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asking a girl out
14/m i'm not to confident around girls and i havent had a girlfriend or asked a girl out before because of it and there is no girls at my school that are single and well does anyone have ideas on geting more confident? and where should i go to ask girls out?
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When you say that your not confident around girls, you need to realize, girls are like guys. Many of us do the same things you do. High self esteem shows a girl you care about yourself, which is important. Find a girl that has similar likes and dislikes. If you find a girl like that, simply ask her to go to a movie or something with you, if she says no, move on, your still young and love will find its way to you. It always does. Show you have confidence, and soon girls will flock to you. Be yourself around girls the way you are with your friends. I'm sorry if this don't help, but I hope everythng goes for the best :p
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hey im a 13/f and i no how you feel i mean at my school thur is a few guys i like and dont feel really confertible to do anything my bff caitlyn is SO forward and i asked her abut this and she told me tht life is all about taking risks you aretn going to go anywhere if you dont and took this to heart and you know the worst thing that could happen is that person doesnt feel about u the same way
hope i helped :)
-Delesha
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your stressing to much, about this probelm , relax..and think about your surroundings,
you can attract a girl by simply being nice. and hearing what she has to say.
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Just be yourself, and talk to some girls. Make polite conversation and work up to more. Also, be funny but don't try too hard. Girls like it when guys can make them laugh. Just be her friend, and once you think it's a good time ask her out. As for where, you don't need to go anywhere special, just come up to her after school or some time like that and ask her out. If she says no, she's not worth your time, but chances are she'll say yes. Good luck!
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Just say hi to them. Girls like a simple hello, that's all it takes. When you get that down, ask them what's up, how their day is, what they're doing over the weekend, stuff like that. Just keep gradually building up a conversation until you're comfortable enough. And when you like her & feel she likes you back, ask her out. =)
If she says no, then she's shallow & not worth your time anyways. =) Oh, and always make a girl laugh. Usually, if you can make her laugh/smile, you can basically be one of her good friends. I know that if a guy can make me laugh, he can make me do anything.
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well, im a girl and i'll tell you what i like.
You could get more confident by saying hey or something to any girls you see that you know walking in the hallway or something. then in class ask a girl how to do something, and then start a conversation. just take it gradually and get omfortable with each step before going to the next one. and as for where should you go to ask girls out, just ask them where ever you are. most girls like for the guy not to be shy and just when your talking to a girl just be like 'do you want to hook up' or something like that. dont worry about it, just see her reaction and whatever happens, happens.
im sure you'll be fine, just give it time!
i hope i helped, send anything else you want to know to my inbox.
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