Question Posted Thursday September 14 2006, 6:11 pm
ok theres this really hott guy. i know him through my cousin. hes soo sweet and we talk on aim all the time. he always ims me the second i sign on and he always says "heyyyyyy" and i'll be like whats up and he'll say im thinking about you. he always calls me babe and hun and hes a really good kid. we talk about all kinds of stuff and he was talking about his new car and how he could drive me around in it. do you think he likes me? oh yeah one problem though, hes 5 years older then me but if we were together we wouldnt do anything sexual so it wouldn't be aggainst the law. but what do i do, should i date him or is that too much of an age difference?? im 14 hes 19.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? hotrod answered Friday September 15 2006, 12:47 am: ok to be honest you should stay friends. an age difference like that can be one huge mess in the end. he is a legal adult. i guarantee that he has been in sexual relationships and im sure you haven't. a guy once they get into a relationship with sex, its normal for them to expect it with all. i know. my bf is 18 and im 16. we'v been dating for 3 years. adn i love him. he was my first adn visa versa. the one thing that made it easier. ive dated a guy when i was 13 right before jon, my bf, adn he was 17. he had sex with his ex adn wanted it from me. i wasnt ready. you aren't either. too many girls go with guys too old and give themselves up when they usually dont want to. however. i know you like this guy adn it sounds as if he likes you too. you need to be upfront, ask him on a date adn see. if no, understand adn move on. if yes, awesome. during the date mention your relationship boundaries. if he likes you he will respect you also. so dont you worry. time will tell i hope i helped [ hotrod's advice column | Ask hotrod A Question ]
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