical with him....
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If you lose interest after you get physical, you and the guy probably didn't have too much in common anyway.
Next time, don't get physical with a guy too soon. That way, when you do get physical with a guy, you know you really like him.
You might also want to have some time off being with a guy and have some time on your own if you're not currently with anyone. Take it easy.
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