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i have blonde hair blue eyes! i guess you could say im funny, im outgoing,and i get really scared REALLY easily! haha lucy! the ring 2! um i hope u like my advise i've given. I LOVE to have fun! its like almost impossible for me to have fun unless my bestest friend shelbi isnt havin fun! shelbi is my hero!! she always makes me happy!that pic right there(

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BEFY!!!!! WHERE ART THOU???? this is Cory, if you remember who that is and i was just lookin at my site and saw ur "question" and got to thinkin "where did she GOOOOO?!?!?!" and then i searched around and found ur column... where've you been???? well, i guess this is a bad time for me to be posting b/c i'm goin to FL. next week but gimmie a call on me cell when you get this.... ME WUBVZ YOUZ BEFYIO!!!! AND I MISS YOU SOOOOOO MUCH!!!! ~Cory~

hey sry i just got your message! umm well... i've been grounded all summer basically. so i haven't been able to get on aol anytime because no one has it. like my dad and my moms laptop. which im not even supposed to be on but shes in mississippi so it doesn't matter. but yea thats why. i miss talking to all my friends because i have only seen one or two friends this whole summer because no one has called me or anything.i haven't really felt like goin skating or anything so yea if you give me your email i can email you a couple of times when i go to my dads. sorry! i love ya! well i got to get. so i\'ll email you later if you send your email on another question i can email you some. not very often though. thanks for caring because not a lot of other people have cared where i am for all they know i could be dead or what not. i'll ttyl love ya!
~!*bethany*^!~ bgurl_04@hotmail.com
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Heyy! ok so i really want a new cell phone!! the one i have now is SO boring/ugly/retarted/etc! it works great i have awesome service, but I never use it, my brother broke his phone so he eneded up gettin a new one that he uses ALL THE TIME!! if i had a better phone i would use it for ALL of my calls... my parents say if i get staright As i can get any cell phone i want... yeah, GOOD LUCK TO ME!!! i always get at least one b and then all a's!!! ive only gotten straight a's TWICE!!! i dont wanna be a brat and break it on purpose because i appreciate that i have a cell phone at all, buu seriously i NEED a new one... any tips on how to convince my parents without gettin straight a's????

offer to do things around the yard or to do things around the house. The way i got my cell phone was just bugging my mom because mine got broken. Just start saying that you will mow the yard, do the dishes, etc. you may not like doing that stuff but would you want to do that or get any cell phone you want? maybe you can ask all of your teachers for extra credit so you can get all a's! good luck! hope i helped!
x0x-BeEfAlO

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lastnite i was on the fone with my boyfriend and my mom kept coming in saying she needs the phone and i wouldn't get off cause my boyfriend and i were in the middle of a conversation. So... she took my cell phone which in this case my dad bought for me (parents are split up) and i pay for monthly and she only did it to waste my minutes. so when i got off the phone i walked into the living room and there she was on the couch talking on my phone and i got pretty pissed off about it. So... i tried grabbing it from her and told her to give me my damn phone but she pushed me away and slapped my arm and then she finally got off but she wouldn't give it to me and she went and got the home phone so again i tried grabbing for my cell phone and she pushed me into the wall and started choking me and cussing at me and so i called her a fucking bitch and she pushed me onto the couch and punched me in the chest and in the face and slapped me across the face and kept saying what did you just call me and i tried kicking her off me and then i finally got her off me and she goes to my stepdad you wanted her here then you can stay with her and she left..... thats just the background... but my question is what am i supposed to do, I have a HUGE mark on my neck from where she was choking me and now i have worse breathing problems (i have asthma pretty bad) i mean like should i call the poilce or should i call child services i have no idea what to do!! HELP ME PLEASE

yes honey! please call something that can get you into court! that is unbelievable! call child services! and take a picture of the mark on your neck! so you have evidence in case it goes away! i'm so sorry she did that to you! she had no right! good luck honey! if you need my help then you can IM me at nooneverknos139 on AIM or bgurl_04@hotmail.com!
x0x~Bethany Marie

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Hey,
I need some make-up tips, I've always worn alot of make-up. I'm 21 if that helps and obviously female.

Extras;
I have a normal type of skin that tends to change to a little bit oiler in the summer and drier in the winter.

I have dark Asian eyes and I wouldn't mind opening them up a little.

I have small lips, I'm not intrested in making them look any bigger but I wouldn't turn down any tips on making them bigger.

