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the background: about 6 months ago my boyfriend kissed another girl at a party. he said he was really sorry and didnt want to lose me, so i gave him another chance. but since then he has continuted to flirt with her. whenever shes around he pretty much ignores me and acts like an idiot showing off in front of her. i've told him like a bazillion times how bad this makes me feel, and he always promises not to do it again, but he keeps doing it. i know he likes her even though he insists he doesnt.
well the other night we were at a party and he did the same thing. so i broke up with him. he cried on the phone till 3 in the morning, begging me to take him back, swearing that he doesnt like her, that he only loves me. in the last couple days hes brought me flowers, presents, sent me love songs on my phone, and posted bulletins saying how much he loves me and that he doesnt like that girl. and everytime he comes over or calls, hes crying. his friends say he hasnt slept in like 3 days.
i really really love him - weve been going out for almost 3 years and hes like my best friend. i really want to go back out with him, but im afraid if i do, he'll just keep doing the same thing. plus i dont want a boyfriend who likes someone else. but i just dont get it! it seems so obvious that he likes her, so why doesnt he just go out with her now that hes free? (she likes him and he knows it). should i take the way hes acting as a sign that he really loves me? should i take him back? or will he just keep doing the same thing? (link)
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you should take him back if he is doing all of that for you. but u should warn him that if he ever starts looking at another gurl and ignoring you then he should go with her and break up with him for good because remeber there are real boys out there but u need to find the real good correct ones
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well im like the luckiest girl ever because i have the cutest, funniest, sweetest boyfriend in the world and i know he really loves me. the problem is, everyone else likes him too... and he's always telling me about it. every other day he tells me "i think sarah likes me" or "john said ashley wants to go out with me". i know he's not making it up, cuz i hear those things too. and i dont really think he's saying it just to make me jealous, cuz he kinda brags about other stuff too (like how his coach says he's so good at football). i think it just makes him feel good that all these girls like him, and he likes talking about it. but it REALLY makes me mad!! i just want to tell him "i dont want to hear about which girls like you!" but on the other hand, maybe i should be glad that he's so open with me instead of keeping it a secret. should i tell him to quit bragging about his fan club, or should i be thankful he tells me things and try not to let it bug me? (link)
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You should tell him that you feel mad and frustrated about what is going on. tell him that you are very happy that he is telling you the truth,but you don't really care bout te otha girls you only care about him. he should understand if hge really loves you.
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I think i like one of my guy friends I've had for the past 4 years. We got in a really bad fight before our sophmore year so this last year we had to basically start from scratch, but as the year ended, we were as close as ever. We talk alot on AIM and myspace and i really miss him this summer. our friendship is a bit weird b/c were always picking on each other but I know he means something to me. He's the only boy who has ever been able to make me cry. Last year when we got in that fight i cried so much because I missed him. No boy has ever been able to do that to me. Which makes me confused on how i feel about him. I know dating wouldnt screw up our friendship b/c if we broke up we would still end up being friends in the end like we always do after big fights. My problem is that I can't tell him. I've been rejected I know it hurts and I dont want to subject myself to that. So how do I show him that I like him without blurting it out? I need him to know I like him, I think he likes me too, but I want him to ask me out not the other way around. Please dont tell me to just "get over my fear and ask" because thats not going to work for me. Thank so much! (link)
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Ok Look if you are not sure if the guy likes you ask him if he does if he says why just tell him because you like him. he will never figure out that you like him unless you tell him or ask if he likes you. Give it a try you might be surprised.
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ok so me and my bf fight alot. we both love each other more then words could explain but we have 2 problems; my rebellious attitude and his inability to show affection! We have been dating for 1 1/2 years! i love this man and i wanna spend the rest of my life with him! last night i told him i needed a lil break because i havent been able to forget about all the times hes hurt me (lil things that shouldnt matter but they do to me). and well after we talked about it and everything he said it was fine but asked me not to take toooo long. understandable right? well i have this lil habit of holding grudges and not letting them go. so i guess what i need is ways to move on from all those bad things and start over with him. i dont wanna us to be over for good but i cant continue to be with him with all these lil things getting in the way. i just need a way to i guess not forget them but to just let them completely go and forgive him for all of them! im in DIER NEED!!!!!!! (link)
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Well Ms.whoever your name is first of all i agree withyou ok.He needs to start acting like ya are together and you need to stop with that attitude of yours. Now i see why he acting like that. if you stop with that attitude maybe he will stop acting like ya don't go out. you need to stop trying to turn things on him like its his fault and actually think that for once its yours.ok. now if u will stop the attitude he might stop that we aare not going out attitude,but you need to get ova what happened because thats the past and focus on how you are going to apolgize and try to make tings work. Take my advice and things should go well.
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Well, I've been making freewebs sites for a while & got myself a subdomain a while ago. Now I really want to buy my own domain. The cost is no big deal, I can easily pay it myself. However, it has to go through their credit card & then I would pay them cash in return. So they need to know. How should I ask them? They're kind of weird about those things & might see it as stupid & might not like me having my own website. What are some things I can say to convince them to let me do it? I was just going to tell them i wanted my own space to do whatever with, it's cheap, & I've been reading about them & experimenting with free sites, etc. Any ideas? (link)
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Ok gurl im going throught the same thing except i wanna got o lasvegas and day won't pay for it. look just tell them that you wanna have your own space so u got a website. tell them that they have to pay credit ,but then tell them that you will pay them back. Get out your money to give to them cause they might not believ words but truth. if u need your space then that's not a bad thing let them know that.
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k so me and my boyfriend have been dating a while k so a really long while. and just recently we have started arguing and it's like everyday. and i really love him. but i dont know what to do. because i am tired of arguing but not tired of him. and i dont want to lose him. because he means so much to me. but we argue over the tinniest stuff. it is soo stupid. sorry if i am going on and on. and sorry if its a stupid question i would just like somebody else's opinion. k thanks. :) (link)
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If your fighting then that just means you need to take a break. Look fighting with your boyfriend is normal everybody does it sometimes. Bascially u just need to calm down and take a break do a breakup make up scene every month or two weeks or w/e. Just don't lose your boy ova some dumb thing cause then you are going to wish that you were still with him
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