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confused....
i`m confused...for 9 months now i've been trying to get with this guy and well...i've been thinking...when i finally go out with him i'm gonna lose a lot of things. I`m not gonna have the fun of TRYING to get him...it's like i want to go out with him sooo bad...but then when i finally do-i have something to lose?...is this a normal feeling???
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Hi Sweetie,
We all tend to have these feelings from time to time. Well if you are paranoid me you ahev them ALL THE TIME. However, try to focus on the positive things. ...Once you get him you will be all... a coupple... you'll hold hands... have a first kiss... have to give eachothert cute presents on Chirstmas/Valentine's Day/birthday. It's going to be fun and exciting, I promise. If you think positive the other feelings will start going away.
Take care and be good! ~Blessed Be...
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It is a normal feeling. I think you should go out with him. You will probably have a great time and then will excited to do other things with this guy. I hope i helped.
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Thats quit possibly the oddest out of this world questoin, you sound like you only want to flirt, dont go out! matter of fact, dont get involved with someone cuz chances are, your going to leave them later on in life. ur screwed
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This is completley normal. Trust me haha i`ve felt it a lot when it comes to guys. I think you sound like the type to seeks out "hard to get guys" and the closer and closer you come to getting the guy the further and further you feel you need to push away because your afriad to get hurt. Most everyones afraid of getting hurt but i dont think its something we need to hold over ourselves and be concerned about it all the time. Just keep going for what you believe in and "follow your heart" - =] if you feel like the outcome is going to hurt you keep searching for something better, theres plenty out there and only one waiting for you. Good Luck
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