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in love?


Question Posted Tuesday December 25 2007, 3:10 pm

so, i was just wonderig, if it is possible to be in love at age 13? i know it sounds like a stupid question. but is that possible? since 13 is such a young age.

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franchy93 answered Thursday December 27 2007, 2:54 pm:
yeah i used to be in that situation i was literally in love with him & after 11 months i still seem to have something for him we broke up recently because he fell in " love " with his best girl friend. yeah i know w.e i just have to get over it but i believe you can fall in love at any age no matter what your parents say and stuff they dont know what youre feelings are for a certain person so i dont see why they should be talking. :/

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WittyUsernameHere answered Thursday December 27 2007, 2:52 am:
How to describe this.

When I was 13 I was in love with my girlfriend at the time. She was sweet, we loved being around each other, she made me laugh. I thought that my love for her was the biggest thing I would ever feel.

A few years later I was with someone else. I knew her, her laugh, her smile, I could close my eyes and see hers. If my love for this girl was an ocean, then my love for my first had been a bucket.

As you grow as a person, and grow into an adult, you slowly gain more and more access to stronger emotions. The bonds you form now will not be as deep as the bonds you will be capable of forming later, but that does not mean that they are not real.

Another way to look at it.

Previous girlfriends and I had been together for up to a year. My current and I hit three years in less than a month. Think about your relationships. It feels like you love them more and more as time goes on, right?

Same thing for me. I love her a bit more every day. Think about how much I love her after 3 years compared to other girlfriends who were a year? Ive had time to fall that much deeper.

And when you get this deep, then you cant look at the way you feel about someone after a month the same way. Previous girlfriends I told them I loved them after a month. I did love them, but not as much as I was capable of loving.

Now, if I were to end up single and start dating again, I imagine it could take 6 months or more before I said the words "I love you". Because I understand now how far in I can fall for someone and I will compare other relationships to that and hold back until I get somewhere near that point.

Its possible to be in love at 13. But put simply, the love is not the deepest love you are capable of. It takes time to find out how deep you can go.

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laogurl2004 answered Wednesday December 26 2007, 8:09 pm:
in my opinion i dont think there is a specific age where you fall in love..if u fall in love then u fall inlove..you just have to be sure its really love..so noo i dont think it is..just follow your heart :]

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DrAdvice answered Wednesday December 26 2007, 6:46 pm:
Yes it is possible...... i was in love at 13 and we got married later on

love is like a rare additction... u want have to guess or wonder u will just know

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MissKhalili answered Wednesday December 26 2007, 3:53 pm:
yes you can fall in love at any age...
it doesnt matter how old you are
just as long as you know what love is then you can fall in love

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nicoann2 answered Wednesday December 26 2007, 2:31 pm:
yes. it is normal for girls ur age to be in love. i am a 15 yrs old girl. i've been in ove since i was like 10. but do not run down any guy let the guy run u down

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babykiwi1 answered Wednesday December 26 2007, 1:47 pm:
yes it is possible. i know your mom might say your to young for love but hey if you feeling it then your feeling it. everyone has thier first love. love is not about age its about you and how you feel about that person.

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orphans answered Wednesday December 26 2007, 11:17 am:
it is possible, just not probable
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Disconnected answered Wednesday December 26 2007, 10:19 am:
IT IS possible, but most probably, it just feels like it- but it isn't love.
I don't know the situation-it could very well be true!

:)

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