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E-mail: minibriz@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: England
Member Since: June 12, 2007
Answers: 14
Last Update: June 14, 2007
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19/F
I've been working at my new job for about 2 weeks now. It involves a lot of running around, and I'm working in the wilderness, so I get a lot of exercise in my spare time, hiking and canoeing. I'm also eating much higher quality food than I did at home, seeing as I was living on a student budget.
With all of this in mind, is it unhealthy for me to have lost 12 pounds in the last 2 weeks? I've heard that you're only supposed to lose one to two pounds a week, not a day!
If it helps, I started off weighing 224 pounds, and now I'm 212. A lot of it's muscle, though, so it's not like I was obese to start with. (link)
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hey,
Considering your circumstances, to me, it sounds fine especially as you are doing a lot more excercise and eating healthier. It's not insane to lose 12 pounds in one week, but it is insane to lose 12 pounds every week.
Just watch your weight and if it seems like your becoming underweight, then get eat somthing fatty that will help you stay the normal weight so you can carry on being filled with energy so you can do the stuff you like! Sounds like you're having fun.
Biriani
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i have a friend and shes short and cute and everyone calls her cute and i get kinda jealous. but she calls me cute even thought im like 2 inches taller then her. my question is, is it normal to get jealous like this even though i absolutely love her to death? (link)
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hey,
It's perfectly normal for people to be jealous of others. If I have a friend who was just as cute as I was and everyone said she was cute but not me, I would be jealous.
The trick is with that is to just ignore it, hard I know or to flirt up the situation when it arrives.
Biriani
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When I get older, I want to adopt a child. Does anyone know how I can do that or what I will have to do? (link)
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hey,
I guess the best way to adopt a child is to go online, research it and then ask a doctor or even your mum or someone who has adopted.
You would probably have to fill out lots of forms to prove that you would be a good parent and health forms etc.
hope that was useful.
Biriani
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Well tonight, I gave head.
It wasnt my first time or anything, than after that he stuck in me for like literally 5 or 6 seconds, and then i jumped off.
He deffinetly didn't cum at all,
and then I finished giving him head and after a long time ,he finally finished and i swallowed a tiny bit of it.
I know there is a risk or me being pregnant but is there a very high risk or a low risk? (link)
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hey,
well when you swallow something it goes into your stomach, so chill darling.
There's like a 1:3 billion chance that it will make you pregnant. I've only heard one case of it and you know, there are procedures that can be taken if you are pregnant, but really its unlikely.
VERY VERY unlikely.
Biriani
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Guess I'm not as cool as I used to be...
I'm sitting outside in my back yard, typing on my brother's laptop, taking in the beaming gleam of the sun. it seems like I'm losing all my friends to a number of illegal substances. No one wants to come to my house anymore, because they aren't going to get plastered or toke up a fatty. As if I'm in a competition with drugs to have friends, I don't invite people over anymore, I don't even look foreword to weekends anymore, because my house is a boring place to go all of the sudden. I guess when you grow up to a certain age, you have to start doing drugs and drinking to be fun? How long ago was last summer? No one ever mentioned drugs last summer, what with the change? I guess life is boring without uppers and downers, being sober is being square. My house is a last resort for people to go to have fun. "hey guy, let's just go to my house, there aren't any parties tonight, I guess we'll just have to be sober for once… goddamn.". I only have one friend that hasn't smoked or drank. And we hang out all the time, and have a lot of fun. But I guess it isn't actual fun because we remember it. I guess we're just boring people, it almost makes me want to toke up and get hammered just so that I can hang out with all my friends that have ditched for the shit. But I won't, and I guess that means I have to continue living my boring, sober life alone, with my one friend… in my boring house. Any generic after school special would say "well, those guys aren't your true friends, go find some real ones!" sure thing A.S.S. I'd love to. But I don't know anyone that hasn't been incapacitated. Not only that, but those people ARE MY REAL FRIENDS! Just today Anthony ditched me, at my house, we were all about to leave to go to bowling green, to go to lake malone with my brother; he didn't even say 'bye'. What the hell is that? That sounds like something my brother would do. And it is something my brother has done. I don't care if he went to do drugs, it was still a shitty thing to do] But I'm not here to cuss out my friends, I'm here to query myself, to ponder… I don't do drugs, that makes me a loser, no seriously, it does, I have lost all but two of my friends to drugs, and it kills me. Goddamn it, and people wonder why I play online games? I play them so I can interact with people and have fun! I can't any other way! I don't have any friends! I'm not going to hang around drunken and high people, unless it's Westray, because he's the same sober as he his high! I didn't mean this as an insult, I'm saying that Westray is a cool person to be with no matter what, we can talk to eachother and laugh with eachother, no matter what]
