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my bff got a tattoo when she was 6. i never knew they could give tattoos to a six year old. its thorns tied in a knot and is on her lower back. she asked for a tattoo and her parents just brought her. shes was pretty strong. but is it ok to get a tattoo at 6. could they give tattoos to 6 year olds. her parents picked the thorns on her back/butt does that mean something. (link)
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It depends on what you mean by 'is it ok'. If they got it done, chances are that it is legal. It's not smart to get it that young though because when she grows, the tattoo will probably distort and stretch and she will have to get it redone often from what i've heard. I don't know anything about the thorns or the symbolism though.
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are there any ways or techniques
or objects that can make an
orgasim last longer?
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If you're a girl, there's a possibility to have more than one. I don't know much about that though. What I DO know is that if you're a guy there is a way to also do this but it can hurt you badly if you do it wrong and just doesn't sound worth the risk. I'm sure if you look for it on google you can find it. As for making one last longer, I really don't think that that's possible. You can make it more intense if you hold back for longer, are more turned on or just haven't had an orgasm in a while though.
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15/f
what qualties do guys look for in a girl like honestly? (link)
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i'm sick of people thinking that men are so shallow. it's defintely not bodies that attract me in a possible girlfriend. i would much rather be with an intelligent, funny, trustworthy, nice (to an extent;)) girl that shares my interests but isn't the prettiest than just a pretty face with no brains and who is a complete and total bitch.
it really isn't that much about looks. maybe to other guys, that's just my opinion, but i would say maybe 30-50%TOPS of what attracts me to a girl is her looks (her face, i mean). the whole body thing is even further down on the scale.
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So i'm a teenage girl. My only imperfection is being about 30 pounds overweight. (but i'm an hourglass so it's kind of okay) I've only had one boy call me, and the other 2 were basically guys who I had already asked out, so they called me to sort of verify the date.
The one who asked for my number had a mental disorder- Asburger's Syndrome anyway.
MY POINT IS- Most of my friends have boyfriends, but everyone is automatically unattracted to me. My friend has this perfect boyfriend and she's all perfect. Why can't I be her?
Don't say "oh sweetie it will be fine. everyone feels this way as a teenager." i've heard that to many times.
I'm mortally depressed and i try to hide it but i think most people can see through it. I'm also jealous of anything that someone else has that i don't have. But it's not obvious. I'm very pretty and i have this gorgeous hair that really stands out and everyone envy's. I'm breasty enough too.
So why am I single? i just don't get it.
I only feel okay with myself when I have a significant other. When I do not, I'm pretty much always on the brink of suicide. (link)
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i know EXACTLY how you feel. that's how i felt a while ago. its tough. i really was close to suidice. the thing is that the only advice you really can get is the advice that you don't want to hear but is so true. just wait a bit, it'll get better. i know how you probably hear about people having problems in relationships and saying "oh, you're so lucky that you're single" and you just want to kill them, but it IS kind of true. the grass is always greener on the other side. until you find the one that is, but being a teenager, i doubt that will happen any time soon for you. just have fun really. that's all you can do. have fun and be social. that really helps. be really outgoing. your depression will get better, you will be happier and you'll get a boyfriend. i can pretty much guarantee it. hope i helped :)
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I've liked this girl and she's liked me for 3 and a half years now. We've had our problems but have pretty much always stayed best friends. Now we've been going out for a while and senior prom is coming up. We're going to go together. Our relationship is going amazing. I've never felt more comfortable with anyone, not even family. My family loves her and vice-versa. I'm so in love. Everything is great. Except for one thing. I like another girl. She has a boyfriend and likes me back. She offered to get drunk with me on Saturday and said she thinks that her boyfriend is cheating on her. She basically straight out OFFERED to break up with her boyfriend for me tonight and make out with me. I don't know what to do. I love my girlfriend so much and don't want to mess any of it up but I really lust for this other girl and like hanging out with her a lot. I know that I just need to get over the other girl but I'm having a really tough time doing so. Any ideas? :) (link)
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carayotie,
the only reason that i didn't make out with her today was because i had my girlfriend in mind. thanks for the advice though. i just need to know how to get this other girl out of my head.
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Im getting braces in like a month and I pretty much dont know anything about them. like how many different kinds are there and colors and what you do to take of them??- (link)
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i don't know a whole lot about them either. i know that they'll hurt a LOT for the first few days but not as much after that. as for colors, i'm pretty sure they can be changed at almost any time. they're just different colored rubber bands.
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Okay, so I've been wondering about something & I wanted to hear you guys opinions.
