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hes sweet. hes cute. what happened?
I love this guy. He is my world, hes my best friend and we've known each other forever. He knows how to make me happy and can always tell when there is something wrong. He goes after the guys at school who talk about me, and stands up for me. He knows that i give in easily and he knows how to hurt me. the thing is...He says he loves me, but i dont know if he does. He flirts A LOT. but he always hugs and kisses me and it seems like he only cares if Im happy. But the problem is that, he goes out with all these girls, once they break up, im his rebound girl. then he finds another girl and forgets bout me. it really hurts me. I dont know what to dooo
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you should deff. confront him about it. Tell him how much you love him, but also say that your afraid hell hurt you. He'll deff. think its cute, and he'll prob. feel more comfortible around you now that he knows that you feel the same way about him as he does
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Hey, well does this boy know that you have strong feelings for him? If not, maybe thats why he does that. He always goes back to you because he loves you and hopes that you`ll fall for him because he doesnt know that you like him. He goes out with other girls to try to forget about you. If he knows, hes just a player. You need to try to stay strictly friends with him and stop him when he flirts to avoid the heartbreak =/.
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Tell him to stop playing with your heart, if he loves you in that way, other girls wouldn't be an option for him. Let him know that he is your bestfriend and he does have the potential to make you happy in a relationship as well but he needs to decide what he wants, for you to be his best friend, or, for you to be his girlfriend, because he cant have his cake and eat it too. Especially, when you are a good girl standing by his side but are getting hurt by his being insensitive to how hes making you feel when he touches your heart in a different way and plays with your emotions and then the very next day expects for you to go back to a frienship role only while he goes and plays the field with other girls? Thats not cool. You should make it clear that he can have a bestfriend and a lover, or just a bestfriend, but he needs to decide because you shouldn't waste any more time of waiting on him and him using you as a crutch when a really good guy who would care for you and who wants to really be with you doesn't have the chance because your heart's all tied on someone who's not sure if they want you or not. If you do decide to give a guy who wants you more a chance, then its more than likely that your bestfriend will realize what he had and what he lost (you) and who knows, if in the future your available again, maybe hell decide to take the missed opportunity. Good luck and remember that its not all about him.
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Ok then, you know what you should do? TELL HIM. STAND UP FOR YOURSELF. I know you love this guy and everything and that doesn't have to change, but you HAVE to tell him that you're sick of him always going to you when he doesn't have anyone else. Like you're his side line person. Tell him that you don't want him to do that anymore. If he really loves you, he won't.
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Do not let him break your heart. From what you have said so far it seems like that is the road this boy is going to take you down. Save yourself from the heart break right now. There are plenty more guys that are trustworthy, honest and you will not have to worry about them cheating on you. Give him up he sounds like a player. I know how you feel it has happened to me. The way I got over it was meeting a new guy and i totally for got about him.
Good Luck!
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