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how do guys think?
18/f
Like seriously how the hell do they think!!! I dont understand them. They like you one day they hate u the next! like all i want is a nice guy who i can cuddle up to and tell everything and yes do other stuff ;).. but i jsut feel so lonely! My sister told me that guys just arent like girls. they arent so sensitive .. and i mean i dont think i could ever be with a girl because guys are just amazing to me.. but i just dont understand
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there really are good guys out there. it took me 2 years of bad relationships just to begin to understand them a little. although they might not always admit it they probably want a relationship with the cuddling and the emotional stuff but of course they want to seem tough so they don't say that. guys are probably just as clueless when it comes to the female mind as we are to them. start by becoming friends with alot of guys and they'll introduce you to more guys. after those two years of searching for a guy that would really care about me i realized i was really in love with my best friend. he had the whole package, body, understanding, compationate, loves to cuddle (and do other stuff). of course when he's with his guy friends he gets stupid but that's how all guys are going to be. so meet some guys, then you'll meet some more guys. make friends with them so maybe they'll open up to you so you can see the real them inside. its like a present, you have to open it to see what it is before you regift it. see what's inside of the guys before you forget about them as boyfriend material. hope i helped a little
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this is so true. haha two days ago my ex boyfriend was like i still have feelings for you and the next he's all like 'you should really go kill yourself' haha i've been nothing but nice to him...
but guys are like girls. they want to be love and held just as much as girls do.. only girls show it.. and guys are sensitive too.. but they think they need to look up to the 'guy perspective' and how there all big bad and tough..
haha yeah sometimes i'm like wtf. i should be a lesbian. girls know what you want. and there would be no problems right ;]
one day you'll find the right guy who will pursue your needs =] just don't look for him. let love find you.
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Since no one is (truely) both a guy and a girl, you'll have trouble getting an answer to that ;) . Girls think emotionally. Guys think intellectually. That doesn't mean girls are less smart, just that they consider the impact on others before they do something. Maybe this image will help you:
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