But I guess that's the end of this rant. If I can't have friends while being sober, I guess I won't have friends, maybe I'll find some more real friends like kaleb and nic. But i just gotta live and find out. I know that things won't be the same this summer, I won't have many memories this summer, not without buddies to make them with. and my old buddies that get high and shit, they won't remember the memories that they made. I thought I was cool, but I guess you can't be anymore, not without that shit.
Have any advice for me?
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hey,
wow! um, I guess what you can do is ask them why they take drugs but I'm not even kidding when I say DONT DO THEM.
it won't make anything better even if it means you have friends, but will that be the right reason?
In your opinion would you rather have a few loyal friends than lots of friends who like you just because you took something that's illegal. Doing drugs, smoking, drinking etc, doesn't make you cool or make you hard. It makes you an idiot, especially if your under age. These things can kill you.
Trust me when I say its better to be a live with few friends than dead with many because that's the danger with drugs. Sooner or later one of your "friends" who does drugs will probably be taken ill or maybe even die from a bad pill or something, and if you haven't done it then you will say to youself "I'm glad i listened to common sense, not the way of the sheep" because sheep follow other peoples. Induviduals do what they want.
If you don't have friends and you think your life is boring, then you know, do something. Go shopping, cinema etc. Or make new friends! You sound like a sensible person, I'll be your friend! :D
Biriani
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Okay im 14/F. Ive only gotton my period one time. that was 5 months ago in December. I know that when you first get it that it takes a while to become regular but this long? is this normal?
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hey,
Well give it a year because people are different.
no one knows when their's is going to come when they first start. For some its a week for other's its a year. So don't panic but stress can stop it from coming somtimes.
Just let it be and wait until it comes back.
If it doesn't then talk to your mum about it because they went through it too, and more often than not you have the same pattern as your mum does.
Biriani
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we have a laptop, and i didn't set a account for my dad yet so he has been using guest.
silly me forgot my password, so i went on guest to do some research. i guess he didnt know how to delete history..and i found some very nasty things.
not porn but like stuff about other woman like "desires" and more nasty stuff..i don't know if i should inform my mom.
he has asked me numerous times to delete the guest part of the computer, but i keep saying its for guests (haha)
so should i tell my mom
i don't wanna be the reason for any friction.
i'm SO scared
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hey,
it all depends how very nasty you mean, because he could be researching these things to find a way to impress your mum. He could be looking at what different women desire to see if there is one thing in common and then he'll find it for her. If it is that nasty that you know its not to impress your mum, I do recommend that you tell here ASAP because they can be understanding.
don't be scared; because it could not be what you think.
Biriani
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i need to do something. my life is going down the drain i need to self harm. i cant cut myself, it hurts too mcuh and i cant puke;. i dont want to hear that self-harm isnt the way. i dont care. does anyone out there self harm anyother way? any ideas?? it will make me feel better. (link)
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hey,
email me at minibriz@hotmail.com
there are certain things you cant say on here.
if you email me we can talk it out properley.
please do email
Biriani
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Ok so I need some new characyers for my book, it has always been my dream to be a writer. Ok mine is the titanic story as i have girls parents die brother and her go on titanic brother drownds girl meets guy named Alex fall in love the get rescued when girl gets to new york she has to live with her aunt and uncle who are child abusers so she runs away. I need some new character and if you want to be in my story post your name age what you look like so the characyer doesent seem faceless and an outline of your personality. thanks (link)
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hey,
yeah i get writers blocks frequently..
