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....fingers and sex....
im 16/f. my boyfriend is experienced and has had sex before and i am still a virgin. he fingered me the other day and when he put 2 fingers in it really hurt me. We're planning on having sex like within the next few days. Will it really really hurt beacuse it hurt me so much with just 2 fingers? thanks
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i would suggest having him stretch you out a little with his fingers before you move on to sex. the first time didnt hurt as bad as i had expected. dont be too worried about it. you will be sore and tired. i have had sex about 9 times now and it still hurts when he is going in. you will loosen up. just make sure that you are with someone that you are completely comfortable with and let him know that you are afraid. tell him when it hurts you and he just needs to be very careful the first few times. you will be fine. :)
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well if you haven't had sex yet, yes i remember my first time was with the guy i've been with for 4 years. im 16. we didn't have sex till this year. and it sucked. he was considered huge, 9". which is very large. he even was nice and gentle, but yeah babe it sucks. thats why if you do it, make sure its with someone you trust and care about
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I think you need to think about what your doing before you go and have sex with him. But if you still do.. its always going to hurt your first time. 2 fingers will even hurt cause your jus not used to it. so its going to hurt the first time. but it should be alright. But i suggest you slow down, and talk to you boyfriend before you guys have sex!.. Hope i helped.. Kaile.
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I think you're moving just a tad bit too fast here. have him finger you a couple more times before you move to sex... it's a big step and not only would it hurt physically but emotionally too. i don't know if it will happen to you but one of my close friends made that mistake a couple days ago... the guy dumped her and i've been on the phone with her for 2 hours everynight since.. think about it... <3
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please don't have sex if you are scared. but im not here to lecture.
yes, your first few times are going to hurt like heck. you'll probably cry. & you'll be sore.
it's not enjoyable, at least not your first time.
make sure before you have sex, that he fingers you with 2-3 fingers, just to get your loosened up a bit, and to get you wet, therefore it will be easier to get in.
good luck
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have him keep fingering you, the only way you're going to loosten up enough for sex is by fingering. and even with that it'll probably still hurt a little.
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well i'm not a girl so i don't know much about that, but i do know that if he's wider than two fingers (he probably is) then it'll hurt at first. just let him know to go slow at first. it will widen up after a little bit and will be comfortable for the both of you.
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