Member Since: June 9, 2007
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Last Update: June 15, 2007
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Okay, If you are over the age of 14 then you could really give me some advice. My life sucks! So lets start from the beginning. Shall we? Okay I'm 14/f and I wont be 15 until april 2nd. Well my life is horrible because I dont do anything or go anywhere plus I dont have friends or a boyfriend like everyone else seems to have. I was with this boy that broke my heart. We didnt go out or anything. But I almost lost my virginity wiht him because he played me and I'm young and stupid. He told me that we were meant to be then he ignores me and doesnt want to talk to me so I hate that I did anything will him and I can't get that off my mind and I'm ssooooooooooo depressed about everything! I just cant handle that he played me like a fiddle then left me there. I'm trying to deal with it. I see that everyone else is happy with somebody else! I really want to die. I'm sooo glad i didnt have sex with him because gosh that would be bad. I mean we didnt take our clothes off. So I guess i learned my lesson to make sure I really LOVE someone before I get in their bed and let them stick their hands down my pants. And whats even worse is that my mom is being a bitch about lettin me go anywhere because she knows what I did with that dude. So I lost my moms trust and guys still wont date me. That dude even called me a whore for doing all that I did wiht him sooo fast. So he lost respect for me and I honestly think I will kill myself. My life was bad and now I've made it worse!
Does anyone have advice as to what I can do? (link)
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Don't think like that you will met someone eles who will love you fogert about him. He does't realy like you or he will not call you names. If you want to talk live message in my inbox. Don't think of killing yourself for a guy that crazy. their are a lot of boys who will go out with you and like you for who you are so don't worry about him please!
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i just started a new job at a grocery store. they didnt put me on the schedule for tomorrow, but i think they may have just like forgotten about me. i just turned 16 2 days ago so now i can work like weekdays too .. and idk if i need new working papers or not either, i have to go in tomorrow to look at the schedule for sunday .. and idk why im nervous to like ask someone about the papers, or if they forgot about me .. im just nervous. i dont wanna be bothering anyone but i just dont even know who to talk to pleaseee help (link)
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You should call and ask for the manager and ask nicely I'm not on the schedule but i want to come in and work is that ok? and tell them you will like to workon the weekends.
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so i guess.. four years ago my family life just.. messed up.
i dont live with my mom and im a teen so its really hard.
she doesnt even live in usa with us
she lives in south america.
and so, i tried getting a job thing here but i cant because im british. they said i had to renew my citizenship, and i had to make my birth certificate american.
wtf?
so since its the summer
i cant get a job
so i have to go to south america
and stay with my mom
for 2 months.
thats the whole summer..
i hate it there, i hate paraguay.
my mom is always busy she has no time for me.
she got all these surgeries and never told me.
like my whole relationship with her blew up.
with my dad he just threatens to make me live there, or kick me out because i dont have a job
BUT I CANT GET ONE, SO SERIOUSLY WTF?
my question is.
what do i do
i feel so like alone,
my life just screwed up
my parents hate me.
how can i make them stop hating me?
how cna i make them trust me, and listen to me for once in my damn life? (link)
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I'm sure your prents don't hate they just don't know what to do. Why don't you talk to both o them nd tell them how you feel. If you want to talk I'm here you can live a message in my inbox I wil love to help. Take care nd don't worry yourself talk to them.
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15f im sorry if its long please just bare with me i really need help.
i cant stand living in my house anymore. my mom only comes here just to argue. she says ive changed alot and i know i have but thats all part of growing up. she always hits me and im sick of it. i dont know what to do. i want to leave so badly. she tells me that she doesnt love me as much as she used to. and that really hurts me. i just entered highschool and life is getting so hard for me. my grades are getting low, my boyfriend of 9 months broke up with me, my family is falling apart especially my mom she comes to my room to hit me or to scream at me everyday. she argues so mmuch. i cant stand this anymore. i ahte living here. i hate my new school i jsut hate my life. i really dont know what to do. i cant stand my mom. she is so annoying. im sick of her just coming into my room to argue. also, its summer break im supposed to be out with my friends having a good time and she says she sint going to let me go out anymor. she says im grounded for the whole summer. i want to go out with my friends, to the beach the pool the park the movies. i hate her! i dont know what to do. she wont let me do anything. my life is hard enough. please help (link)
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i THINK THE BEST THING TO DO IS HAVE A TALK WITH YOUR MOM i THINK IT WILL HELP. AFTER TALKING WITH HER SEE WHAT HAPPEN MAYBE YOU TWO MAY HAVE TO GO SEE SOMEONE FOR HELP. BUT PLEASE TALK TO HER AND TELL HER HOW YOU FELT. dON'T LET HER DO ALL THE TALKING TELL HER YOUR PROBLEMS AND TALK ABOUT SCHOOL.
