Hey there, my name is Deliliah. I am seventeen years old. I love giving people advice and helping them with problems. I have been told that i am very good at this. This is my first time giving advice on a website like this. But please feel free to ask me any question. I am a very friendly person
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When he comes over, we just watch TV or do something else just as boring. Well.. I'm sure he gets bored of it. He's coming over again Thursday.
And I want to do something else. But I'm not sure. He really seems to want to play a game with me.
But I don't have any playstation/gameboy/xbox games he likes.
So any other games? Card? Board? ...Something?
And after that, I'd like to go out somewhere. To the mall, out to dinner, ice skating?
Something like that. But I don't really have any money. D:
Help please..? Any ideas? (link)
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hmm plan what your going to do ahead of time. Maybe youuu should bring some of both his and ur friends over your house along with your boyfriend so it wont be boring.
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This morning I haven't been very hungry. I could live without any food today due to it. I haven't thrown up yet. I normally am eating food like a wild person but I haven't. Yesteday, I was full from the hamburger I ate. I normally can eat a little snack after my meal (two hours later). However, I couldn.t I have a great metabolism so I tend to eat a lot of food and stil stay thin.
My question is, is there something wrong? I'm worried! (link)
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its just hormones or if you have ur period this normally happends. Dont worry it should pass in a week or so.
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if i put spf 15 sunscreen on could i still get tan? i want to get darker but i just dont want to burn. so if i want to get tan would it be better to use it or not? (link)
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deff. wear sun screen when you tan, it wont interfear with it and will also prevent you from getting sun burned
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im 17 years old and i have to have open heart surgery. i has ASD which is atrial septal deffect. in the top two atriums of my heart, i have no wall. the tissue is completely gone. they may have to take out my top two ribs, and break my chest bone. im really scared and the only person i have to tell is 5 hours away. my bf. oh yeah, not to mention. i'm pregnant. but my mom and doctors don't know that. how do i deal with all of this. im not supposed to be stressed out. (link)
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to calm down listen to music, maybe write down the emotions that your feeling in a journal, talk to one of your friends. Before your surgery you might want to tell your doctor that your pregnant. This also might be a more conviniant time to tell your parents, since there probrably feeling pretty bad for you right now =]
good luck
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I'm DESPERATELY needing to lose weight.
Ten pounds at the least.
I'm over weight, and I need it off.
I can do really well with healthy eating it's jsut soemtimes I CRAVE sweets, like I need them, so what can i do to either trick myself out of it, or what foods that are low fat and low calories are there that are sweet.
Wish me luck. (link)
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everytime you have a suger craving keep telling your self how much you want to loose this weight and how dissapointed your going to feel after you eat this. Also, subsitute junk food with more healthy foods. Like instead of eating a bag of potatoe chips, have some sunflower seeds, or carrots.
=]
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well im like the luckiest girl ever because i have the cutest, funniest, sweetest boyfriend in the world and i know he really loves me. the problem is, everyone else likes him too... and he's always telling me about it. every other day he tells me "i think sarah likes me" or "john said ashley wants to go out with me". i know he's not making it up, cuz i hear those things too. and i dont really think he's saying it just to make me jealous, cuz he kinda brags about other stuff too (like how his coach says he's so good at football). i think it just makes him feel good that all these girls like him, and he likes talking about it. but it REALLY makes me mad!! i just want to tell him "i dont want to hear about which girls like you!" but on the other hand, maybe i should be glad that he's so open with me instead of keeping it a secret. should i tell him to quit bragging about his fan club, or should i be thankful he tells me things and try not to let it bug me? (link)
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hes probrably just flattered that all these girls like him. Hes prob. not looking to make you jealous or mad. From what your saying he most likely really likes you, seeing that alot of other people like him and he sticks with you. But if it is really bothering you then confront him about it
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im 17/f with no confidence at all to do anything..i wanna experience things..live..party it up..i mean im gonna be a senior. The thing is..i dont know how to boost my self confidence to go out and meet ppl..im not ugly..not fat..i just dont have good self esteem..i wanna LIVE..but where do i start? (link)
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have a party, invite your friends and tell them to invite their friends. Or maybe talk to a friend you havent seen or talked to in a while. Make dates to go out with your friends and tell them to bring their friends too. When your with people smile and act like your enjoying their company =]
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k so me and my boyfriend have been dating a while k so a really long while. and just recently we have started arguing and it's like everyday. and i really love him. but i dont know what to do. because i am tired of arguing but not tired of him. and i dont want to lose him. because he means so much to me. but we argue over the tinniest stuff. it is soo stupid. sorry if i am going on and on. and sorry if its a stupid question i would just like somebody else's opinion. k thanks. :) (link)
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sometimes when a relationship is getting boring and not much is going on the boy will start making arguments over little things, just to get some action or drama. So dont take it too personally.
