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sry so long..please help
Ok well theres a couple of things..ever since 4th grade me and this girl have been friends..once we started middle school we didnt see each other much and seemed to get in alot of fights..we are friends again now but only at like school but eversince the begging on this year..her and my best friend are like the greatest friends now..she left my lunch table to sit with her..she hardly calls me anymore and we like never hang out anymore...sometimes i will go to the table she moved to so i can talk to her or w.e but half of the time she wont even look at me or talk to me..just ignores me. Then the other day i walked passed her in the hallways like 3 times that day and i said hi each time but she wouldnt say anything back..and once after skool i went up to her and said hi..then she didnt answer and seen her other friend and shoved me out of the way to go talk to her..i ask her if shes mad at me about sumthing but she says no. wtf is going on..everytime i try and talk to her all she does is deny it all or get mad
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why dont you try to call hert and talk to her explain to her how you feel make her understand
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She may not be mad at you but my guess is she doesn't like you. Don't waste anymore time trying to be friends with her.Why subject yourself to that treatment.
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She says nothing is wrong, but obviously something is wrong otherwise you wouldn't be here right? Now there could be a number of reasons why, but my gut feeling tells me that they both talk behind your back. Now your best friend might have her opinion swayed by this girl whom you've known since the 4th grade. Maybe you did something to her inadvertently...did you both like the same boy? did you say something about her behind her back (even if it wasn't bad)? girls like to gossip...and my gut feeling tells me that this is the case. Girls can be very cruel...I'd say just ignore them... I know this may be hard because you are all (supposedly) friends, but if they treat you like this, then don't bother with them. Making new friends isn't really that hard. Eventually everyone will mature up and this will be all in the past. This is when you confront them. When all is said and done, you should hopefully have new friends, and figure out what the problem was with your "old" friends. If you can't wait this long, write your best friend letters and hand it to her without the other girl seeing.... explain in the letter that you want this to be discreet. If she is truly your friend, then she should respect this. Good Luck!!
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