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s0o confused....
this is going to be very long. I'm in love with this guy and i have been for about 8 months i would say. We have been having sex for a year now and he just thought of me as u kno-a sex friend. I'm the only one he's been having it with since we started bein together but ive had past partners,one was his really close friend,and now i've quit for him. He got me pregnate. Yes, im 2 1/2 months pregnate with his baby. And i love him. I know evry day girls say "oh i love him soo much" But this is for real. I've lied 4 him. been through court 4 him, fought girls 4 him, and gave up my boyfriend 4 him. Whenever i tell him how i feel he says "I care about u too but i`m just not ready to go out with you...i do love you and i do wanna be with you...I just can't.." or he uses diff. excuses how 'i went wit his friend he can't do that to him' WELL Y NOT?! I try avoiding him..you know, trying to make him miss me and come crawling back to me.. but that's hard to do when he's the cutest most popular guy in school with girls practically lined up. He doesn't need me. I need advice..what should i do? i know i can't make him love me back..but maybe just to have him want to be with me and understand how i feel a little more. Don't say love notes-cuz i tried...or phone calls..or long talks..i tried everything. Don't call me dumb..please!!! i`m just hopelessly in love.... =( help!
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i'm really sorry for what you're going through. i can tell you really love him. i think he's just scared, maybe because he's about to be a father. the truth is:i dont know how you feel, and the only thing i can really tell you to do is stick by his side. be there for him whenever he needs you and let him know you're there. i hope i helped you some. good luck with him and the baby.
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he doesnt want to go out with you because hes not ready to settle down and become a dad...just avoid him for a little bit and when your like 6-7 months preg. or showing....just say...hey...you know OUR baby is going to be born soon....and weve been thru so much....are you atleast going to be a dad to it???? and just let him have his fun or w/e till the baby is ready 2 come out and then its serious and he needs to settle down and be with you....and tell him u didnt just climb on top of yourself and be pregnant...he did it too...i mean he needs to father it....
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im soo sry you are going through this! maybe you just think you're in love but after all he HAS to love you to have sex with you. if he enjoys it with YOU then he does love you. i think he is just scared. tell him what you thik aout everything.and as far as i am concerned you shouldnt have let him have sex with you more than at least 3 times if hes going to say that!
just tell him that if he has sex with you then he obviously loves you and your preganant with HIS BABY! i know you can have sex and not love the person but if you do it for 1 year a lot then DUH HE LOVES YOU! HES JUS TOO SCARED TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP! BECAUSE HES SCARED HES GOING TO GET HURT BUT I DONT SEE WHY!!! if u need any more advice send me some to bgurl_04@hotmail.com luv ya and good luck! hope i helped! bye
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Dear soo confused,
Whoa! back up a sec... How old are you? If you're still in high school no guy is worth being pregnant for.(no matter what his excuses are) First decide if you are going to keep the baby. (if you don't its PERFECTLY OK) Make him aware that if you do then he is responsible until the child turns 18. CHILDREN ARE A FULL TIME COMMITMENT they don't give you time off on anyday for anything. If you are going to keep having sex use protection (for your own good). Also there are planned parenthood clinics out there and a birthline website and phone number(its totally confidential)the number is (858) 270-2491 (if you live in San Diego) the website is www.birthline.signonsandiego.com. They can help you out better than me, I think. Good Luck
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I would think that he is using you. Watch out.
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