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getting people to like me
i always THOUGHT i was outgoing, but people are telling me i'm boring and that's why i'm losing friends. well i really wanna be outgoing and likable and i miss my old best friend. i really wanna be BEST friends and do everything together but i dont know how to start. right now we talk a little bit but all we say is hi. how can i gradually get her to WANT to be my best friend?
i really need help. =/
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Dont over think it. Just be yourself, and you shouldnt have to impress someone just to be there best friend. You probably arent boring, you are just different and not all crazy like everyone else wants to be. Im also like that, im not the most outgoing person, but i have other traits that people like. and i no exacly how you feel about loosing friends becuase ppl think your boring. its probably because you just dont click with the same people you used to, and its all apart of growing up and finding yourself.. but if you really want to be her best friend, focus on finding yourself first and your personality will come out. just be random and say wahtever you feel even if its weird ppl like that.. and just like ask questions too. people like when you are intrested in them.
i hope you understand what im trying to get across but really i hope to help!
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SMIILE SMILE SMILEE..
say hi to people that you arent that well friens with. Make a list of topics and keep them in mind, so next time there are one of those awkward silences youll quickly break it. Telling your old friend how much you miss her might also help
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just be yourself and ease into it dont let it eat you up
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