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ok so me and my bf fight alot. we both love each other more then words could explain but we have 2 problems; my rebellious attitude and his inability to show affection! We have been dating for 1 1/2 years! i love this man and i wanna spend the rest of my life with him! last night i told him i needed a lil break because i havent been able to forget about all the times hes hurt me (lil things that shouldnt matter but they do to me). and well after we talked about it and everything he said it was fine but asked me not to take toooo long. understandable right? well i have this lil habit of holding grudges and not letting them go. so i guess what i need is ways to move on from all those bad things and start over with him. i dont wanna us to be over for good but i cant continue to be with him with all these lil things getting in the way. i just need a way to i guess not forget them but to just let them completely go and forgive him for all of them! im in DIER NEED!!!!!!! (link)
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I think it was the right desicion for you to take a break with him. Maybe, this will be a new begining for you and your boyfriend.You should also consider telling him how you feel, and how it seems like he dosnt love you as much as you love him. And when you feel really mad and grudgy at him, think of a time when he has really made you happy, and dont talk to him untill your over whatever he made u mad about.
If there is a big problem between you and him, however, you should confront him
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Okay so I really want to dye my hair some crazy color (not your average color i.e. red, blonde, black, brown etc. Something more along the line of different colors i.e. blue, red (the color red not redhead), green, pink, etc.)
But I was wondering which (sp? I suck at spelling tonight and it just looks like I spelled which wrong..) color would look best on me?
Here are two pics of me: http://i152.photobucket.com/albums/s165/xx_tickle_me_emo_xx/Picture476.jpg
(this next pic might be better) http://i152.photobucket.com/albums/s165/xx_tickle_me_emo_xx/Picture458.jpg
Well, thanks =D (link)
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deff. blue it would bring out your eyes =].
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Okay so i am hanging out with this guy i really like today. I know he likes me back and last time we hung out (sat) he kissed me.. with toungue. I want to make a move on him if he doesnt make any move on me today. I dont know how i should do it. What is a cute way to just.. kiss him without being like ackward? Also, i am worried about doing it cause maybe he just kissed me that once and thought" Hmm that was nice" but didnt plan on doing it again. I dont want to make it seem like im expecting it from now on (though it would be nice) hah
any answers would be appreciated/. =)
15/f btw (link)
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While you guys are together, play with his handds, make eye contact, and come in close to his face when your joking around. Then when you guys are both looking at eachother smile a little and come in close to his face, and if he does too, kiss him =]
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I love this guy. He is my world, hes my best friend and we've known each other forever. He knows how to make me happy and can always tell when there is something wrong. He goes after the guys at school who talk about me, and stands up for me. He knows that i give in easily and he knows how to hurt me. the thing is...He says he loves me, but i dont know if he does. He flirts A LOT. but he always hugs and kisses me and it seems like he only cares if Im happy. But the problem is that, he goes out with all these girls, once they break up, im his rebound girl. then he finds another girl and forgets bout me. it really hurts me. I dont know what to dooo (link)
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you should deff. confront him about it. Tell him how much you love him, but also say that your afraid hell hurt you. He'll deff. think its cute, and he'll prob. feel more comfortible around you now that he knows that you feel the same way about him as he does
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I have a really bad unibrow. Like REALLY bad. My mom won't let me do anything with it: I am not allowed to pluck it, wax it, or remove it in any way. I try to pluck it, but its really hard because there's so many hairs, and also my mom hates it when I do. But recently she kind of gave up, because I still pluck it anyways.
