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i just want my dad to love me!!


Question Posted Sunday June 10 2007, 7:26 pm

all i want is my daddy to love me! thats it i have no mom i just have dad and he doesnt love me! i want to give him kisses and hugs but he turns away, when i say i love you dad he doesnt answer. ever since i was a little girl! i just want to see what it feel like to hug my dad :( and for him to love me! how can i make my father love me!

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beaux502 answered Monday June 11 2007, 11:00 pm:
maybe he's afraid that if he loves you,then you would turn away like your mother did.have you ever thought of it that way?there's such a thing called"Tough Love" I think that your dad just shows his emotions through actions instead of words.Maybe you should be the one to open up to him, and in return,he will open up to you.All you need to do is try and spend more time with your father. Believe me. I should know. My father said that he disowned me. And even though it hurt,I never stopped sharing and spending time with him.

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Elcee answered Monday June 11 2007, 8:30 am:
Some men are completely hopeless at showing their emotions. They may feel it is not 'masculine' to demonstrate their love and the people around them should know they are loved without words. He may be like this, which is not very useful for you. Ask him to hug you when he is in a relaxed mood, or take the initiative and hug him. He may respond well or, he may get embarrassed - why not give it a try. Don't announce that you are going to hug him, just go up, give him a quick peck on the cheek, a quick hug and tell him you love him. Also tell him what a great job he is doing bringing you up alone. I hope this works for you. Good luck.

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Minimelaney95 answered Monday June 11 2007, 12:10 am:
He loves you. He just has a funny way of showing it. He thinks he doesn't want to love because he is afraid of losing that person again just like your mom.

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sk answered Sunday June 10 2007, 11:38 pm:
Your dad loves you I don't know why he haven't show it to you. Maybe when he sees you, you remind him of your mother. keep telling him you love him and ty to talk to him about school and ask him about work. he will come round. I know he loves you so don't think that he doesn't love you he does. Take care I hope it help.

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