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Today, I was watching Peter Pan and a few Veggie Tales movies when my friends called and asked what I was doing. They laughed when I told them I what I watching. They said Disney and Veggie Tales are for little kids. I can't help it. I like those movies. They're funny and cool, but i need advice on what should I do. Should I stop watching them? Or stick with the movies? (link)
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I'm 22 and I watch DISNEY IT NO BIGY iF YOU LIKE IT WATCH IT DON'T LISTEN TO WHAT YOUR FRIENDS ARE SAYING. IF THEY THINK THEY ARE OLD THEN THAR'S THEM. BUT DON'T STOP, YOU CAN ONLY STOP IF YOU WANT TO.
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ok well i liked or at least i think i still like him im not even sure anymore, but lets just say that i still do like him. well he found out that i liked him so he invited me to his house on memorial day weekend and we hung out in his basement and watched a movie and we hooked up. and it was my first time and i was really happy. and we dont go to the same school anymore cos i moved two years ago, but we stayed friends. and so the night before school started that weekend at like 11pm i texted him and i said"i loved being with you on friday night! i miss you already!" and he texted me back, and was like "me too, what are you doing next weekend" which kinda made me upset cos like i guess i was expecting for him to message me with something else. ok so then last weekend i wanted him to come over, but he asked if he could sleep over cos his mom wouldnt want to pick him up so late since we live a halfhour apart. and so i asked my mom and she said yes. but then the night he was supposed to come over i really didnt feel right about him sleeping over so i told him that i had to study for my finals and he kinda got mad. but then yesterday neither of us had school so he invited me to his house. and i went and i nkow that he isnt a virgin and i am. and i knew that i wasnt ready to make it to that point yet cos hes the only one who ive ever hooked up with you know and i dont love him. and we were making out on his couch(no one was home) and we were lying down. and we were making out and i felt him touch my belt and i waited to see if he would try to undo it and i felt him try to or at least i thought i did and i said no. and he took his hand off and he said he was sorry and we kept making out. and he kept trying to put his hand up my shirt, and i kept moving his hand away. but then he finally did. and i dont rember if i made him stop o he just did on his own. but then he kept moving my hand toward his penis and he put my hand over his penis(his pants were still on) and he just to make me like massage it if you will. and i moved my hand again. and then i fell asleep and i dont know if he knew if i were asleep or not and i woke up and we were holding hadn and he start moving my hand down his boxers slowly and before he got the chance to move my hand all the way down i just pulled my hand totally away, and like i heard him kinda like "huff+puff" like he was fustrated. and then he had his hand like under my belly button like sotof going down my pants, and he was just rubbing me. but i was really afraid he was gonna stick his hand down there so i moved his hand about 6 inches up. and i was really upset cos i wasnt ready to have sex or anything or go to the next level, and i think he was mad cos i wouldnt. and then my friend who lives in boston text mesaged him last ngiht and was like why did you take advantage of jessi? and he was like well after three hours of making out i got bored. and that made me really upset. and the kid i like messaged my friend john back and was likew ell why dont you just hookup with ehr and john said well if i were to hookup with her itd be because i actually care about her and not for my own benefit. and harrsion messaged him back and said well im sorry that i dont become soul mates with someone the second i see them. wich made me even more mad. cos hes known me for four years and john has only known me for two. and john cares a lot more about me than harrsion does. and me and john are just really good friends and i thought harrison actually liked me. well i wrote this letter to harrsion, so can you tell me if i should give it to him and also some advice on what i should do about him .. like im proud of myself for not letting him take advantage of me but idn, everything still just feels wrong
you really hurt me on thursday. i know how far you have gone, and thats great. but im just not ready for anything like that, and im sorry but thats just how i feel. and obviousily you dont care about me, cos if you didnt you wouldnt have said "well after three hours of making out i got bored" to john. i really thought that you liked me for me, but i guess i was wrong. i was so happy to just be with you, but i guess we're both looking for two totally different things. i'm looking for someone who i really want to be with for a long time and who ill be able to remember for basically the rest of my life. i know that that sounds corny, but this is something that i've wanted for a really long time, and i thought that i could have that with you. but i guess you're just looking for someone who you can "get busy" with. and thats great for you. but that just isnt something i want out of some one, so i guess we're just not meant to be together. and im really upset with the way you treated me. how many times did i need to pull my hand away before you realized that i wasnt going to give you a hand job and for you to realize that i didnt want you putting your hand down my pants. i was just so afriad that it was going to lead into something that i was going to regret. i wasnt about to loose my virgintiy to you right then and there. because i know for a fact that you arent in love you me. and i know that im not in love with you. and i know that you have had sex before, and obviousily you werent in love with them, because if you did, you would probably still be with them. well, i hope you understand how i do feel, because i was able to tell that you were getting frustrated with me cos i wouldnt go as far as you would have liked to go. but i think we should just be friends because i really just dont want to be with you because im just not ready for what you obviousily are ready for.
