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I feel "behind" in everything
So i'm a teenage girl. My only imperfection is being about 30 pounds overweight. (but i'm an hourglass so it's kind of okay) I've only had one boy call me, and the other 2 were basically guys who I had already asked out, so they called me to sort of verify the date.
The one who asked for my number had a mental disorder- Asburger's Syndrome anyway.
MY POINT IS- Most of my friends have boyfriends, but everyone is automatically unattracted to me. My friend has this perfect boyfriend and she's all perfect. Why can't I be her?
Don't say "oh sweetie it will be fine. everyone feels this way as a teenager." i've heard that to many times.
I'm mortally depressed and i try to hide it but i think most people can see through it. I'm also jealous of anything that someone else has that i don't have. But it's not obvious. I'm very pretty and i have this gorgeous hair that really stands out and everyone envy's. I'm breasty enough too.
So why am I single? i just don't get it.
I only feel okay with myself when I have a significant other. When I do not, I'm pretty much always on the brink of suicide.
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I am sooooo feeling you girl.
I will admit to being a bit chubbier than the average girl my age. I blame my horrible metabolism, because I'm very athletic and eat next to nothing.
But I figured out a loooong time ago, that there's going to be at least ONE guy out there who will love me despite the fact that I struggle a little with my weight.
You're a teenager. You have a long life ahead of you. There's like 6 billion people in this world. That makes about 3 billion guys. Out of those 3 billion guys, you're going to find one who loves with totally and completely, no matter yor figure or insecurity.
Give yourself a self-confidence boost, eat a salad (Or some chocolate, whatever floats your boat) and go for a run and listen to some nice, upbeat music.
You'll feel a lot better for it. Chin up love, and face the darker before the dawn.
-Leah
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STOP TRYING SO HARD
what most people hate is someone who just trys too hard to bepopular or to get a guy. that's desperation honey.
if you are so beautiful then maybe you have this attitude problem
check urself
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well im still a teenager but it took me 2 years of being friend with my boyfriend to accully really get into a serious relationship plus most guys these days are to immature make sure before you date him that you can really have a good time with him.then youll find the pefect one.
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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wow. this just isn't right. you need therapy or a guidance counselor or sumthing because you're going to become like a prostitute or somebody who is desperate to be with someone. you should be happy with who you are as an individual, not the shadow of some guy. the right guy will come, but you have to be patient. interact with guys more, talk, laugh with them. stuff like that.
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first suicide is not the answer it might seem like it but its not. Most guys dont care about 30 pounds the guys out there are just taken or to shy to ask u out. So when you talk to a guy and hes not looking u in the eyes hes most likey likes u
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i know EXACTLY how you feel. that's how i felt a while ago. its tough. i really was close to suidice. the thing is that the only advice you really can get is the advice that you don't want to hear but is so true. just wait a bit, it'll get better. i know how you probably hear about people having problems in relationships and saying "oh, you're so lucky that you're single" and you just want to kill them, but it IS kind of true. the grass is always greener on the other side. until you find the one that is, but being a teenager, i doubt that will happen any time soon for you. just have fun really. that's all you can do. have fun and be social. that really helps. be really outgoing. your depression will get better, you will be happier and you'll get a boyfriend. i can pretty much guarantee it. hope i helped :)
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