My boyfriend & I have been together for five years & we are both twenty one. I love him, I'm in love with him & there is no one else I'd rather be with. We're still young so we don't really talk about marriage but here & there we do say things like "when we get married..." & stuff like that. The other day when we were together we were talking about weddings & how my culture's weddings differ from his & he said he'd want to get married at a court house because it doesn't cost a lot. Then he said or he'd want to get married on an island & only our close relatives would be invited, like his mom & my mom. I know I want to marry him in the future & I've never straight up asked him "do you wanna marry me" but I think, well, if he's been in a relationship this long with me doesn't that obviously mean something? Like apparently he wants a future with me if he's been by my side for five years now? But then again I think, just because we've been together for so long doesn't mean marriage is definite, you know?
So my question is, do you guys think that when a couple has been together for so long that it means marriage is in the future? Are people in long relationships because they want to get married eventually? Ugh, in my head I know what I'm trying to ask but I can't seem to get it out the way I want it to but I guess these questions will do. Haha. Thanks for reading this & all opinions are appreciated! (link)
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not all people are interested in getting married. i would say a great majority are, but some people just think that you don't need a title to prove your love to people and that actions and words are much stronger than titles. people aren't always in long term relationships to get married. everything is an experience and that makes everything practice for something else. just because someone is in a long relationship doesn't mean that they want to get married, maybe they just want the experience of a long term relationship and/or will end up changing their mind and wanting to or actually get married.
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I think ive become desensitized to all the violence on tv. When I hear statistics about 10000 people dying somewhere I don’t feel anything. Its horrible but theres something wrong with me! Am I a sosciopath/psychopath? (link)
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it would be much different to see 10000 people dying or for your life to be in danger but to be unphased by hearing a statistic like that is normal to me.
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okay, II'm thinking about buying some trimspa ...I have a few questions about it....there are thirty pills in the box and it says four diet pills a day is recommened, the three is the miminum. So, that's about ten days worth if I take three a day. Now, in those ten days, will I lose weight/?????????//
I'm thinking about taking the diet pills about eleven days before my prom...the 28th... Will the weight loss show by then?
Has anyone taken this diet pill? Does it work? Please help me....
when should I take it? and what should I eat while I'm taking the diet pills? I'm totally new to taking diet pills.
Also..this might be a stupid question...but will diet pills show up in urine drug tests?
And I know that I shouldn't be taking them because of my lukeimia, but I'm just inquiring about it... (link)
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i don't know much about those kind of pills but i do know that they really do say results not typical just as the person above me said. i'm not sure on this but i assume they just pack it with ginseng, caffiene, guarana and other things that boost your metabolism. the reason that you would have to take three a day is so you don't have a hardcore crash which is what you would have the day before/of prom. all of the being hyper and manic would make you move around more and lose weight. i would NOT suggest it at all. that's just my opinion though.
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are guys proud of getting hickeys? i mean.. is it embarrassing for them or do they take a kind of "sexual bragging pride" in it? opinions please! (link)
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well i'm a guy and when i get hickeys i don't bring any attention to them. if people mention them i just brush it off. if they keep heckling me about it, i just use the 'at least i'm getting some' card. my girlfriend really wanted one though because she had never had one. i think that was just an i-want-to-experience-everything-at-least-once kind of thing though. basically, i don't see anybody going around bragging about them, but yeah i think it's kind of a territory thing too.
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for school i have to write about an event that "broke down a wall" for racism meaning something that like opened new doors and stuff? i can't think of anything! does anyone have ideas? (link)
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if you don't want to go with the cliches, there's always the tuskegee airmen.
http://imdb.com/title/tt0114745/
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tuskegee_Airmen
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i heard the ddr is a fun way to burn calories and work out ..is this true? and if so, how effective is it, how long do i have to play for? and are there other ways to exercise that are fun and you don't really notice you're actually exercising, like playing ddr? (link)
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i remember back for playstation 1 i had ddr. it's a REALLY fun game in the arcades but not so much at home. the mats slip and don't register very well unless you have a lot of money for a harder one. it costs a lot of money if you go to the arcade a lot though.
my two favorite ways to exercise without noticing it are
-playing laser tag (you might not have that by you)
-dancing at shows (or moshing or hardcore dancing, depending on who you ask. this really depends on the music scene that you are into)
basically, you can't exercise without spending money unless you go running which is torture. i strongly suggest going to shows. there are so many people in the room, so it's hot enough already, plus you get all of your emotions out and feel great afterwards.
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i just got it. and its the kind that you put on at night (roll on) and it really itches. like really bad. but for for the first 10-15min. and then it works great in the morning. my questions is is suppose to itch?
and if i stcrath it while its itching (at night) will it affect how it works in the morning.? (link)
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it sounds like you're allergic. i wouldn't suggest continuing use of it no matter how good it smells.