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I say you should be very proud of yourself. Give it to him. If you don't want to do something, don't let someone push you into it. You know you are not redy that's good. Forget about him you will met someone who would like you for you not to go into your pant. I will say you make a good chose. Good Luck
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we have a laptop, and i didn't set a account for my dad yet so he has been using guest.
silly me forgot my password, so i went on guest to do some research. i guess he didnt know how to delete history..and i found some very nasty things.
not porn but like stuff about other woman like "desires" and more nasty stuff..i don't know if i should inform my mom.
he has asked me numerous times to delete the guest part of the computer, but i keep saying its for guests (haha)
so should i tell my mom
i don't wanna be the reason for any friction.
i'm SO scared
help? (link)
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I think you should talk to him first so you can know why he is looking at stuff like that. It will be wrong for you to tell your mom without talking to hm first.
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i dont know what this is but everytime
i eat and sometimes drink something
my stomach hurts and like it really bothers me
and its been holding me back from doing anything
and its summer right now
and im mad!
i dont know what it is
but im kinda scared
cuase its been happened for like a week
and the stomach ache goes away after awhile
but its really annoying and hurts!
any ideas? (link)
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Wy don't you go see a doctor? That all I can tell you.
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I want a tattoo so bad. I know I can get one done, and it'll look good. My parents will NOT let me get a tattoo at all, they are sooo strict. I would get it around my hip area somewhere where i could hide it. Would it be possible to hide it for 2 years. Or should I just wait? (link)
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I agreed with Jess don't get because your parent will find out some how. Wait untill the time they say you should get it. Then you woun't have to hide it.
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all i want is my daddy to love me! thats it i have no mom i just have dad and he doesnt love me! i want to give him kisses and hugs but he turns away, when i say i love you dad he doesnt answer. ever since i was a little girl! i just want to see what it feel like to hug my dad :( and for him to love me! how can i make my father love me! (link)
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Your dad loves you I don't know why he haven't show it to you. Maybe when he sees you, you remind him of your mother. keep telling him you love him and ty to talk to him about school and ask him about work. he will come round. I know he loves you so don't think that he doesn't love you he does. Take care I hope it help.
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The public schools where I live are terrible.
This is why I want to be homeschooled:
- I don`t think there was one week that I didn`t come home crying because of a time my "friends" stabbed me in the back or someone who I don`t even know had been mean to me.
- I never got enough sleep, so I was constantly sick. (I missed about 20 something days of school)
- The "teachers" honestly can`t teach. The only way I passed math was with a tutor.
- Not safe. They send us to school with tornado warnings & hurricanes. There were about eight times where we missed two hours of class due to sitting in the hallways being told to shut up, since they were stupid enough to send us to school with a tornado warning or a hurricane. (link)
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Homeschool is graet,but you will miss your friends or some of you classmate. I saw stay in school you are not going for anyone elese if you have friends who are stabbing you in the back they are not you friends. Find good friends and I promise you will be glad you stay in school. Do your work and don't pay ttention to anyone who don't want to be frien with you.
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okayy so me and my bf are now on a break during the summer. andd i really really like this guy named justin and ive liked him for atleast two years. well justin has a gf (justin and i are in 8th grade and his gf's in 10th) soo yeah a bunch of girls like him. but anywayss. we've been planning to hang out a lot this summer (even tho he has a gf) and ive given hand jobs before soo im pretty sure ill give him one but he wants to finger me. i think i want him to but im not sure if im too young (14). soo i was wondering what the normal age is to have a guy finger you?? andd i was also wondering if its possible that he would "pop my cherry" while fingering me. thanks soo much in advance (link)
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I think you are too young and he has a gf. He doesn't really like you he if that what he want from you. Forget about him their are many guys who will like you without doing anyhing for them. Please don't do it. You will later regrate it I'm sure.
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I cut myself, and I really want to get therapy for it. I can't tell my parents, though. I'm too ashamed to tell them. Also, they're kind of neglectful. There's a large chance they wouldn't even get me help. How can start seeing a therapist without them knowing? (link)
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You can talk to someone you trust maybe a teacher or a friend. You have to find a way to talk to your parent. They will be happy to help you as long as you want to help yoursel which I know you do. If you still want to talk please feel free to e-mail me in my inbox. You have to stop cutting yourself please.
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okay so to start of im 17 years old female. anyway im 17 and i have been for the last 5months my mom will not let me do anything and im so sick of it i had to come in at 10:30 pm like im a baby or something its friday night and all of my friends are out drinking but no i have to be home by 10:30 i cant go out to partys and drink because i drive i cant even stay out past 11 on the weekends im going insane..!! some one please help (link)
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Hi, I say talk to your parent to let you stay out till 11pm. Prove to them that they can trust you. Why do you wnt to go out and drink anyway? It bad for you. I know that' not what you want to hear,but that all I can tell you. Your prent love you that why they want to be protective. If you need more advice live an e-mail in my inbox. take care.
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my boyfriend just recently broke up with me and i dotn knwo what to do its so hard i want to text him and tell him how i feel but i dont know what to say i dont want to get back with him or anything i just want him to know what he did was wrong what do i say? (link)
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I don't think you should text him because he will have the idea that you want him back. I hard to let go,but try to forget about him and move on. I hope this help.
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