Question Posted Saturday February 12 2005, 1:33 pm
therez this kid who i was involved w/ for lyke a month very physically he was going out with someone at the time but i was his unofficial gf who he talked to and did stuff with, and he promised he'd break up with her, then i come back after a weekend and he's broken up with her, and i expect him to ask me out, and some other girl's on his arm, i feel like ive been used and i should be pissed, so how should i ger back at him? no really i want to burn this jerk, he ignores me everyday and acts like we were never all over each other, how should i get revenge?
hopelessnlove answered Saturday February 12 2005, 9:33 pm: i know the feeling of being used, but don't get back at him. leave things the way they are. And def. don't let him use you anymore. Just the fact that he had a gf while yall were "unofficailly together"pretty f'd up. But hey crap happens. Seriously get this kid outta your life, dont acknowledge him, don't go back to him, its the best kinda of revenge. [ hopelessnlove's advice column | Ask hopelessnlove A Question ]
MiZzAdViCe16 answered Saturday February 12 2005, 4:33 pm: i dont think the answer is revenge i think its talking i would have a talk with him and tell him how bad this whole thing made you feel and how much he hurt you and also that it would be nice if he stoped ignoring you and then if he doesnr respond to it well then you go for revenge
lilhelper2 answered Saturday February 12 2005, 3:56 pm: dear revenge wanting girl, so if he doesent have a g/f and you dont have a b/f then this is what you have to do. find a boy that you really like. see if he will go out with you. if he does than you can get up in you b/f's face and do all the things that you used to do with the other guy. make the other guy look and see that you are with some one else and that will make him jealouse and if it doesnt it will most likley make him horney and want you back. signed lil'helper [ lilhelper2's advice column | Ask lilhelper2 A Question ]
arielle answered Saturday February 12 2005, 3:42 pm: well if you really hate him that much then flirt with every other guy possible. that makes guys jealous from experience. [ arielle's advice column | Ask arielle A Question ]
Alilash answered Saturday February 12 2005, 3:05 pm: I think maybe you should get another boyfriend. That might make him mad and sorry that he was mean and cruel to you. Make him sorry that he did that in the first place. [ Alilash's advice column | Ask Alilash A Question ]
swimbabe1092 answered Saturday February 12 2005, 2:57 pm: Get rid of him he is a big Player, but u shouldnt have been messing with him neway he was playing with u 2 so just dump him not a good friend AT ALL [ swimbabe1092's advice column | Ask swimbabe1092 A Question ]
shake answered Saturday February 12 2005, 2:57 pm: Your stupid to let him cheat on a girldfriend with you. HOOKER. you deserve all of it. Your getting the revenge you needed a while ago for starting this. Theres no revenge for you to throw out in this situation. [ shake's advice column | Ask shake A Question ]
specialk answered Saturday February 12 2005, 2:56 pm: You need to tell him new girlfriend that he's cheating on her with you. And then tell his girlfriend that he just broke up with that he was cheating on her with you also. After busting him twice (even though one was a lie) girls won't even want to touch him or go near him. Make him look like the biggest creep. If the first girl doesn't believe you, have her on the phone, 3 way that guy and say shit like "You liked me when you were with HER why dont you talk to me anymore? remember all that stuff we did?" and his ex will hear his response and believe you. Rumors will start in no time. I'm not a big fan of revenge, but this is just too easy and I hate guys that use girls. Good luck, if you do this plan tell me how it goes.
KaYlA1213 answered Saturday February 12 2005, 2:55 pm: go up to him in front of his new girl and say "sorry i had to cancel our date last night," and then look at his girlfriend and say, "oh hi, i'm (name), his girlfriend, and who are you?" even if you're not his girlfriend, he loses his girl, you feel better, and she knows what a jerk he is and finds someone better. i hope i helped!
*~KaYlA~* [ KaYlA1213's advice column | Ask KaYlA1213 A Question ]
gsngirl7 answered Saturday February 12 2005, 2:48 pm: Tell him to get a life. He obviously isnt worth it if he would do something like that. If you want to get revenge though, dont do anything he would do. Dont stoop to his level. Hope my advice helps! [ gsngirl7's advice column | Ask gsngirl7 A Question ]
xOCarrie answered Saturday February 12 2005, 2:29 pm: Your right you should be angry, but you probablly shouldnt get involved with guys like that, they can be also known as players - big time. But honestly the thing you should do for your "revenge" is just to ignore him. I know you might here that from everyone but its true, because once he`s heartbroken over a girl he actually cared about you he`ll see you walking around in happiness and it`ll destroy him. Who knows he may even feel destroyed now - guys are really good at making them look like the asshole and like nothing bothered them. So just ignore him and continue life in happiness. Trust me there are way better guys then him out there. [ xOCarrie's advice column | Ask xOCarrie A Question ]
XSugarPieX77 answered Saturday February 12 2005, 2:07 pm: Revenge does sound good in this situation but you dont want to stoop down to his level. Hes an imature ass and i'm sure you can do better then him. Guys shouldnt act like that. Though, if you want to get back at him, while hes with his new "Girlfriend" go up to him and be like i cant believe you didnt call me after what we did last night and the girlfriend will think omg hes cheating on me lol. Good Luck.
~Brina~ [ XSugarPieX77's advice column | Ask XSugarPieX77 A Question ]
chrirett answered Saturday February 12 2005, 1:54 pm: Spread rumours about him saying things like his dick is small. and try to break him an his g/f up by tellin her things bout him. Maybe go up to him and talk to him while nobody is within hearing range and then act shocked and slap him across the face then tell everybody that he tried to grope you that'll piss his g/f off.
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