Fire away the advice, ladies.


ok this is the kind of make up i wear and i wear a lot too. it covers up EVERYTHING! ok i wear foundation! its called true match by l'oreal!(you can get it at target or walmart) it works really good! find your color. (when u put it on use a make-up sponge.) i wear eye liner that looks natural and mascara, but only so that it thickens my eye lashes because mine are already long! Then, get some eye shadow that is tan or something that is close lighter than your skin color and maybe something darker, too. since you have darker skin you don't need blush!!

about the dry and olier skin types.... um in the summer every night before you go to bed use some "witch's hazel" its literally called witch's hazel! it takes all your make up off and take the oil off too! you can get it at walmart REALLY cheap! in the summer use facial lotion and put it on everytime before you put ur make up!! hope i helped! if you have anymore questions you can IM me at nooneeverknos139 on AIM
x0x~Bethy Marie

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these past few days i've been doing ab excercises 8 minutes a day and i just found out how to do an arch by leaning back and well i've done it alot today and now my back hurts. is the arch stuff the cause for the back pain? i don't know what else cudda caused it and do any of you have advice on how to get rid of the pain?

umm probably so... get some icy hot from target,kroger,winn dixie,etc. that should get rid of it! or get a heating pad and don't get up!! if you want to loose weight (cuz ur exercising) then jog a lot but don't jog til you pass out! take some water too! and never go alone! joggin is VERY good! i lost 15 pounds from joggin! so even after the first day(your legs WILL hurt) run anyway! cuz thats good!well i hope i helped! give me some feeback!
~BeThAnY mArIe

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ok...one of my BEST friends is very flirty! I'm not sure why...but she is! It seems like all she wants to do is flirt and be ually active with guys! I havn't been hanging out with her as much because of this...If she happens to get pregnant or any type of thing, I don't want to be apart of it! She always wonders why I don't hang out with her as much and I tell her...but she always denies doing the things she does. How can i help her realize that i don't want her getting hurt and hang out with her more...WITHOUT her getting upset with me?!?!?!??!?!

Thanks a bunch!
-*Marissa*-

well flat out go off on her! and next time she asks why you don't hang out with her say "CUZ UR A HOE AND I DONT LIKE HANGING OUT WITH HOES!" LOL J/k! UMM TELL HER WHAT YOU FEEL AND PUT SOME ATTITUDE IN IT! give me some feedback!
~BeThAnY mArIe

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Well..ever since about november i have liked this guy i go to skool with..we talk online and he calls me sumtimes and we have hung out a couple of times..well when i see him around all his other friends..he acts nothing like that around me and it seems like our friendship isnt as good as the other peoples and this just crushes me...ive told him before that i like him but he just wants to be friends..ALSO i have a big problem with depression/anxiety and whatnot and he used to be really worried and he would help me alot but lately him and my firneds dont seem to care..i ALWAYS help them with their problems but when i need help im just "bitching" ugh..now one of my friends is mad at me cuz i have been throwing too much on her lately and she says that the guy i like is getting fed up with me..i asked him and he swears he never said anything like that and hes not..but idk wut to do

FIRST AND FOREMOST OF ALL:lose them all! if the guy you like is going to act like a jerk around his friends and try to be nice around you...ditch him! When he calls you just tell him you can't talk or you have to go, and when he IMs you then ignore him! then lose your friends! If you have to walk around school alone then that's what it takes! Maybe you are just looking at what they are doing wrong and not what you are doing wrong.Im not saying you are wrong but maybe you just dont see what you are doing. I've done it before so don't feel bad!All you have to do is NOT BE FRIENDS WITH THEM and your problem is solved! just make some new friends! sry i didn't help much! good luck!
~BeThAnY mArIe

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so i leftmy binder in my dads truck and he read through one of my notebooks...a very private notebook i might add...he read how many guys ive had sex with and diifernt drugs ive tryed and shit like that...he told me this tonight as he pulled it out of his briefcase....and read me all the passages...how should i handle this...cuz hes not handling it too well...:/

all i can say is he shouldnt be in your stuff in the first place and... umm spend more time with him so he knows you arent doing anything wrong! just convince him ur not doing drugs and having sex cuz "you learned it was bad" sry its not much but i hope i helped! good luck
~BeThAnY mArIe

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Ok, so over spring break I was on a cruise, and well, while I was on there i met a girl. We kind of talked but didn't really hang out until the last night where we messed around (made out more or less) and then she went to bed and it was supposedly over. Well since then we've been talking over email and IMing and such, but I didn't hear from her for about a week and I kind of forgot her last name. It's really been bothering me, but I don't want to just ask her because it just seems kind of horrible that this girl messed around with me and I don't know her last name, or don't remember it at least.

hunny, all it takes is a questions! just ask her! if she asks why then just play it off and say that u wanted to make sure u had the right one! it will be ok! and it was a cruise and yall didnt exactly KNOW HER so i mean..its not all your fault! give me some feedback! good luck hope i helped!
~BeThAnY mArIe

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Okay Me and my botfriend just started going out, and i have ALOT of feelings for him. He is moving in April though and I dont want to break up with, but i dont want to get hurt. He told me that he would come back every weekend and wednesday, and he is finishing out the year. What was so convient is that he lived right down the street. I need some good advice for this one.

much love yal!

ok first of all this happened to me before. He acted...well... REALLY sad about it. It would be better if you broke it off with him NOW more than later when hes about to move. because my boyfriend used to say the same thing about visiting me. Just work it out where you are really good friends but keep in touch! ALWAYS keep in touch! eventually you will get over him and if something happens and he DOESN'T move then thats the best part but i really hope i helped in some kind of way! lol umm let me know if i did!good luck! luv ya gurlie!
~*BeThY*~

