Okay, so there is this guy. We'll call him Jim. Well me && Jim Have been off & on since last year. We were recently broken up for like 6 months. So we started to see other people. We didnt really talk ... so i started to like this kid "ben" and he likes me... but After jim broke up the girl he was seeing he told me that he missed me so much and how beautiful i looked now and that he wanted me back... i mean i still like him ALOTT but i dont know if i should or not . Becuase ben is just as sweet and cute.
blackluna7111 answered Thursday June 7 2007, 7:50 pm: well ever heard of dont leave the one you love for the one you like becase the one you like will leave you for the one they love?. you should jsut follow your heart, who do you like more ben or jim? you have to decide becuase not only will you end up hurting ben and jim but you will also end up hurting yourself. the only advice i can give you is to follow your heart. make sure you choose the right guy because if you find out you chose the wrong one and want the other back it would be to late. so choose wisely! [ blackluna7111's advice column | Ask blackluna7111 A Question ]
MightyMitch answered Thursday June 7 2007, 7:00 pm: i think you should stay with "ben". If he broke up with you 1 time how do you know he wont again. If he really wanted you he wouldve never of broken up with you in the first place. [ MightyMitch's advice column | Ask MightyMitch A Question ]
laceylikewoahh answered Thursday June 7 2007, 6:24 pm: I think your okay with where you are right now.Your ex is not with someone.. so he's trying to see if he can get you back.If you weren't totally happy with your ex and yall have been broken up for quite awhile.Why ruin your new relationship for one of your old boyfriends.Unless your totally positive you want to go back to him.Just see how things go and do what your heart tells you to do.Hope I helped.And good luck! :]
Meggyboo answered Thursday June 7 2007, 6:16 pm: I say no to dump a really good guy for someone dumb enough to leave you in the first way I may sound mean but girl the truth hurts.
-Meghan(Meggyboo) [ Meggyboo's advice column | Ask Meggyboo A Question ]
xopixiesticksxo3 answered Thursday June 7 2007, 6:14 pm: In my opinion it really does not matter who is sweet or cute, go for the guy that treats you right and has respect for you, he probably just broke up with the girl because he saw you having enjoyment to yourself and you were happy, it could of been jelousy and he didn't want to see you happy. [ xopixiesticksxo3's advice column | Ask xopixiesticksxo3 A Question ]
Natt answered Thursday June 7 2007, 5:57 pm: Well I would say follow your heart, If you and Jim broke up for 6 months and now he wants you back because he doesn't have a girlfriend, That just means he probably wants to use you to get his otehr girlfriend back. THe only Advice I could give you, Is to follow your heart and make the right choice. [ Natt's advice column | Ask Natt A Question ]
Brandi_S answered Thursday June 7 2007, 5:28 pm: Well, I would stay with Ben.
Why be Jim's fall-back girl?
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