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Hey i am Kaile Rohde. I live im Merrill Wisconsin. I am a good advice giver.. so feel free to ask me ANYTHING!.. Thanks

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I was on birth control pills for August til January. I had my last period in February. I started working and because I switched colleges, I was hanging out more. I am still a virgin but I had oral sex with my best friend. We was in the car and he cummed in my hand. I did wipe my hands off and went home. I had to go to the bathroom bad and without thinking to wash my hands first, I used the bathroom. Now it is April and I havent had my period since Feb 13. Everyone I ask says I am not pregnant. I have no symptoms but an upset stomache and a missed period. I am stressed about the whole sitaution. Am I pregnant or Did i miss my period because of a hormonal imbalance or due to stress? It would be weird to be the first pregnant virgin.

no i don't think your pregnant, cuase sperm dies once it hits the air, so im pretty sure your not pregnant. But if you want to be safe jus take a test a find out for sure!!.. Hope I helped! .. always here if u need moore advice! .. Kaile.

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im 16/f. my boyfriend is experienced and has had sex before and i am still a virgin. he fingered me the other day and when he put 2 fingers in it really hurt me. We're planning on having sex like within the next few days. Will it really really hurt beacuse it hurt me so much with just 2 fingers? thanks

I think you need to think about what your doing before you go and have sex with him. But if you still do.. its always going to hurt your first time. 2 fingers will even hurt cause your jus not used to it. so its going to hurt the first time. but it should be alright. But i suggest you slow down, and talk to you boyfriend before you guys have sex!.. Hope i helped.. Kaile.

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I'm 13/m There's this girl who I really like, and she likes me, but i don't know how to tak the next step, because I don't want us to break up and end up hating each other. Should I ask her or just let us be friends? need help plz reply

Well if you really like her, and you know for sure that she likes you. Your best bet is to jus ask her out. Girls like it when guys ask, and make the first step like that. Im sure she'll be really happy!, and since you guys are friends, it won't it that dificult if it jus doesn't work out for you guys. you jus have to remember that you can always be friends. Hope i helped!! ... Kaile.

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which sites have info about avalanche history?

i really don't that one.. sorry.. jus try google, and see wat u can get out of that!!.. sorry good luck with that tho!
_xO Kaile

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My boyfriend is getting "confermation"(sorry about spelling guys!!) and i am invited to his party.. I was wonderin, hes realy religous, well not a freak about it but he truely beleives in god. anyways, would it be stupid to give him a congrads card with will 10-20 bucks in it? If so how much money???

Let me know asap!
Thanks bunches you guys!

~meg~

Ps. It doesnt matter how long we've been going out so dont ask. We've been going out for 2 1/2 months but we were best friends, and i mean best friends since 6th grade. and i mean best friends.

thanks.

Money is the big gift that is given for peoples conformation. So 10-20 bucks will be great. and im sure he'll be happy with it!!.. Hope I Helped
-Kaile

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What are the best places to put on eyeliner ( like top of your eye, the little ledge on the bottom etc.) and what are the best kinds to use?

i put eyeliner on the bottom ledge, and also the top eyelid. I personaly don't like the wal-mart, or those kinds of eyeliner, the best kind is more of the exspensive brands. Pencil's work the best, but sometimes liquid looks alot better.. so it pretty much what you think would look better.. hope i helped.. im here if u need anything else.
-Kaile

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ok.. im 13 and i weigh 109 pounds. is that alot for a 13 year old? well anyways, latley i've been looking at my stomache and like it seems everytime i do it gets bigger. i dont know, i might be imagining it. becasue i just dont want to think that im fat and end up by going anorexic. i doubt it, but is it normal to constantley thinking of this?

okay so.. 109lbs is not even close to alot for a 13 year old. Thats about the perfect weight.. and with your stomach, your stomach prolly isn't gettin any bigger, your jus startin to think that it is.. so its gonna look like that to you. Alot of girls think they are fat, when they aren't. Im sure your not fat, and if you think that 109 is alot.. jus think that it muscal.. cause it most likely isn't fat. hopefuly that all mad sense, and it helped you.. If you need anything jus ask me.. im always here to help!
-Kaile

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where can i get a get well card?

At wal-mart, shopko, sears, gift store. Basicaly ne where... ((~*~Kaile~*~))

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This person Ive been thinking of constantly is becoming one of my best friends. I think I like him because when I'm with my friend hes all I think about and i get this weird feeling when I'm around him. Valentines Day is coming up. I think I'm going to ask him if he wants to go out with me the day before but I'm wondering...What do I do if he says no? I dont wanna look like a moron or start crying or anything..

Well wat I think you should do. Is ask him out. Then if he does say no, just play it cool, and act like its okay.. Don't make a scene or anything. Jus say okay I thought i would jus try. But if he does say no, then hes not the rite one for you.. Hope i helped write back!! ((~*~Kaile~*~))

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I've just started gym class, & she said we're NOT allowed piercings what so ever, even ear. & your not allowed to cover it up or anything. i have 2 of my piercings in my cartilidge, i can take my other ones in my lobe out but not my cartilidge because it'll close and i won't be able to get it back in anyways. I start it tomorrow. and i really duno what to do. I dont want to take them out because I don't want to have to get them repierced. My mom said thats really stupid & she said I won't have to take them out. What should I do?

