Well..ever since about november i have liked this guy i go to skool with..we talk online and he calls me sumtimes and we have hung out a couple of times..well when i see him around all his other friends..he acts nothing like that around me and it seems like our friendship isnt as good as the other peoples and this just crushes me...ive told him before that i like him but he just wants to be friends..ALSO i have a big problem with depression/anxiety and whatnot and he used to be really worried and he would help me alot but lately him and my firneds dont seem to care..i ALWAYS help them with their problems but when i need help im just "bitching" ugh..now one of my friends is mad at me cuz i have been throwing too much on her lately and she says that the guy i like is getting fed up with me..i asked him and he swears he never said anything like that and hes not..but idk wut to do
People will get tired of hearing it if you are negative all the time.It tends to put them in a bad mood. And depressed people are usually negative a lot of the time. Being your friend (bf/or gf) has probably gotten to be just to much
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XoPuNkInPiEoX answered Tuesday April 5 2005, 12:08 am: FIRST AND FOREMOST OF ALL:lose them all! if the guy you like is going to act like a jerk around his friends and try to be nice around you...ditch him! When he calls you just tell him you can't talk or you have to go, and when he IMs you then ignore him! then lose your friends! If you have to walk around school alone then that's what it takes! Maybe you are just looking at what they are doing wrong and not what you are doing wrong.Im not saying you are wrong but maybe you just dont see what you are doing. I've done it before so don't feel bad!All you have to do is NOT BE FRIENDS WITH THEM and your problem is solved! just make some new friends! sry i didn't help much! good luck!
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