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best friends?
my (best) friends are annoying. my friends are immature. my friends are despirate. my friends only want to talk about themself. i cant deal with them. i always find myself talking about everyone else and helping them. always. i say something about myself and the conversation immediatly switches back to themself. i like my camp friends, but they live kind of far away to be seeing them a lot. i have one good friend at home, but she can get annoying. yesterday i had plans with all of them. it was a train wreck. when my friends were pissing me off, i stood up to them for like the first time. they dont care. it didnt effect them. i dont know what to do with myself. ive been crying alot lately. i was crying in front of my friends, which like never happens, and they didnt care. i dont want anyone to tell me to get new friends. that doesnt help. these are my best friends and it is way too late in the game to switch friends. all of the cliques are set. i do have other friends outside of my clique, but my school is too cliquey to have people accept other friends into their group fully. i found the people in my grade who i somewhat like. now i feel like im changing and maturing and theyre still the despirate bitchy immature attention-thriving kids that can only talkk about boys and themselves. they dont know how to have fun. the way they handle fun is being stupid. its not funny. i want to move but im not allowed. how do i handle this?
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Well, it seems to me that you are too concerned about what other people think of you. Hmm...Doesn't that seem a bit immature to you. So maybe you fit in perfectly with your friends. The saying does go that your friends are a mere reflection of yourself. But honestly if you feel too "mature" for them then don't torture yourself by feeling that you have to go along with the crowd. If your friends are only concerned about talking about themselves what is it that you want to do talk about yourself? Ditch your friends and get new ones. There is only one answer to that, you can't change the way they are and basically it seems that that is the answer you want. They will mature in their own time. If you want to change your friends then that means that you are not really their friends.
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Well not everyone is concerned with cliques in school. Being someone who wants to take care of someone before yourself is an admirable quality to have and if they can't see that, well too bad. Try and hanging out somewhere else for about a week and see where this leads. Sometimes you just need to get away for a minute to see how bad a situation really is.
Good luck! Hope I helped!
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Break free: even if it means being a loner for about a week.
Not everyone in your school is concerned with cliques. There will be some who will prove you wrong.
Just extend your options: take a different route to class,compliment those who are always being put down (sincerly, though), be the one to pick up all the litter at lunch.
People will begin to admire you for your strength, so don't be fearful.
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