asktaylor_love
advice column ask question view feedback favorite columnist advicenators

Q: Last year I became ill with this weird sickness, which is pretty rare, it was called coksaki or something, and it left deep scars, everywhere, but my face is what gets me the most.

I miss how it used to look,
everytime I see hole pictures of myself,
I want to just break down and cry,
because I thought I was pretty than,
I know looks aren't everything,
but it really hurts my self esteem.
And I had heart surgery when I was little so I havea huge scar on my right shoulder blade, I just have so many scars, and I feel like I'm just a big scar, and that I'm ugly and undesirable. I'm pathetic I guess, anyone ever felt similar to how I'm feeling? How do you deal?

I also know theres nothing I can do about it,
like the deep scars on my face, but I dont know how to accept it.
who cares about the scars?
im sure that if someone saw the scars and you told them what there from,they;d have great respect for you.
i know i would.
and besides if someone wont like you just because you have some scars then your way to good for them anyway.
your pretty strong to be able to live through it.

dont worry.

Q: i've been molested, as a child. it happened often and i've tried so hard to block it out but now i feel like it defines me. nobody knows, i can't say anything nobody will believe me. everybody will hate me. he ruined me. i picture how my life would be if it never happened, the way i am now is horrible. i make so many mistakes just trying to make myself feel better but nothing works. i dont know what to do, i cant talk to anybody. im 16, this happened the summer going into 5th grade then into the year.

nothing makes it go away i don't know what to do i want to die so badly.
okay,
i know this is going to be nowhere near as long as the other ones.
and im not going to say i know how you feel.
because i dont.
but its happened to my mom.
by her own brother one night when he was drunk.
and we talk about it and she says it makes her feel wayy better.
knowing that theres someone here to talk about it and actuallycares about her.
you should tell someone.
you'l feel wayy better.

hope i helped.

Q: i think my girlfriends dad sexually abuses her. her parents are divorced and she has five older brothers but they all live on their own since there alot older than she is. i went over there for dinner one time because she said she was scared but she wouldnt tell me why and the whole meal her dad kept making perverted comments about her chest size. shes like a 36d which is nice. her dad was like wow molly your tits look huge i just wanna grab them. and she kept telling him to stop and saying not now dad please. and he kept asking me when i was gonna fuck her next. and he thinks she would be good in bed. she kept getting really embrassed. then all of a sudden he did grabb her and then she started crying and her dad told me to leave but she looked so scared i couldnt leave her. i took her to my house. and i kept asking her did he always do this to you and she wouldnt answer me. i dont know what to do. do you think he rapes her and sexually abuse her. thank you in advance.
i think he does.
if her ad does this when your around,who knows what happens when your not around.
if you feel comfortable then you should tell someone.
parents counselor or anything.
imagine how yu would feel and if you would want someone to tell about your situation.
she may love her dad but he has to realize what hes doing to her.

your welcome.
hope it helps

bio
taylor_love
im taylor.
im fourteen.
i try to give the best advice as possible.
(:

Info
Gender:
Female

Location:
mantua

Age:
14

AIM:
Member Since:
June 8, 2007

Answers:
3

Last Update:
July 19, 2007

Visitors:
674



layout by Adam Particka

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker