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How far is too far?
My bofriend and I have been friends for about 7 months and dated for 2 of those months. We're pretty close but I'm wondering how far it is ok to go in our relationship physically. So far we haven't even kissed, but on IM we tell each other sexual things about how/where we want to touch each other. Nothing too bad and it's not anywhere close to having online sex, but it's still awkward. I don't want to rush into things because we both wanna be virgins til marriage. So how far is appropriate for us to go at this point, and how far is appropriate to go if we end up staying together another year or two? Christian opinions will be greatly appreciated, considering he & I are both Christians!!!
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Well I'm Christian and i believe that the view of this is that you can't have sex until marrige, and that includes oral sex (blow jobs, hand jobs, fingering, eating out etc.). So i don't really know how far you can go, you can obviously kiss, and makeout, and i THINK that he can like feel you up under your shirt (i'm not really sure about that though).
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I teach a sex education class, and I always tell the people in my class that "making out" is a dangerous activity because it may lead to sex. It gets your hormones and blood rushing, which isn't good if you want to abstain. I suggest staying your current course. Kissing is an okay activity when you feel you are prepared for it. But I would avoid kissing while sitting on beds, alone on a couch, or in other intimate areas.
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You guys can kiss and make out I don't think there would anything wrong with that. Although it is against Christian beliefs to have sex before marriage. You two should just take it slow and see where the relationship takes you.
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go as far as you guys feel comfortable with. start doing something and if you dont like it stop then and if he doesnt like it then he'll stop it. hope i helped
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If you two are really strict on the whole Christian thing [ Which I am myself when it comes to this stuff :] The farthest I would go is just making out. I would save everything else till marriage.
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