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this is going to be very long. I'm in love with this guy and i have been for about 8 months i would say. We have been having sex for a year now and he just thought of me as u kno-a sex friend. I'm the only one he's been having it with since we started bein together but ive had past partners,one was his really close friend,and now i've quit for him. He got me pregnate. Yes, im 2 1/2 months pregnate with his baby. And i love him. I know evry day girls say "oh i love him soo much" But this is for real. I've lied 4 him. been through court 4 him, fought girls 4 him, and gave up my boyfriend 4 him. Whenever i tell him how i feel he says "I care about u too but i`m just not ready to go out with you...i do love you and i do wanna be with you...I just can't.." or he uses diff. excuses how 'i went wit his friend he can't do that to him' WELL Y NOT?! I try avoiding him..you know, trying to make him miss me and come crawling back to me.. but that's hard to do when he's the cutest most popular guy in school with girls practically lined up. He doesn't need me. I need advice..what should i do? i know i can't make him love me back..but maybe just to have him want to be with me and understand how i feel a little more. Don't say love notes-cuz i tried...or phone calls..or long talks..i tried everything. Don't call me dumb..please!!! i`m just hopelessly in love.... =( help!


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im soo sry you are going through this! maybe you just think you're in love but after all he HAS to love you to have sex with you. if he enjoys it with YOU then he does love you. i think he is just scared. tell him what you thik aout everything.and as far as i am concerned you shouldnt have let him have sex with you more than at least 3 times if hes going to say that!
just tell him that if he has sex with you then he obviously loves you and your preganant with HIS BABY! i know you can have sex and not love the person but if you do it for 1 year a lot then DUH HE LOVES YOU! HES JUS TOO SCARED TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP! BECAUSE HES SCARED HES GOING TO GET HURT BUT I DONT SEE WHY!!! if u need any more advice send me some to bgurl_04@hotmail.com luv ya and good luck! hope i helped! bye
~!~!BeThY!~!~

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i love u aloooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooot like a gajabilion moretimes than cows ok im serious okok say ok gah fine dont awnser ok u ansered horay mexican celebration ay-yi-yi i love u

gah!!! i love you too! gah! thats so weird!lol gah!! how could i not love you Gilbert!! gah u r jus so freakin foine!!lol your the bestestest!!
*muah* `BeThY

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IM STARTING A CHARITY THAT HELPS COWS LIVE AND BECOME SEXIER but everybody likes chicken umm i need help save the cows eat a vegitarian or a chiken ,HELP!!!ifu want to donate tak to me at cowsrsexy213

well we do need the beef! lol i like chicken too! its the best! and chickens r cute! so dont hate! lol j/k i love cows too! and sry but cows cant be sexy! only me! haha j/k luv ya gilb! *muah* ~BeThY

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theirs this really foine girl at school and shes like whoo and im like hey sexy and she like woooo and im like hey sexy and shes like hey baby and im like right on fellow sisterin. gah shes so foine gah hey i new a goober once he was like so foine and i was like woooooo gah hey yall u single girls goober is single and sexy and foine ask him out at cowsrsexy213 hesreally fine but back to thisfine girl shes like sexy what do i do lol

GAH! YOU KNOW YOU THINK I'M SEXY! YOU JUST LOVE MY BUTT! i dunno what you think you are but to me you're freakin sexy! haha but im not to you!:'( haha love ya gilbo!

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trent does have some issues. he keeps like making up quotes to go in the bibbles and crap. its kinda weird haha! lets stop being friends with him lol just kidding
x0x-Chloe

what's a bibble? i've never heard of it!haha he is weird! we are so mean! yeah let's tell trent:WE DON'T WANT TO BE FRIENDS ANYMORE CUZ UR MENTALLY RETARDED! HAHA that's like telling ayla we don't want to be friends with her because she's blonde! haha good time!
XoXo-BeThAnY

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hey bethany! I wanted to leave you a message its not really a question. haha I love you so0o much girlie. And Im glad we became friends in 5th grade. Because you're the best!! I guess this is all haha I love ya again! x0x-Chloe

omg gurlie ur the sweetest short 7th grader ever! omg i seriously think that trent(jus one of the short ones)has some kinda mind problem! well thanks for leavin me a message! luv ya!
XoXo-BeThAnY

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i've really been down in the dumps! my boifriend jus dumped me and we've been going out for about 3 years now! how do i get over this? this really sucks!

okay first of all let me say i'm so0o sorry he dumped you! i hope he wasnt too harsh on you and now ill get down to business. now this whole 3 year thing! thats a really long time and i understand the way you feel. if he truly loves you then ya'll will more than likely get back together. it could happen so dont think it won't! that's a bad way to think! and then if he is really over you then that's just the way he feels. ya'll can still be friends and from that experience then ya'll can be just about best friends! you'll find someone new thats right for you! hes probably right in front of you and you just dont know it! i hope i helped! good luck!
~!Bethany!~

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