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arguning
k so me and my boyfriend have been dating a while k so a really long while. and just recently we have started arguing and it's like everyday. and i really love him. but i dont know what to do. because i am tired of arguing but not tired of him. and i dont want to lose him. because he means so much to me. but we argue over the tinniest stuff. it is soo stupid. sorry if i am going on and on. and sorry if its a stupid question i would just like somebody else's opinion. k thanks. :)
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ok me and my bf have been off and on for the past year. mostly on. he has cheated on me and done everything possible to hurt me, and visa versa. so to get over little arguments, is say you know what, i dont want to argue with you. i love you and am sick of always fighting. obviously we don't agree but that don't have to be a bad thing. its whateve. im sorry if that don't help if you need anymore help. just ask merree. i would love to see how it works.
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i know exactly how this goes, and what you have to do is just bring it up. the next time you guys start arguing again, just do the whole 'sigh' thing us girls are good at, and say well there we go fighting again. or something like that. and then you two need to talk about it. tell him that you feel like you fight all the time now and your really worried, and just whatever you feel. tell him. and talk about it. between the two of you, hopefully you guys can work it out one way or the other.
good luck!
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sometimes when a relationship is getting boring and not much is going on the boy will start making arguments over little things, just to get some action or drama. So dont take it too personally.
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If your fighting then that just means you need to take a break. Look fighting with your boyfriend is normal everybody does it sometimes. Bascially u just need to calm down and take a break do a breakup make up scene every month or two weeks or w/e. Just don't lose your boy ova some dumb thing cause then you are going to wish that you were still with him
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try talking to him.. and being honest with everything you do. cause some tiny things can lead in to big things and if you really care about this special somebody you will tell him anything.... so always be honest and never give up on this person that you love.. i no i would do the same
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Arguing is a natural part of every and any relationship, but if it is over petty stuff, it's not worth the energy. You have no control over him, only how you respond, therefore that is a great place to begin. When you notice that you are arguing over something small, stop yourself. Turn it into a conversation. An argument is not just a loud conversation, it is emotional, and let's face it, nothing good will really come from that. So don't shout, and just try to talk about whatever the problem is. OR maybe just listen to what your boyfriend is saying but wait to see if a response or a conversation is even necessary. Later on you can discuss with him the fact that you think you are arguing too much, and it is upsetting you. If the fighting is not something you can change, you need to decide if you love him enough to stick around despite the stress this is causing, or you'll move on to someone who doesn't cause you as much grief (I recommend the second option).
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Why don't you talk to him about it? Tell him how you feel & you really don't want to argue with him anymore. You both can work it out. If you see/feel that an argument is going to start, stop what you're talking about with him & relax. Go over what you're talking about & say "well, I feel this way about this". If you think the conversation is going to get out of hand, stop it & start talking calmly. Maybe grab his hand or move closer to him. If you both are looking out for each other, you can stop arguments. I'm not saying you always have to agree with one another, that's impossible, but you can always stop & rethink what you're doing. If you've been dating for so long, it would be very stupid to let arguing get between your relationship.
-hope that helped!♥
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