Umm, when she runs away she could find a musician who she goes around with and then one day she finds alex again.
Just a thought, is it ok?
Biriani (btw, im a musician (female))
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how do I hook up without messing up. i'm hanging with this guy his weekend and i think were going to.. Ive heard people in my grade msissed there lips and kissed there chin. how do you land on there lips if ur eyes are closed. how dou breath and how do u no how to get your tounge in there and move it around!!!!!!! AH HELP (link)
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hey,
chill dude, its honestly nothing to worry about.
I had no idea how to kiss either when i had mine. When it happens it just sort of does... lol! there's nothing to think about really. It's kind of natural. So don't worry about it.
Biriani
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14/f
i'm trying to break my caffeine addiction, i've been drinking a cup of coffee every morning for 2 years now, and since caffeine exhausts you i'm trying to stop. (i also drink things like green tea throughout the day but i don't drink it past 1 pm)
But I don't know whether I should just cut back to 1 cup of tea (30-55 mg of caffeine) daily, or just get off of it completely? (link)
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hey
I suggest that you cut it down to one in the morning, then cut it to one every other morning, then one every three mornings, then one every four morning, every fix, six, once a week, etc.. until you feel like you don't need it any more, but don't be afraid to have it if you're having a rough day. Everyone has them and limiting yourself to certain things that you can eat or drink often makes you more stressed than just drinking or eating anything. If you fail the cycle of cutting down you can always start again.
hope that was useful.
Biriani
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does anyone know how i can get adobe photoshop on my computer?? (link)
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hey,
I don't know if you can download it from the internet. If you can't do that I think you'll have to get it installed from a CD or something.
was that helpful?
Biriani
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I'm DESPERATELY needing to lose weight.
Ten pounds at the least.
I'm over weight, and I need it off.
I can do really well with healthy eating it's jsut soemtimes I CRAVE sweets, like I need them, so what can i do to either trick myself out of it, or what foods that are low fat and low calories are there that are sweet.
Wish me luck. (link)
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hey,
this is rather different:
I lost ten pounds by eating just one thing at lunch (breakie bar) and two at dinner (toast + fruit/yoghurt etc). Sometimes having one or two sweets isn't a bad thing. Don't discard them all together because it will make you crave them more.
It's a weird thing, the body. Sometimes people don't want fruit or healthy stuff and sometimes its not a bad thing to have sweets. As long as you LIMIT yourself.
Good Luck,
Biriani
Email me for anymore advice you need.
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So, a very dear freind of mine got raped 3 weeks ago. she has just turned 14
her parents are worried about her health cause since the inncadent she has BARLY been eating. shes refuses to go to therpy. she doesnt talk much eather. shes not herself. i understand that she needs time to adjust. shes kinda like in shock.
last night, she called me. crying hastericly. she thinks she pregnate. her period stoped and never came back. i keep telling her that it has only been 3 weeks and that nothing is sure.
she took a pregnacy test and she said she took it 2 times one time it said she was pregnate, the other said she wassnt, both taken the same week.
hellppp
thank all you guys so much. (link)
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hey,
your friend is most defianitely in shock, heck, anyone would be if that had happened.
You have just got to be there for her and stay strong for her. If she is pregnant then there are measures that can be taken if she doesn't want the baby and if she isn't well.. she isn't.
You have got to give your friend time to overcome what she has been through, its tough for her to handle, but don't punish yourself if you can't be there to hold her hand. She needs to think things through for herself, it's her life. Don't carry it on your shoulders.
Talk to me if that helped, or you need further advice.
Biriani
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