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Having a crush AND a long term relationship
I've liked this girl and she's liked me for 3 and a half years now. We've had our problems but have pretty much always stayed best friends. Now we've been going out for a while and senior prom is coming up. We're going to go together. Our relationship is going amazing. I've never felt more comfortable with anyone, not even family. My family loves her and vice-versa. I'm so in love. Everything is great. Except for one thing. I like another girl. She has a boyfriend and likes me back. She offered to get drunk with me on Saturday and said she thinks that her boyfriend is cheating on her. She basically straight out OFFERED to break up with her boyfriend for me tonight and make out with me. I don't know what to do. I love my girlfriend so much and don't want to mess any of it up but I really lust for this other girl and like hanging out with her a lot. I know that I just need to get over the other girl but I'm having a really tough time doing so. Any ideas? :)
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Tough break guy. a few words of advice. Do not even THINK about breaking up with your special lil friend. you hear me? good. as for this crush thing. dude. forget her. yes, it might be hard, but do it. if she thinks her bf is cheating on her, she might be thinking of a way to get her mind off him that includes you.You want some ways to get your mind off this annoying girl(who is proboly jealous of what you and your gf have), here you go. Plan overtime for some get togethers with your gf. More dates and together time. It'll help you realize just how special she is and help you forget this other person. if you break up with your gf, you will regret it the moment you do, and she'll want to know what happened. Just spend more time with her so you are thinking 'bout her, NOT this "other woman". ok dude? good.
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If you love your girlfriend, you won't do anything to fuck it up. So keep your hormones in tact, and stay faithful to your girlfriend. Things are going good, why ruin it?
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carayotie,
the only reason that i didn't make out with her today was because i had my girlfriend in mind. thanks for the advice though. i just need to know how to get this other girl out of my head.
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I know this wont mean much but if you really care for your girlfriend, keep her in mind and think about how if you actually made out with this other girl, how much that would hurt her. I suggest just staying away from this other girl and avoid any other situations involving her.
Good luck.
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