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okayy so me and my bf are now on a break during the summer. andd i really really like this guy named justin and ive liked him for atleast two years. well justin has a gf (justin and i are in 8th grade and his gf's in 10th) soo yeah a bunch of girls like him. but anywayss. we've been planning to hang out a lot this summer (even tho he has a gf) and ive given hand jobs before soo im pretty sure ill give him one but he wants to finger me. i think i want him to but im not sure if im too young (14). soo i was wondering what the normal age is to have a guy finger you?? andd i was also wondering if its possible that he would "pop my cherry" while fingering me. thanks soo much in advance <3
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I know thirteen year olds that are having sex. If you think you're ready and comfortable with this guy I don't think you're too young to be fingered. I was 14 when I was. There really isn't a normal age though. "Popping the cherry", it's when you're hymen breaks but you don't bleed a lot as I'm sure you've heard. I doubt he'll break the hymen when he's fingering you.
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he has a girlfriend and you're assuming you're going to give him a handjob?! holy crap girl. what's your problem?
to answer your actual question though..14 is probably young to be fingered. the average age is like a year or two older but ya know what..thats just because people are sluts these days and have no standards so i think thats much too young. i don't think you should be doing stuff at all until you're well into high school. and i've always thought you should only do it if 1) you're old enough 2) it's an informed and mutual decision and 3) it's with a semi-serious to serious boyfriend. others may answer this much differently but if you lived in my city, you'd see the beginning of your bad reputation since you've already gone to second. you REALLY need to watch what you do, especially now and your first year in high school because thats when upperclassmen are really judging you and you dont want to throw away your reputation your first year there! okay i'm babbling; i suppose its possible to pop your cherry while getting fingered but usually the guy doesnt get far enough up. it could be already broke from tampons too.
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well i'm 13 && my guy fingers me, but i'll be 14 in a month so yeah lol it doesn't matter any age i guess :) dont cheatt on your bf as well, break up with him for justin if you mustt.
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I think you are too young and he has a gf. He doesn't really like you he if that what he want from you. Forget about him their are many guys who will like you without doing anyhing for them. Please don't do it. You will later regrate it I'm sure.
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