I want to convince my mom to let me go to a salon and get it professionallly waxed. She will most definetly not be happy upon hearing this, but I just want to remove the unibrow, and get some touchups on my eyebrows. She thinks they will do it really thin, "just like those cashier ladies with drawn on eyebrows". It just makes me really mad. I was over at my friends house once, and she gets her eyebrows waxed, and they were starting to grow back a little, and her mom was like "OMG your eyebrows look horrible we need to get them fixed ASAP". I wish my mom was like that. I actually got my unibrow from her, and she doesn't do anything about hers... and well it looks really bad.
She says waxed eyebrows aren't natural, but unibrows arent either!!
How do I get her to let me? Any good arguments? (link)
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You should start off telling her that it really is bothering you and you dont feel comfortible. You should also tell her that they wouldnt be "like the cashire ladies" that are really thin lol.
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Hi! I'm Kristina a.k.a Munchie! So yea I'm 14/f and I'm like 5'2 or 5'1! Idk really anyways that doesnt really matter. I would love to know how to make yourself happier. I dont know if its just the way you think or what. But I think it's a lil bit of both. Like your life plays a role on how you act. So how do I change my life so that I think happy and act happy as well? (link)
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I personally have alot of things that make me happy when im in a down mood. One thing i do is listen to "happy" music. Thats usually music that talks about happy things, usually a song i can dance to. I also like to watch a good movie or eat a sugary food;; like icecream.. well hope i helped a little =]
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Well my best freind she doesnt like this guy named jeff but she always wants to have a friends with benefit relationship with him. HES A TOTAL JERK. He is soo mean to her and treats her like crpap doesnt talk to her for ever and then asks to hoookup. Well, idk what to do anymore cuz she doesnt listen to me wen i tell her not to do this and she will regret it. And wen i say this guys a jerk he bad mouths her to the school and all she cares about it making out. (link)
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FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS IS BAD!!! tell her what you think about the situation and how worried you are about her getting hurt. If she still dosnt listen to you then she will learn herself soon
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My boyfriend is graduating and I know we'll be staying together while he's in college but I don't know what to get him. I'm getting him some dorm stuff, which he already knows about, so I want to get him something that he doesn't know about. There isn't a price limit (I'm willing to spend any amount of him) and we've been dating for almost two years. Any ideas? (link)
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well i always think a teddy bear or some stuffed animal is cute =]. But thats just me.
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hheyy ;] for the freshman team in cheerleading do you know how many spots on average there is open considering 19 girls tried out. :]
i screwed up my cheer a littlee, but my dance was pretty good & my backhandspring was like basically perfectt. what are my chances of getting in. thankss :]
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hmm im not sure wat the average is but it seems like u did great. What there really looking for is enthusiasm and energy and that you really want this. So id say you prob. made it in
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i always THOUGHT i was outgoing, but people are telling me i'm boring and that's why i'm losing friends. well i really wanna be outgoing and likable and i miss my old best friend. i really wanna be BEST friends and do everything together but i dont know how to start. right now we talk a little bit but all we say is hi. how can i gradually get her to WANT to be my best friend?
i really need help. =/ (link)
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SMIILE SMILE SMILEE..
say hi to people that you arent that well friens with. Make a list of topics and keep them in mind, so next time there are one of those awkward silences youll quickly break it. Telling your old friend how much you miss her might also help
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the other day my friend invited me to her party. we are pretty good friends but not the closest. an hour later she told me the party was canceled cause her mom said she couldn't. well in everyone's away message it says "can't wait for sarah's party on saturday" so its obvious shes lying. i dont wanna bring it up to her and sound like a bitch or get her mad at me.. but like how should i bring it up? i really dont know why she'd do that to me. =/ the party is tomorrow night. (link)
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tell her in the most poliet way that you saw your friends away message saying that they cant wait for the party. If she continues to lie about it then let it go. But maybe she still hasnt told her other friends that the party was off . =]
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Okay, so there is this guy. We'll call him Jim. Well me && Jim Have been off & on since last year. We were recently broken up for like 6 months. So we started to see other people. We didnt really talk ... so i started to like this kid "ben" and he likes me... but After jim broke up the girl he was seeing he told me that he missed me so much and how beautiful i looked now and that he wanted me back... i mean i still like him ALOTT but i dont know if i should or not . Becuase ben is just as sweet and cute. (link)
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I think that you should give "ben" a chance. Ive had been in this same situation and "Jim" wont last. After a period of time it will end because you guys know eachother so well. so give ben a chace and if that dosnt work out then go back to Jim
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