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16/f
i'm in love with this guy, hes the same age as me and everything about him is amazing, except one thing- he smokes pot. this is my #1 turn-off in a guy. he doesn't do it alot but i still don't like it. we've only been technically "dating" for a few weeks and i just recently found out- he didn't tell me, idk if he was going to or not, but i dont know what to do, should i stay with him?
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if you really care abt him, tell him that him smoking really bothrs you and for him to pls stop. if he dosnt, u either break up wiht him or deal with him smoking pot. if really depends on how much u hate for him to smoke and evrything.
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okay first, been there, done that, got the t-shirt. i also dated a guy who smoked pot. and i didnt find out until after we started dating. just talk to him about it. dont do anything drastic right away. and if he doesnt do it too often then im thinking he probably wouldnt have a huge problem stopping. tell him you dont like i and maybe he will give it up. but if he doesnt you may be able to look past it since you said hes so amazing. best of luck !
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tell him you don't like it when guys smoke. see if he is willing to give it up for you. i mean you can't really expect him to give it up if it's something he does.. but you can try.
if he doesn't want to stop..
you need to decide if there are more good things about him than bad.
for example
bad- smoking pot
good- good personality, cute, etc.
you did say everything about him was amazing :)
just decide if those things outweigh the bad (smoking pot).
sorry if this was confusing
JOBROLOVER<33
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Talk to him about it, and if he's willing to TRULY give it up for you, then I would stay with him. If he lies about it or anything shady, don't hesitate to dump him.
It's alright to have standards, especially when it comes to drugs or alcohol. If he's worth staying with, he'll give up smoking pot for you.
--Jack
(16/m)
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you could still stay with him hun. tell him how you feel about him smoking. if he wants to really be in the relationship he would try and stop. now have a talk with him about how bad it is to smoke.
you should not break up with someone becuase they have a addiction. i think any addiction could be broken so try and help him through it im sure he would be willing. i know how you feel most of the people im around smokes weed and it aint cute and it aint attractive.
help him through it hun he will come around.
hope i help
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