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Does everyone always suck the first time you make out? And can you tell that it's someone's first time makeing out? (like if someone who hadnt made out before, made out with someone who had)
Thanks so much!! (link)
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yeah, ladyh answered it pretty well.
basically, in my opinion, you would be able to tell if it was someone's first time making out if one person had made out before. i've never made out with anyone that hadn't already been made out with, but i know that i was pretty bad before i started. i got quickly better though. it just takes a tiiiiny bit of practice.
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this is going to be hard to explain. but im going to try my best. anyway, 16/f. i think i might be bisexual. but thats a whole nother story.
anyway, me and this one girl, LP, are really good friends. i think im in love with her. seriously. i always walk her to class and everytime she sees me she gives me a hug. and when we text, she usually calls me baby and sweetie. now im not sure if all that is because she is being friendly or what. anyway, i cut. sunday night i cut and i told her monday. well she got extremely mad. she hasnt talked to me all day. and its really hard not to talk to her. but she asked me why i cut and i told her its because i realized something and i dont want it to be true but it is.and the realization that i made is that i love her. and she wants me to tell her what i realized, but i cant tell her that. and i told her if i did tell her things would probably change and i cant handle that right now. she just said ok. i mean i really want to tell her, but i dont wanna get shot down, like i know i would. she means so much to me and i DONT want to lose her. but i cant just say hey, im in love with you. i seriously doubt she likes girls AT ALL. but i just cant stop thinking about her. shes a junior and i told myself i would tell her by the time she graduated. but im thinking i should do it sooner, so at least if she ends up hating me or something we could work it out by the time she graduates so we wouldnt leave on bad ways. so my question is, do you think she could like me at all? and, should i tell her or wait? (link)
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its basically up to you. its your call to decide whether it's just the way that girls normally act or if there is something more between you guys. maybe you could ease into the subject one day, hint at it or something. just read her reaction, you don't need to ask her outright.
maybe something like...
i don't know :)
saying that a girl is hot on tv and asking if she agrees or something. i'm not sure about exactly what to say, but i know that that's a good way to go about it.
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14 - f - 8th grade
well on friday march 31, this kid was talking to me
& he was telling me how he has to take a bunch of
quizzes & tests that day cause he is going on
vacation (for spring break). so i asked him where
he was going & he said florida. & i was like lucky!
and he was like, "not right now" which i thought was
creative (cause he had to take a bunch of quizzes
later that day).
so, today, when i saw him, i was like, "omg you got
so tan!" & he looked down & smiled [ i couldn't tell if
he blushed ] & said, "tha-anks" & i wasn't sure if i
had accidentally changed my tone of voice when i
had said that. cause i mean, if i did, was he making
fun of me? or if i didn't, why did he change his
tone like that? like you know when you say "he-ey!"
to someone you haven't seen in a long time? he
said "tha-anks" like that. you know?
so, was he flirting with me? i'll take any advice like,
what i should do tomorrow, how you would have
reacted if you were him, etc. thanks in advance! (link)
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he probably was unsure of what to say to that. that's what the hesitation in his voice was. as for flirting... flirting is confusing. it's hard to differentiate between flirting and kidding around. i don't think this was though. chances are that you've flirted with him without even knowing.
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i really need advice. I have track for two hours everyday after school and my school is about 30 minutes away from where i live, and so i basically get home at 6. this week i have a HUGE science project due, a math quiz thursday, french quiz wednesday, english project sue[[that i barely started]], history test monday[[maybe tuesday]] and PLUS my birthday party is saturday! AND i give a history presenttion tomorrow!!! im real stressed and i KNOW i dnt have enough time to do ANY of this! in my track you can skip one day, well i ALREADY skipped today!!! and i feel bad skipping another day, but im stressing with all my homework and projects and tests and quizes, PLUS i havent taken a shower in TWO days because of it! WHAT SHOULD I DO!!! (link)
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don't skip. let the track coach know what's going on. he/she will be cool with it no matter what. it's for school. that comes first and the coach will understand.
as for your parents, let them know what's going on. tell them everything. take a shower too :)
put on some music. relaxing music. do your favorite thing to do for an hour. just chill. after that, recollect yourself and do what you need to do. it's a matter of prioritizing mostly. pick the most important subjects and do what you need to for those first. skip track until all of this has passed (let the coach know first of course).
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im 16/f. my boyfriend is experienced and has had sex before and i am still a virgin. he fingered me the other day and when he put 2 fingers in it really hurt me. We're planning on having sex like within the next few days. Will it really really hurt beacuse it hurt me so much with just 2 fingers? thanks (link)
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well i'm not a girl so i don't know much about that, but i do know that if he's wider than two fingers (he probably is) then it'll hurt at first. just let him know to go slow at first. it will widen up after a little bit and will be comfortable for the both of you.
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