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dad.
we have a laptop, and i didn't set a account for my dad yet so he has been using guest.
silly me forgot my password, so i went on guest to do some research. i guess he didnt know how to delete history..and i found some very nasty things.
not porn but like stuff about other woman like "desires" and more nasty stuff..i don't know if i should inform my mom.
he has asked me numerous times to delete the guest part of the computer, but i keep saying its for guests (haha)
so should i tell my mom
i don't wanna be the reason for any friction.
i'm SO scared
help?
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I think you should talk to him first so you can know why he is looking at stuff like that. It will be wrong for you to tell your mom without talking to hm first.
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Well, if it is over and he has stopped then maybe it would be best to forget it. Because as the other advisor said, maybe he was doing research. But if he continues to go on the computer, and spends hours and hours alone with the computer, then that is not good. But also your mom might just notice that too, and make him stop. Maybe you should delete the whole guest thing. That he will know that it is gone, and he won'tbe tempted.
If the guest thing comes back, then you know it could only be him. Why not encourage your mom to use the computer for something. If he knows she's using it too, he may be to scared to use it for nasty things. YOu could even say to him, Oh by the way, mom was using he computer the other day, hope she didn't erase anything by mistake"
Michele
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hey,
it all depends how very nasty you mean, because he could be researching these things to find a way to impress your mum. He could be looking at what different women desire to see if there is one thing in common and then he'll find it for her. If it is that nasty that you know its not to impress your mum, I do recommend that you tell here ASAP because they can be understanding.
don't be scared; because it could not be what you think.
Biriani
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