Okay well i have my carilidge pierced. And i have to take them out everytime i have a basketball or volleyball game. And thats about ne hour...And mine have never closed.. so i think it would be fine to take it out for how ever long u have to... it won't close taht fast.. i had mine out for almost 2 days once.. But it was fine. and i got it back in no problem...So it won't close on u.... Hope i help!! ((~*Kaile*~))

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Some of my friends tell me that I shop at expensive places. I pretty much shop at Abercrombie, American Eagle, and sometimes at Express. But there's more expensive stuff that I could get. And they say that I'm ubsessed with Abercrombie because I have lots of stuff from there. Is this true??

Jus because you shop at Abercrombie and have alot of clothes from there.. doesn't mean that u r obsessed with it... I mean i shop at American Eagle, and i have alot of clothes from there.. but i am not obsessed with it, i jus happen to like the clothes...((~*Kaile*~))

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hey i was wondering if anyone has ANY really good sites w| LOTS of quotes!?!? (*i rate high =]) thanx !

umm www.wittyprofiles.com is a good place!! hope i helped!!-((*~*Kaile*~*))

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i am fat.. when i look in the mirror i look like a mini-sumowrestler.. i'm 13.. 5'1 and i weigh 110lbs.. please tell me how to lose the blubber on my abnormally huge thighs and my blubbery stomach.. it would be much appreciated! ps; i hate exercise and i'm too young to get lapo.. please give me good dieting info..

u prolly not fat. But the easiest way to do it is do crunches every night. I did that and now i have a nice tight stomach!!((*~*Kaile*~*))

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ok say i met this guy on the internet and we wanted to met somewhere but not alone i mean with like other people. What if he says he is 14 but is really 45 or something should i bring a knife or a gun????? should i have a cell phone ready just in case he tries to do something to me????? NEED HELP FAST !!!!!!!!
OXOXOX,
DONT WANNA BE KILLED

Do not go out and meet him. U never know wat is goin to happen. So don't take a chance, and stay home and find someone u know!((*~*Kaile*~*))

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ok I'll start from the beginning,
one day I ask this girl out. I tell her a few nice things. then I ask her out. she says let me get back to you. well she goes and and tells her friends what happened. so they go hide & talk.
well after lunch shes yes. two days after shes yes she breaks up with me. now thats been about 6mons. ago. and I still have feelings for her.
I also hear she still has feelings for me.
but I'm scared that if I ask her she'll say no.
what should I do?

Hmm... Well i think that if she likes u, she would be givin clues. Thats wat i do when i like a guy. Well wat u should do is find out for sure, then go and get her.((*~*Kaile*~*))

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okay,well,me and my ex-boyfriend went out. Then broke up 6 days later. Then got back together. then broke up a week later. Then made out sooooooooooooo many times. Then we went back out. Then a rumor got passed and we broke up. then we went back out because we still liked each other. Then we broke up because i cheated on him. Then we got back together becuase i broke up with the other guy. And now we are broke up again because he liked my cousin but he doesnt know shes from across the country! okay...how do i get him back? I think i still like him! Ha! Ha!

Wow! Well i think that you should move on, and let him move on also! With u guys goin out so many times. People may thing wrong with you. So try and move on. And see how that works out!!-Kaile

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umm after im finished playin basketball or volleyball, im usually sweating a lot. my face also is very red after practice. is there any way that i can keep my face from being so red? o ya and im 13/f.

every person is always red after havein a hard practice or a game. There is nothin u can do about it.-Kaile

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is it just plain wrong for a 15 year old straight male to babysit?

NO way. it is never wrong for a 15 year old male to babysit. it means nothing. Its jus shows that u like kids, and taht is a good thing!!

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this isnt a health question but i didnt know what else to put it under. I got my cartilige peirced back in September and its been 3months so i can change the earing. well the lady told me i couldnt wear hoops for a whole year. why is that? i got hoops for the cartilige for christmas and i really wanna wear them but i dont wanna mess up the peircing.

Well i have my cartilige periced twice, and i was never told that u couldn't wear hoop earings. I don't think it is goin to do anything to ur ear. it is jus a regular earing.-Kaile

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My cousin knows I do this advice thing, and she has a question, but she's embarassed to ask me and she wants to ask the whole site not just one specific user. The problem is, she's 12. Would I get into trouble letting her ask it under my username? What about if I at least convince her to ask it to just one specific columnist, would that be okay? She won't tell me what the question is, so how do I go about it? I know that you're supposed to be 13+ to ask questions on this site, but... I don't know. What kind of trouble would I get in for letting her ask under my username? I won't if I'd get into trouble, like if I'd lose my modship, or if I'd be banned, but I can't convince her to ask me. So, would I be breaking the rules?

She is not goin to get in any trouble using it under ur name. its no big deal. And if u want to jus ask me the question i am sure i can help!!-Kaile

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