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this is going to be hard to explain. but im going to try my best. anyway, 16/f. i think i might be bisexual. but thats a whole nother story.
anyway, me and this one girl, LP, are really good friends. i think im in love with her. seriously. i always walk her to class and everytime she sees me she gives me a hug. and when we text, she usually calls me baby and sweetie. now im not sure if all that is because she is being friendly or what. anyway, i cut. sunday night i cut and i told her monday. well she got extremely mad. she hasnt talked to me all day. and its really hard not to talk to her. but she asked me why i cut and i told her its because i realized something and i dont want it to be true but it is.and the realization that i made is that i love her. and she wants me to tell her what i realized, but i cant tell her that. and i told her if i did tell her things would probably change and i cant handle that right now. she just said ok. i mean i really want to tell her, but i dont wanna get shot down, like i know i would. she means so much to me and i DONT want to lose her. but i cant just say hey, im in love with you. i seriously doubt she likes girls AT ALL. but i just cant stop thinking about her. shes a junior and i told myself i would tell her by the time she graduated. but im thinking i should do it sooner, so at least if she ends up hating me or something we could work it out by the time she graduates so we wouldnt leave on bad ways. so my question is, do you think she could like me at all? and, should i tell her or wait?
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It sounds to me, like she has some feelings for you. Believe it or not, most girls DO have an attraction to other girls to some extent. You could be bisexual, but just because you have a crush on ONE girl, does not mean you're bisexual. The whole bisexual thing is very complicated, and its best just to try it out. This girl that you like, she probably has attraction to you to some degree, because she gives you a lot of attention and calls you nicknames. I would tell her about how you feel, and you should also tell her that this bisexual thing is all new to you.
You should just say something like, "I really love our friendship, and you are a really awesome person...." Take it from there. You really have nothing to lose- if you say shes such a good friend, then she should always be your friend, whether you date her, whether you don't, whether you're Bi, or not. :]
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its basically up to you. its your call to decide whether it's just the way that girls normally act or if there is something more between you guys. maybe you could ease into the subject one day, hint at it or something. just read her reaction, you don't need to ask her outright.
maybe something like...
i don't know :)
saying that a girl is hot on tv and asking if she agrees or something. i'm not sure about exactly what to say, but i know that that's a good way to go about it.
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